Do you know why most men don't want to remarry after a divorce?There is a saying that is very good, no matter how old the toothbrush is, as long as it is used by yourself, even if it is fried, you can accept it, once others take it and brush it, you will never be able to taste it, isn't this the truth?I have a fan who said that he has been divorced for seven or eight years, and the divorce is due to his mother-in-law, and the ruthless character behind it is his mother-in-law, and now the children have grown up. After the divorce of his ex-wife, he experienced two men, but in the end there was no good result, he didn't live a good life, in the end, now he has been showing favor to me, and has been telling me that he regrets the divorce, and now, he wants to come back to take care of the children, and wants to come back to see the children, but I have no idea of remarrying her.
People around me are talking about me, persuading me to remarry for the sake of the child, but, I have been like water, I have persisted for so many years for the child, she wants to come back when she is tired of playing, I can't accept it, I can't accept it at all, I work hard to earn money alone, enough to eat and spend, why should I bear the pain before?I'd rather be alone all my life because of the debts I had all my life before the divorce, and now after the divorce, I still have savings, why wouldn't I do it?So according to statistics, most of the divorces are filed by women now, and after a year and a half after the divorce, many women want to remarry, but the vast majority of men she will not agree. Why do you say that?
I believe that many men must be reluctant before the divorce, she can't let go of this relationship, because she clearly knows that divorce is a huge harm to parents and children, and she has to bear a lot of gossip, after all, in the eyes of the traditional world, the divorce of husband and wife, the vast majority of people will think that it is the man's fault, the man has no ability, no ability, no economy, no strength, and he will not even be able to keep his wife. However, this item is often the opposite, most of the divorced men I have come into contact with must have exhausted all their tricks, suffered all kinds of torture in front of their ex-wives, counted down, cold and violent, and finally chose to bear it alone.
After the divorce, he struggled vertically with his ex-wife, said good things, and even begged for mercy, and used all his strength to make the final retention, and even his father-in-law and mother-in-law knelt down, but in the end they didn't keep this woman. The man suffered an undeserved loss because he didn't want to end the marriage like this, and wanted to try to give the child a complete home, but many times he was defeated by reality. Most women in life are more sensitive, more emotional, feel that men do not bring her a high quality of life, feel that men are not confused, feel that men are not emotional, and are indoctrinated by various poisonous chicken soup and bewitched by girlfriends on the Internet, and filed for divorce in a daze. Because, she has not been beaten by this kind of society, she doesn't know how sinister the hearts of people outside are, thinking that her husband is a bad person, and that all people are good people.
As a result, after the divorce, I went outside to go around and around, and after being spoiled by others, I found that my man was the best. I want to turn back and remarry, but in the world, there is no regret medicine. Women never thought that most men, he has a habit of cleanliness, men can accept a woman that others don't want, but they can never accept a woman who betrays them, and it is absolutely impossible to remarry. In the eyes of men, even if it's an earthen bowl, I always use it for food, I don't feel dirty, but as long as others spit in it, no matter how much they wash it, it's disgusting, right?Besides, originally you drank Red Bull, and people spit in it, do you say you drink it, or change the bottle?
Facts have proved that the man who has been worn by others would rather be single than this marriage, which makes him bruised, and after the divorce, the man only wants to make money with one mind. So, here to advise female compatriots, in fact, the best marriage is not that you earn money to support your family, and I am as beautiful as a flower, but that we work together, you are good, and I am not bad, right?I understand your hard work, you understand my difficulty, cherish that man with eyes full of you. At the same time, I also advise my male compatriots, if you are divorced, if it is not necessary, I advise you not to remarry.
Unless, when you meet that person, who loves you so much that he can't love you, and his eyes are full of you, then he can change his past mistakes and recognize his mistakes. If you don't meet it, then you can make good money, and the rest is. You can get married later, you can not get married, but you must not get married, and those who get married are more terrible than not getting married. A low-quality marriage is not as good as a high-quality single. It turns out that before the divorce, the salary of 20,000 yuan was not enough to spend, and after the divorce, the 2,000 yuan could not be spent, and it could not be spent at all. Therefore, marriage requires two people to run it together, so that they can go further, and it depends on the painstaking efforts of any one person. Do you think that's right?