Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge Netizens asked, as a mother, can you really not lose your temper with your child once?It stands to reason that you really can't lose your temper with your child, and your child will always be a child in the eyes of her mother, no matter how old she is, you should remember that the road that the child has traveled and the things she has experienced are not experienced with her parents, and you need to be patient with your child.
Don't lose your temper with your child in a foolproof situation, these are all things to talk about, children also have self-esteem and need to cherish each other.
We and our children are also blessed in our previous lives, so we have the opportunity to be mothers and sons, mothers and daughters, and this fate is really not easy to come by.
To put it mildly, how many couples are not good at conceiving children, trying every means to get them, but they can't conceive, and they fall off after a few months of pregnancy.
This was the case with one of my neighbors before.
She went through four children to save one, listen to her own words, it is a very normal action to fall, sometimes at home with a broom to sweep the child on the ground, this repeated three times, the last time she was pregnant she was admitted to the hospital to protect the fetus, basically has been in the fetus to give birth.
gave birth to a son and had a child of her own, and she said that this child was not easy to come by, and how many sins she suffered to keep it.
I have to say that this is only a small number of people, most people still have normal pregnancies and productions, and only need normal prenatal checkups.
That's not easy, it's not easy to conceive for ten months, as a mother to bring up day by day, it's really not easy.
If a child makes a mistake, he must be patiently educated, and he cannot lose his temper with the child, which is not good for himself or the child, and a family will not be at peace.
Especially the child's rebellious period, when he will do it against you, I have heard how many such examples around me, the child chose suicide when he was rebellious!
It's the same with educating children, so far, you can't go too far, then he won't be able to accept it, and if you do something stupid, your parents will regret it for the rest of your life.
This problem is a focus of the problem, but also a concern of everyone, once with a friend chat, talking about this topic, my friend's temper is a little big, she told me that the temper will not let the child, I told her that you can't do this, it's not good for the child, especially during the rebellious period, I'm afraid that the child can't think about it, and you need to follow it, and you can't force it to do it.
Once at home on vacation, the child made a mistake, she got angry with the child, her family lived on the twenty-second floor, her daughter climbed up the window and sat there and couldn't come down, at this time the friend was too scared to speak.
The heart was pounding, and at that moment she really understood that she couldn't lose her temper with the child, and the child also had self-esteem, and this time, she relented.
Afterwards, I chatted with me and told me, sister, you are right, you can't get angry with the child, so you told me what happened that time, and said that you will never dare to do it again, what should I do if the child really falls from the twenty-second floor?
Since then, she has communicated well with her children, the family has lived in harmony, and nothing like this has happened again.
How big things to lose your temper are, it's easy to talk about and discuss.
Is it not good for everyone to be happy together, the child's affairs as parents can only give a reference, what she really has to do is to lie in herself, parents tell him about the experience, do a good job of the parents, be responsible for the child's food, housing, transportation, daily life, learning Xi and work to the child to do it himself, the child has a child's thinking, the parent just teaches him the experience and experience, and does what he should do.