Watching "Snail House", my biggest emotion is those messages on the barrage. Many female viewers expressed their hope to find a man like Song Siming. Indeed, in the eyes of the world, Song Siming is almost a perfect man. He has the ability to solve all kinds of problems encountered by his lover in a timely manner, he is considerate, and even buys his lover a luxury villa, while his wife lives in a shabby old house.
In order to make up for his mistakes, his wife even sold her mother and brother's house, but he gave the money to his lover, so that his lover and children could have a secure life in the future. He gave the best everything to his lover, but left an untidy mess for his wife who had been with him for more than ten years.
I believe that most of the people who write on the barrage that they like Song Siming are young girls who are not yet in the world, because Song Siming seems to meet all their expectations for their ideal future husband. Song Siming's deep affection for seaweed in the play made many people envious, but in his words before he died, we found that this man's favorite love in his heart was not seaweed, but someone else. He has nothing but use and calculate seaweed.
In the whole play, Song Siming counted the seaweed three times. Through these calculations, he gradually manipulated Seaweed's life. For the first time, he lent Seaweed 60,000 yuan and took the opportunity to provoke her and Xiaobei's relationship. His fondness for seaweed stems from an inexplicable feeling. Seaweed's face with clear soup noodles is not a beauty, and she is often absent-minded, but this is exactly what fascinates Song Siming. He admires the simplicity of seaweed, and the appearance of seaweed reminds him of the girl he loved in college.
The professor's daughter was the white moonlight in the hearts of many of their classmates, but unfortunately, the girl died two years after graduating from college. People are always haunted by the things they ask for, and this emotion sometimes turns into a fond memory, and sometimes it becomes the beginning of a depravity. Song Siming is clearly the latter.
He asks about Seaweed's age and whether she is married after meeting her for the first time, suggesting that he has begun to plan in his mind how to use Seaweed to satisfy his own desires. When Seaweed replied no, Song Siming said four words meaningfully: "The future is immeasurable." Seaweed curiously asked him, how could he have a bright future at the age of 25 and unmarriedIn fact, from that moment on, Song Siming was thinking about seaweed.
He used Chen Sifu to invite seaweed to Dingshan Lake, and lent 20,000 pieces of seaweed on the way, which solved her urgent need. Seaweed saw his intentions, but at that time, she had a stable relationship with Xiaobei and was not interested in this uncle. So, she used Xiaobei and the money she saved to repay Song Siming's 20,000 yuan. Seaweed just wants to live a good life with Xiaobei and get rid of Song Siming's entanglement.
However, when Haiping came to the door to cry because Su Chun had borrowed 60,000 yuan from a loan shark, Haizao's mentality changed. She wanted to use Xiaobei's money to help Haiping pay off her debts, but Xiaobei refused. Xiaobei's reason is that he can lend some money to Haiping, but not all of it, and he doesn't want to affect his future with Haizao.
Feeling sad, Seaweed felt that Becky didn't love her enough, and if it wasn't for Haiping's business, Becky would have lent her money. But she also understands that Xiaobei is good to her, but she is unwilling to lend a helping hand to Haiping. In her heart, it was her sister who was helping her before, and now she decided to help her sister. However, the only person she could think of borrowing money from was Song Siming.
When Seaweed asked Song Siming for a loan, he presented his point of view to her with years of experience. He said that money problems can be solved with money, but emotional problems are difficult to make up. He praised Seaweed as a good girl with affection and righteousness, and hoped that Xiaobei would understand her thoughts. He then reminds Seaweed that if a person can ignore his relatives, can he be expected to have scruples elsewhere
Song Siming, with the image of an empathetic brother, first hugged the seaweed, and then emphasized her importance to family affection. This made her trust Song Siming even more invisibly. The seaweed at this moment has been deeply calculated by Song Siming. He is ostensibly on the side of seaweed, but in fact the point is at the end. His last sentence seems to praise Seaweed for being affectionate and righteous, but it is actually an allusion to Xiaobei who does not care about his relatives. He said this, which is nothing more than a separation between seaweed and scallops.
Sure enough, Seaweed was full of grievances: "However, Xiaobei doesn't think so." I agree with you that as long as money can solve a problem, it is not a problem, but the problem I face is that I am a poor person and I have no money. Seaweed felt aggrieved, and Song Siming seemed to see through her heart. She doesn't understand, why an outsider can understand her, but Xiaobei doesn't?
