Thanks to a pair of public chopsticks, Yu Chuhui finally let his mother stay at Professor Tao's house as a nanny.
In fact, Ah Chu did not want his mother to take on the role of nanny for the Han family. Not only did he not want his mother, who had worked hard for most of her life, to work hard again, but he also considered the society's perception of the profession of nanny. Although there may be some discrimination, most people still have a dismissive attitude towards this profession.
Experience has taught us that families who can afford babysitting don't always really know how to use it. They often think that as long as they have some money, they will put on a superior posture, and treat the nanny as if they are on guard against thieves, as if they want to extract all their value, let alone give them the respect they deserve. This attitude is fully reflected in the Han family.
If the two hairy crabs raised by Mr. Han are the philistines of the small citizens, then Professor Tao's pair of chopsticks is the perfect embodiment of his character and upbringing!
01. Passionate people.
In her hometown, Yu's mother was not only oppressed by her parents-in-law, but also suffered from domestic violence by her husband.
The end result is that she is responsible for all the heavy and dirty work in the house.
As a result, the two old men were still burdened with endless troubles, and despite their busy schedules, they missed the opportunity to prepare dinner for their husbands, who had just returned from fishing, and were often subjected to endless complaints, and possibly even injuries to their hands and feet.
However, after the husband cheated on him that year, he used fraudulent means to hang the family's real estate in the name of his in-laws in exchange for a big house, and Yu's mother could only endure and endure humiliation in silence in order to avoid having nothing.
However, when Ah Chu saw that his mother was being abused like this, he felt very angry. He used both emotional and logical persuasion, even at the expense of bitter tactics, and finally succeeded in luring his mother to his side and making her escape from danger.
Despite this, due to Yu's mother's hard work and Xi, she is always reluctant to have a moment of leisure.
Her care and care for Ah Chu is meticulous, holding a rag every day, and only cleaning 2202 spotlessly, which makes Zhu Zhe, who shares a house with her, feel very embarrassed.
Surprisingly, three days have passed, and the scene of Yu's mother wiping railings and drying rags on the balcony was actually seen by the enthusiastic couple of the Han family mother and daughter opposite.
Sitting in a wheelchair, Mrs. Han saw that Yu's mother was so diligent and tidy, on the one hand, she felt distressed for her daughter's busy work, and on the other hand, she was full of envy and jealousy for the "good nanny" she hired.
She was more willing to invest more money, and urged Han Shanshan to try to get Yu's mother to help pry it.
Han Shanshan not only has to take care of his parents who have lost their ability to take care of themselves, but also has to take care of his pregnant daughter, coupled with his own family, having to take care of three different aspects by himself has made him feel extremely tired.
Her mother cared so deeply about her that she was willing to spend money to hire someone to help her with the burden, which was naturally what she longed for.
However, none of them had hired a nanny before, and none of them could satisfy the mother and daughter, either because they felt that someone was not tidy enough at work or because they suspected that their hands and feet were not clean enough.
Apparently, they blame their own bad luck for all these problems and therefore did not find a suitable babysitter.
Seeing that her daughter is about to give birth, she may be really busy if she doesn't find someone to help. The sudden appearance of Yu's mother was like falling asleep and meeting a pillow for the mother and daughter of the Han family.
Therefore, when Mr. Han had nothing to do, he had to walk to Building 2202 of Building 8 to dig people's corners and ask Yu's mother to lend a hand."
Yu's mother was very surprised.
In her eyes, she just came to Shanghai to visit her relatives and was going home after staying with her daughter for a few days, but she still politely sent Teacher Han away without hitting him with a smile.
However, the appearance of Teacher Han also sounded the alarm bell for Ah Chu, that is, Yu's mother never considered living for a long time, but has been silently thinking about going home to be abused.
You have to understand that Ah Chu's real intention in "luring" her mother to her side is to hope that she can get rid of the shackles of "family", not to tell her how much happiness she can bring her, or at least let her have a peaceful rest.
Therefore, her most urgent task now is to try to get her mother to give up the idea of going home, preferably to let her stay with her for a long time, but she absolutely cannot accept that her mother will be a nanny due to fatigue.
