Ah Nian insisted on marrying Xuanxuan, even if she was one-ninth of his wife, she was willing.
Many people say that she lives a chic and wanton life, believes in love, and will never retreat even if she goes to the soup.
It's just that Ah Nian really married Xuanxuan because of love?
Actually, it's not, because Ah Nian still doesn't understand what true love is, how can he say that he is married to love?
What is true love?Xiang Liu explained with practical actions: true love is understanding, fulfillment, and tolerance.
And Ah Nian doesn't meet any of them.
Ah Nian doesn't understand Xuanxuan's pursuit and ambition. She even felt that Xuanxuan only needed to stay in Haoling Kingdom, because with her and her father here, no one would dare to bully Xuanxuan.
relies on women to protect, and it can be said that Ah Nian doesn't understand Xuanxuan at all.
Moreover, Xuanxuan has been subjected to the white eyes and ridicule of others in the two hundred years that Haoling has been a proton, but Ah Nian has no idea.
And Xiao Yao, who had just returned to Haoling Kingdom, only listened to a sentence from the girl next to Ah Nian and clearly understood Xuanxuan's difficult situation.
The little girl said:
"Prince Xuanxuan is the prince of Xiyan, not the prince of our Haoling, but he lives here and lives on His Majesty, why should Wang Ji value his thoughts?”This is directly said to Ah Nian. Thinking of such words, the maids said a lot, but for hundreds of years, Ah Nian has never made corrections.
Obviously, she recognized the maid's words, and felt that Xuanxuan was the proton sent to Haoling by King Xiyan, and it was sent to the fence, but she didn't dislike it, and she liked him a lot.
Later, in order to leave Xiyan City and go to the Central Plains, Xuanxuan drank flower wine all day long and mingled with the women of the Qinglou, so as to dispel the suspicions of the five kings and seven kings of Xiyan.
When Ah Nian saw it, she was angry and sad, she thought that Xuanxuan had really become bad. But Xiao Yao also didn't know the inside story, but he firmly believed that he had a hard time doing this.
Ah Nian, who has lived with Xuanxuan for more than 200 years, is not as good as Xiaoyao who has been with Xuanxuan for a few years, which shows how much Ah Nian usually doesn't know Xuanxuan.
In fact, according to Ah Nian's arrogant and domineering character, it is impossible for her to share a husband with other women.
She has always been proud of her father's exclusive favor of her mother, she doesn't know the grievances and hatred between King Haoling and Xiling Heng, in her eyes, her father's love for her mother is as deep as the sea, and she will end up.
Therefore, her future husband should also be like his father, and be devoted to her.
Of course, this future husband, what she has always secretly promised in her heart is Xuanxuan, she once said to Xiao Yao, "Father is the past, cousin is the future".
But Xuanxuan can't be like King Haoling at all, and she will be a couple for the rest of her life. Ah Nian finally let go of all her pride and married Xuanxuan, who had a group of wives, just because of two words:
Depend.
When Xiao Yao persuaded her to give up Xuanxuan ruthlessly to herself, Ah Nian cried and said:
"If there is no Brother Xuanxuan, no matter what you do every day, there is no fun at all, and life is better than death. ”It can be seen that Ah Nian's dependence on Xuanxuan has reached the point where he has to be, and she can't live without Xuanxuan.
Ah Nian also spent forty years forgetting Xuanxuan. In the past 40 years, Beishou has arranged many high-profile blind dates for her, but she can't look down on any of them.
Because no one can be like Xuanxuan, who can care for her in everything, take care of her everywhere, and understand her mind and preferences.
She only said "I don't like to eat steamed buns", even if Xuanxuan, who was busy all night, still dragged her tired body to make breakfast for her personally.
In order to make her happy, Xuanxuan specially planted her favorite plum blossom tree in the yard and used a spell to make the plum blossom bloom.
Even when she humiliated Lao Mu unreasonably and provoked Xiaoliu's unrelenting, Xuanxuan actually bent down for her and went to the door to apologize.
Moreover, the most important point is that Xuanxuan's kindness to Ah Nian is without interest exchange and without any conditions.
She is his sister, and it is as it should be for his brother to take care of his sister.
Xuanxuan grew up watching Ah Nian, and for more than two hundred years, she has been by her side, and all of Ah Nian's memories are Xuanxuan's figure.
It can be said that Xuanxuan is the whole of her life and the pillar of her spirit. Even if she ** in the future, she will not be able to "separate" from Xuanxuan.
Without Xuanxuan, Ah Nian only has the pain of missing, no happiness, life is better than death;By Xuanxuan's side, even though it was uncomfortable, as long as he was with her, she was very happy.
Therefore, Ah Nian is not pursuing love with Xuanxuan, but a person who will always be good to her.
This is actually the same as Xiao Yao's obsession, Xiao Yao is obsessed with someone who will never abandon her, and Ah Nian is obsessed with someone who will always be good to her.
No matter how many wives he has, no matter how much time he spends with him, as long as he cares for her sincerely, it is enough.
However, this dependence is a mental illness that can make a person never able to become independent.
It's like there are many people who are indignant for Ah Nian, thinking that if Ah Nian wants to inherit the throne, he can also be the queen, why should he drop the price to compete with so many women for a man.
However, they forgot that Ah Nian is capable of being a queen?
This girl, who has been held in the palm of her hands by her parents, Xuanxuan and others since she was a child, is so innocent that she is shameless and soaring.
Her world is only sunshine, rainbows and flowers, and the people who love her block all the wind, rain and darkness for her, and she is only responsible for her beauty like flowers.
So, if you let such a person be the queen, I'm afraid that I don't know how I died in the end.
Since Ah Nian can't be independent at all, marrying Xuanxuan is the best choice.
Because Xuanxuan can at least guarantee that she is really good to Ah Nian.
"A man who really has backbone and ability, like Bei Harvest, will not marry Ah Nian at all, and those who want to marry are really not as good as Xuanxuan. Anyway, Xuanxuan watched Ah Nian grow up since she was a child, and she had deep feelings for Ah Nian, and she cared for her at all. ”Therefore, Ah Nian is also sober, she would rather want Xuanxuan's good than others pretend to please her very well.
It's just that she forgot one sentence: instead of counting on others, it is better to cultivate yourself.
Ah Nian has the entire Haoling Kingdom to support her, but ordinary us can only rely on ourselves.
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