Song Siming saw that the seaweed had already taken the bait, and then mended the knife: "Even if Xiaobei doesn't think so, you have to understand him, because he can't afford to lose." People are generous because they have enough. Generosity is seen as a compliment, but not everyone can do it, especially to unrelated people. Song Siming's three sentences are extremely lethal.
The first sentence seems to persuade Seaweed to understand Becky, and then says that Becky can't afford to lose, which is actually belittling Becky. The second sentence shows off your generosity, because you have so much. The third sentence once again separates Seaweed and Becky, pointing out that Becky is unwilling to pay for unrelated people. Song Siming used "irrelevant people" to emphasize that Xiaobei does not love seaweed at all.
This is murder, it seems to be for your good, and every word is provoking. Song Siming is older than Xiaobei, with high social status and rich experience, but he did such a thing to lose his identity. He wouldn't have been unaware of the impact that saying this in front of Seaweed would have on her and Becky's relationship, but he said it anyway.
Because he wants to possess the seaweed, Becky naturally becomes an obstacle for him and must be removed. Song Siming's calculations on seaweed can be described as vicious. In order to get seaweed, this seemingly gentle uncle used such despicable means to sow discord. However, this was not enough, his second calculation of seaweed was truly ruthless. This is Seaweed's second betrayal. During the Spring Festival, Song Siming took Seaweed to a class reunion, and Seaweed colluded with Haiping to conceal the matter in order to deceive Xiaobei.
Haiping warned her that this was a tightrope walk, but she replied: "I will not have a result with him, he is a person who pursues a career, and we are only a short-term dew relationship." I'll look for an opportunity to cut ties with him, and I'm very clear about what I'm thinking. Seaweed knew in her heart that she only followed Song Siming because he could help her solve problems and provide money. Her true destination is Becky, with whom she intends to spend her life. Therefore, she asked Haiping to help her hide it.
However, when Seaweed colluded with her sister so hard to hide her relationship with Song Siming, what did Song Siming do?He even openly brought seaweed to the class reunion, so that his wife Jiang Miaomiao and his classmates knew about the existence of seaweed. A man, with a young and beautiful girl, can both show off his charm and satisfy his vanity. But what kind of impact does this have on the seaweed?Song Siming didn't care. What's more, he made a shameless move.
When the seaweed went to take a bath, Becky called**. Song Siming hesitated for a few seconds and then took **. Xiaobei mistakenly thought that it was a mistake, but how could Song Siming let go of this opportunity?He directly pointed out to Xiaobei: "Are you looking for seaweed?".When Becky asked him who he was, he replied, "I'm a friend of Seaweed, and she's taking a bath in the hotel." You wait. Then, he pushed open the bathroom door and handed the phone to Seaweed. Seaweed, who does not know the truth, continues to deceive Becky, saying that she is at home. Song Siming's move was extremely insidious. When it was getting late, he not only picked up the ** of seaweed, but also told Xiaobei that she was taking a bath in the hotel, and handed her the mobile phone on the spot.
Such behavior is enough for anyone to see the relationship between them. Song Siming just wants to let Xiaobei know his relationship with Seaweed, and force Xiaobei to withdraw from this emotional game of the three. Xiaobei noticed the inconsistency with what Song Siming said in **, and everything was clear. Song Siming used a trick to not only separate Xiaobei and Seaweed, but also sow the seeds of suspicion in Xiaobei's heart. Seaweed asked Song Siming incomprehensibly why she picked up her **, and Song Siming gave a perfect answer.
He did call the seaweed, but she didn't respond, he said. ** kept ringing, and he was worried that Becky would be worried. Seaweed asked eagerly, you didn't speak, did you?Song Siming's answer was a rhetorical question, are you stupid?Or are you confused?This answer is so clever that it is neither a positive answer nor a lie. In the future, Seaweed will know the truth, and it will not be able to find the flaw.
When falling in love with a scheming man like Song Siming, Seaweed is not an opponent at all. The first time Song Siming met Seaweed, he made a careful layout for each of the next steps. He leads the seaweed towards him, and then she can't help herself. Seaweed enjoys the help of the uncle and the money, and the initial guilt towards Xiaobei gradually disappears. She planned to be with Song Siming for benefits, but in the end she relied on Xiaobei. She knew that Xiaobei would marry her, but Song Siming would not.
However, who is Song Siming?He knew Seaweed's intentions and wouldn't let her get entangled with Becky. He wants to control the seaweed's life. Taking her out and picking her up is the first step in his control. In order to completely control the seaweed, Song Siming has been planning for a long time. He played a big game of chess when he first saw Seaweed, and now is the moment of truth.