If that's the case, what is the difference between her and the father who only cares about exploiting her mother?
02. Establish a bureau.
As expected, Mr. Han, who was eloquent, suffered a defeat in front of Ah Chu.
In desperation, in order to be able to hire such an excellent nanny as Yu's mother, she had to persistently visit the mountain three times.
She first tried to get closer to Yu's mother, and then used her fluent words to persuade Yu's mother, but when Ah Chu realized that something was wrong, the two had become sisters.
Just through Teacher Han's gift to Yu's mother, you can feel her eventful autumn.
However, Ah Chu is not her innocent mother.
Despite her eloquence and communication skills, she firmly disagreed with letting her mother take another risk and go to Han's house to "assist" in caring for two elderly people who were paralyzed.
I have to say that Ah Chu has a deep understanding of his mother. Considering her perfectionist work attitude, it can really exhaust herself if she really encounters a bad host.
Even though Ah Chu is very smart, he is no better than Teacher Han.
She never expected that in order to lure Yueting to her house as a nanny, Teacher Han would actually lay traps step by step, even at the expense of using bitter meat tricks.
In fact, for Yu's mother, this job does not seem to be so important.
However, when she saw the snacks sent by He Minhong's parents and compared her daughter to the "happy child" who was spoiled by her parents, she thought of the debt she owed to Ah Chu over the years, and she couldn't help but feel guilty in her heart.
She was originally tempted, but when she saw Teacher Han fall beyond recognition, her heart suddenly softened, so she agreed to his request.
Therefore, when Ah Chu learned that Yu's mother had started to be busy at Han's house, Teacher Han left eagerly, and she had no choice but to do her best to negotiate conditions for her mother and lower ** in order to fight for the benefits she deserved.
From the outside, Mr. Han seems to be an easy person to communicate with.
Ah Chu agreed to all the requests, but when she turned her head, her expression immediately changed, and she worked with Mrs. Han to plan how to make the most of the value of the nanny so that she could make sure that no money was wasted.
According to the previous agreement, the Han family would pay Yueting 8,500 yuan as a salary every month.
However, this does not cover cleaning and bathing Mr. Han, who is paralyzed and unable to control his bowel movements, and the heavy and dirty work is carried out by community social workers without compensation.
However, the people of the Han family did not pay attention when they spoke.
In order to maximize the use of resources, they even gave up the unpaid external help of social workers, and all the work was handed over to Yueting, the nanny, which was really not beneficial to others or themselves.
Yueting also has to do these jobs in his hometown, and he has to endure the scolding and fault finding fault of his in-laws, and now if he is not scolded, he still has a salary to get, and he will be tired if he is tired.
In addition, she was Xi to hard work, and she did not care about these tasks, and easily sorted them out. Although Ah Chu was sympathetic to her mother and dissatisfied with the capriciousness of the Han family, her mother did not take it to heart, so she did not comment much.
In the end, the two hairy crabs of the Han family really touched Ah Chu's lungs.
03. The attitude shown is hurtful.
Two hairy crabs reveal the true identity of the Han family's mother and daughter.
Earlier, the two hairy crabs prepared by Zhu Zhe made the scumbag Chen Zu lose face, and everyone applauded and praised him.
However, the two hairy crabs of the Han family show the stinginess of the Han family's mother and daughter and the philistine temperament of a small citizen.
Of course, the hairy crabs are not expensive, the Han family is not a wealthy family like the Ye family, Mr. Han bought six to be filial to his parents, if there is no nanny, it is completely understandable.
But the real problem is that the mother-daughter attitude of the Han family is too hurtful.
There are a total of six crabs, and Mr. Han specially instructed Yueting to steam and cook two for the elderly every day, and store the rest in the refrigerator, so it is not a big deal, the elderly only eat one a day, and it is enough to taste its deliciousness.
Despite this, Mrs. Han was still skeptical.
Since she was in a wheelchair and couldn't enter the kitchen to supervise, she asked Yueting to disassemble the crab meat in front of her in the living room in various ways.
Teacher Han would call the old lady every day and ask her to provide relevant information about eating crabs, fearing that Yueting would secretly eat a crab leg.
