Walking in the world, everyone seems to have a huge magnetic force, attracting others to approach. We may meet like-minded friends who hit it off at first sight, but we may also meet people we hate and can't make friends with. Everyone's life journey, to a greater or lesser extent, will experience people who like and people who hate. Liu Yu said in "Send You a Bullet": "Some people are destined to be cancer in your life, and some people are just a sneeze." "When you meet someone you hate, if you fall out with them at will, you will not only lower your own pattern, but also may cause trouble. There are people who are not important in our lives and do not deserve to be angry or turned against them. For people you hate, learning not to conflict with them is a sign of high emotional intelligence.
In life, if you hate a person who turns his face too strongly, he may fall into a senseless entanglement of right and wrong. In the world, everyone's personality is different. Some people are gentle like sheep, while others are like lions, sometimes docile and sometimes irritable. If the person you hate happens to be irritable and prone to temper tantrums, if you get into a conflict with him, it can cause a storm. As a result, it can become unmanageable, hurting others as well as yourself. Constant hard hitting can lead to a lose-lose situation. Manan Tunyu said: "A gentleman can't tolerate what others can't tolerate, can't tolerate what people can't tolerate, and can't do what people can't do." "To be a man, you must have a degree and be able to endure in order to achieve something. For people you hate, don't clash with them, stay calm, avoid edges, and things may turn around. Don't waste energy for small things, and keep your energy to do more meaningful things, which is the manifestation of true wisdom and wisdom.
If you hate someone, don't get angry, don't turn your face, don't get entangled with them, and don't argue repeatedly. In the face of haters, learn to choose estrangement gracefully. Smile it off and be a tolerant and open-minded person. Understanding a person takes time to validate. Maybe the first impression was not good, but after getting along, I found that I became more and more trustworthy;On the contrary, it is good at first sight, and after contact, it is found that its character is not good, and there are annoying Xi. Don't clash with someone you hate, don't get angry with them, don't get angry with them, and don't get entangled with them, which affects your mood. In the face of the person you hate, don't quarrel with them, but quietly choose to distance yourself. Seeing a person clearly is actually a kind of luck. Don't waste your time with people who don't need it, and spend your energy on people who really treat you well and love you.
When you meet someone you hate, don't get angry about it and don't disrupt the rhythm of your life. Han Xin had suffered the humiliation of his crotch, but he knew that it was difficult to resist alone, so he chose to back down and laughed it off. After that, he focused on learning Xi and eventually became a generation of famous players. He doesn't argue about unworthy people, but weighs the pros and cons and gives himself a chance to grow, which is a wise move. Don't waste your energy on unworthy people, they mean nothing to you. Don't make a fuss over small things, stay calm and don't get entangled with low-level people. Time and energy are precious and should be put to good use. Only those who manage their lives well and truly know how to appreciate you will be close to you.
Interpersonal relationships require fate, meet friends you really like, and manage each other's feelings with your heart. For those who hate it, choose to be estranged. "At no time should one be a slave to one's own emotions, one should not subject all actions to one's own emotions, but should control them in turn." "Treat the people you hate, smile it off, and be tolerant, so that you have your own pattern and don't cause trouble for yourself. Learn to make quality friends, make progress together, and life will be better.