In order to completely control the seaweed, Song Siming tried his best. He laid out the whole game from the beginning, and now it was time for the decisive moment. He had to win with one blow. When he first provoked Shellfish in front of the seaweed, the effect was not obvious. This time, he deliberately let Becky know about his relationship with Seaweed, and he knows that no man can tolerate his girlfriend's betrayal. He was also sure that a young man like Becky would break up with Seaweed because of this.
Seaweed's retreat was cut off by Song Siming, leaving her with nowhere to hide, and he wanted to take full control. Let Seaweed give birth to a child for him, this is Song Siming's third careful calculation of her. Chen Sifu passed away due to the demolition of the house, and Song Siming realized that he would also face serious legal problems. One night, he finds Seaweed and learns that she is pregnant.
This is my child and it shouldn't just be an object. Seaweed told him, but Song Siming disagreed, "This is my Song Siming's child, who can run freely on the street." If you still love me, be born as a gift to me. ”
Seaweed refused to give birth to a child for various reasons, but Song Siming resolved them one by one, promising that he would solve all the problems. When Seaweed was worried that her mother would blame her, Song Siming offered to give birth to the child first and then explain it to her mother. Seaweed gradually understood that Song Siming just wanted a child, not really wanted her. She is unwilling to tie herself and her child's future to Song Siming.
Despite being so resolute, Song Siming still strongly urged her to give birth to a child. In order to achieve this goal, he even gave all the family's money to seaweed as a guarantee. This was done by him because of the traditional belief that having a boy was a big deal in the family.
Song Siming only thinks about his own interests, and does not think about the feelings and future of seaweed. Under the circumstances at that time, he himself could not be protected, but he still insisted on letting Seaweed have children. He knew it would ruin Seaweed's future and make it impossible for her to live in the sun with her children.
He arranged for Seaweed to go to the United States seemingly for her sake, but in fact it was just his selfish attempt. He wants to use the child to tie the seaweed. Even if Seaweed didn't end up having an accident and going to the United States, his selfish motives were revealed. Here's a creative rewrite of the original article:
The fate of their mother and son seems to have been predestined for a long time and is different. The young seaweed is still ignorant, but Song Siming understands everything. He still asks Seaweed to bear children for him, even at the cost of restraining her with morality. He gave Seaweed the money from the sale of his wife's mother and brother's house, hoping that she and her children would have a secure future life. However, Song Siming lived up to the original match and the seaweed.
He is ruthless on his heart, and everything he does is only to satisfy his desires. His marriage to his original partner was just a stepping stone for him to power. The relationship with seaweed is only a means for him to satisfy men's desire for conquest and control. So, who is the person he really loves?
On his deathbed, he gave the answer in his heart. The people he loves most are the people he loves but can't get. His original wife is an eternal pain in his heart. He had tried to make up for her with money and power, but he had never been able to fill the emptiness and regret.
When Mrs. Song found that the family's money was missing, she immediately understood that Song Siming had taken it and given it to Seaweed. Anger and jealousy make her lose her mind, and she rushes to Seaweed's residence to see the luxurious home, the fancy dining table she once loved. In her heart, she compared her hard work with the comfort of seaweed, and couldn't help but beat seaweed. The blow left Seaweed seriously injured and taken to the hospital.
After Song Siming learned the news, he immediately rushed to the hospital. However, the police car followed closely behind him. Halfway through, he heard the news that Seaweed had been miscarried and his uterus had been removed, and the news was like a bolt from the blue, breaking his mental defenses. He looked at the police car in the rearview mirror, and the despair in his heart instantly spread. He let go of the steering wheel and let the car roll out of control on the road.
Song Siming's love for seaweed has always been ambivalent. In his heart, children are far more important than seaweed. When he heard the news of the child's miscarriage, he chose to give up his life. Perhaps it was only before he died that he truly understood where his heart was headed.
The passage he said to Tingting expressed his true feelings in his heart: "Tingting, Dad is sorry for you, although my final choice is a cowardly ......."This may be his last regret and reflection on life, love, and family. This is the only sustenance I have when I am in despair, and from now on, my father will no longer be able to protect your growth path. However, you must remember what your father taught you and never make mistakes. There is an old saying that when people are dying, their words are most sincere.
At the end of his life, Song Siming did not leave any words to his wife, nor did he leave any instructions to seaweed. He only confided in his daughter what was in his heart. This is full of helplessness and indebtedness as a father. However, does he really love his daughter deeply?After buying the car, he personally picked up and dropped off his daughter no more than five times.