I stressed not to rely too much on feelings, especially when adults are getting nowhere. Because their feelings are often worthless. I think that if a person can't bring you money, then you should not hesitate to remove it.
However, many people are concerned about this and are bound by the junk culture of "leave a line and see each other later". They may ask if it would be embarrassing to need their help later if we deleted someoneHowever, don't be afraid, and don't be embarrassed. Because you're a poor ghost in the first place, those dick friends of yours are pretty much the same, and it's not a big deal to lose them.
My way of doing things is probably more decisive, and I don't like the kind of gibberish that says "stay a line, we'll see you later". As long as a person doesn't have a financial relationship with me and only likes to talk about feelings with me, I will block it first and then delete it.
Many people mistakenly believe that friends who can't make money together are just for fun, and that they are either here to help you or need you to help them. But in reality, the world values money and profit more. If you don't have the value of use, even if you lie in someone else's address book for ten years, no one cares. But if you have a value, even former enemies can become partners who make money together.
In this society, money and profit are the link that connects the world. If you violate this principle and pursue something illusory, it will only end up making you miserable.
After work, the stress and cruelty of life multiply. In this cruel world, it's how much money you have in your pocket that matters, not how socially good you are. Many people are caught up in the so-called "successology" and are unaware of it. Everyone's time and energy are precious resources, and we shouldn't waste them on meaningless relationships and false feelings.
My approach is to cut off all relationships that don't bring me monetary returns, and only keep those that I have business dealings with. Some may question why I'm so ruthless, but that's because I know how precious time is.
It's been a long time since I've dealt with free users. I never allow free users to waste my time, whether it's a punctuation, a text, or a **, or I'll feel sick. If I spend my time and energy every day on these boring and cheap feelings, then I will become worthless, which is unacceptable to me.
If a man wants to succeed, he must earn money while he is young. With money, you are qualified to talk about feelings. If you give up your career for the sake of affection, the end result is that everyone around you will leave you, and you will have nothing. What's the use of meeting someone who is destined when your pockets are empty?Can you give her happiness?Is a "thank you for being by my side" enough?Don't be naïve!
Adults should understand that much of our pride and sense of accomplishment is tied to career development and family harmony. The richer you are, the more you will find that you don't really need friends, at most you just have partners to make money with. Putting feelings on money will only make you cheap.
Look at the people who drink all day, socialize, and call each other brothers, in fact, they are poor ghosts. They think they'll get connections and resources, but they don't get anything. Therefore, we must deeply realize that time and energy are precious resources, and we cannot let meaningless relationships and false feelings waste them.
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