Yueting was born with a masochistic physique, and for so many years, she has been beaten by her husband and scolded and scolded for not returning. In the Han family, she always swallowed her anger with the attitude of "more things are better than less", but her heart was always full of grievances.
In fact, Ah Chu has always felt deeply guilty.
She believes that it is her own limited ability that forces her mother to take on the role of nanny and take care of others with a humble attitude.
When she sent her mother to change clothes, she unexpectedly saw Mrs. Han's wary attitude towards her mother, and then saw that her mother was arranged to change the old man's diaper and wipe his body and take a bath, and the small universe immediately broke out.
I don't want to do it again!
Although there were a lot of people who pressed her mom to leave quietly, I don't think her behavior was too much. Thinking from her point of view, if my mom was treated like this, I wouldn't even be able to stand those days of pay any longer.
Since you have no mercy, then please do not blame me.
After all, people like He Minhong can rarely tell right from wrong, but Ah Chu's fighting ability is quite good, and one of his fierce quarrels caused the Han family and his couple to lose face.
They first made a mistake when they met a young girl like Ah Chu, who was bitter and sharp-tongued, and they didn't dare to argue at all, and in the end they could only choose to settle the problem peacefully, not even daring to have the slightest objection to the salary.
From the two hairy crabs, we can see the quality of the Han family's mother and daughter, and help Yu's mother get out of the Han family's bottomless pit of "life" predicament, which can be regarded as finding good luck from misfortune!
04. Cultivation and education.
After learning the lessons of the Han family, Ah Chu's heart was filled with more worries in the process of finding a job for his mother.
Therefore, she once again brazenly asked Ye Zhenzhen for help, hoping that she could help her find a "good family". Although the salary may not be high, her character definitely deserves respect.
Therefore, Professor Lao Tao has become the successor of this trend.
Before officially signing the contract, Ah Chu's heart was full of worries, afraid of running into someone like the Han family again. But Professor Tao's meal, more precisely, just a pair of public chopsticks, dispelled all her doubts.
It is no exaggeration to say that Professor Tao's high respect for nannies has had a profound impact on Ah Chu's philosophy of life, and the teachings of Buddhism have untied the knot in her heart that has accumulated over the years.
"Treating people as people and being higher than others" represents a noble cultivation that can treat others equally despite being in a high position;
Under others, to see oneself as a person" embodies a peaceful, not impetuous, not inferior mentality.
In many cases, your social status is not defined by the house you live in or the car you drive, but by your deep understanding of people and things and your level of upbringing.
A person's true education and cultivation is especially outstanding when dealing with service industry personnel such as nannies.
The mother and daughter of the Han family are still just ordinary citizens who have just become rich in the end, and they always pursue profits, and they have not gotten rid of the overly calculating and ruthless character of wealth.
In contrast, Professor Tao represents the real affluent class, he has material wealth and spiritual richness, and more importantly, he is very kind and friendly, and his attitude towards nannies is also equal and polite.
*After this episode in "Ode to Joy 3", I thought of a variety show I had before, which also touched on the topic of hiring a nanny.
At that time, Du Ruoxi, the wife of star Yan Yikuan, needed to re-participate in the filming after giving birth, so she had to hire a nanny to help Du's mother take care of the child.
But what this mother and daughter did really made people feel indescribably depressed.
They have strict standards for the nannies and aunts who come for interviews, whether they are age, appearance, educational background or child-rearing experience, either they feel that their education is not high, or they feel that their appearance is not attractive enough.
When Du Ma worked in the nanny position, she always carried out strict supervision and inspection, and did not give trust at all. No matter how hard Du Ma tries, she can find out the problem, and even she will express her dissatisfaction with those diligent nannies, thinking that it is not advisable to be too submissive.
At that time, Xiang Tai, a guest in the observation room, couldn't help but complain when he saw this scene: You are looking for trouble!
You have to understand that Xiang Tai is widely praised for his clear definition of love and hate.
Although she has served her family for more than three decades, she shows a special respect. Not only did she treat her like family, buying her wedding dresses and dowries, but she also offered scholarships to her children.
Therefore, the true cultivation of a person is that they do not show their dignity through the arrogant attitude of the weak, because the pursuit of profit and politeness is the best way to win hearts and minds!