Secretly liking someone is an inner drama of heart-beating and self-struggle. That feeling is like a breeze of crush, gently blowing through the heart, bringing inexplicable throbbing. In this one-man show, you silently hid that person in your heart, not daring to show your heart easily, but you couldn't resist the affectionate **.
It's a painful feeling, but it has a unique charm. It reminds you of that person's smile in the silence of the night and gives you a special focus in the busy crowd.
In this crush, you taste the sweetness and bitterness alone, and you will experience some emotional fluctuations and struggles, maybe it will be a good memory in your life, or it may become an eternal regret in your heart.
However, no matter what the outcome is, this experience will be a part of your growth and make you cherish your future love even more.
So, how will it behave if you secretly like someone?
1. Secretly like a person's psychology: silently guard, dare not confess
When we secretly like someone, we always try our best to get close to each other, but we don't dare to confess.
This kind of psychology makes us become cautious in front of the person we like, for fear that our actions will disgust the other person. So, we chose to guard silently, taking in each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, but we didn't dare to show our hearts easily. This ambivalence takes us further and further down the path of crushes.
2. Secretly like the behavior that a person will have:
While secretly liking makes us cautious in front of the person we like, we pay attention to each other's every move and look for empathy with each other. We will pay attention to the other person's dress, speech and behavior, and even the other person's favorite food, **, etc. These attention to detail allows us to get to know each other better and also allow us to find common ground when communicating with each other. In addition to this, we tend to have these performances:
1. Rapid heartbeat: When we think of or see someone we secretly like, the heartbeat may accelerate, which is the body's natural response.
2. Emotional fluctuations: You may feel happy or frustrated because of the other person's every move. One smile from the other person may put you in a good mood throughout the day, while one of the other person's neglects may make you feel frustrated.
3. Miss often: You may miss the person a lot, even when you shouldn't be distracted, such as at work or when studying Xi.
4. Want to be in touch: You may want to reach out to the person more, such as through text messages, **, or face-to-face communication.
5. Changes in self-esteem: Your self-esteem may fluctuate up and down depending on how you feel about the person. You may feel that your self-worth has increased or decreased because of the approval or neglect of the other person.
6. Social anxiety: In front of the person you like, you may feel nervous or uneasy, worried that your words and actions will make the other person dislike.
7. The pain of unrequited love: If the person you secretly like doesn't know your feelings, or he doesn't have the same feelings for you, you may feel bitter and frustrated.
3. The trouble of secretly liking: falling into an emotional quagmire and unable to extricate yourself
It has to be said that crushes are not always rosy.
When we're stuck in a crush, it's easy to get caught up in it. We miss each other all the time and can't concentrate on Xi or work. This kind of distress makes us feel pain in our crush and even affects our normal life. In order to get rid of this trouble, we need to learn to adjust our mindset and make the crush a nice memory in life instead of a burden.
Fourth, the turnaround: bravely confess and open a new chapter
Although secretly liking can bring us some trouble, as long as we are brave enough to confess, it is possible to start a beautiful relationship.
When we have the courage to confess to the other person, we may find that the other person also has a good opinion of us. Such a turn of events makes our crush even more meaningful. Even if confession fails, we are able to learn from it and face our emotions bravely.
Overall, a crush is a beautiful emotional journey. It makes us cautious in front of people we like, pay attention to details, and look for resonance. Although crushes bring us some trouble, as long as we are brave enough to face our emotions, it is possible to start a beautiful relationship.
In the process, we learned how to adjust our mindset and make crushes a good memory in life.
So, when you secretly like someone, you might as well be brave enough to express your heart and let the relationship have a happy ending.