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Zhang Ailing once said that we always feel happy when we are close to happiness, but we often suffer from gains and losses when happiness is in progress. On the road of marriage, most people aim to hold the hand of their son and grow old with their son, but unconsciously, the once intimate may become a familiar stranger. Everyone looks forward to spending the rest of their lives with their partner. However, once the relationship deteriorates, the marriage is in danger of breaking down.
In the face of betrayal, the wise choice is either to separate or to be honest and corrective. But some people are too selfish and often pass on their mistakes to others. This is the case of Song Siming in "Snail House", who let his wife know about his affair with Seaweed, but he didn't want his wife to leave him. When Song Siming knew that Seaweed was pregnant with his child, he actually asked his wife to ask for it. This undoubtedly shows the depth of Song Siming's calculation of his wife.
Mrs. Song's patience is just a springboard for Song Siming's ascension. Song Siming, a poor boy from the countryside, embarked on a bright road through marriage to a wife with a strong background. Although his wife came from a privileged background, after marrying Song Siming, she accompanied him through a lot of hardships. Even if Song Siming later held a high position, their life was still simple. At the beginning, Song Siming was sent abroad for further study, and his wife took the children alone to deal with trivial matters at home, and she could only go back to her parents' house to eat. When Song Siming was in an important position, he was still honest with his family.
Once, the wife took a fancy to a dining table, and considering the humble house they lived in, she had to give it up. In order to maintain her husband's image, Mrs. Song wronged herself in a small house. However, her patience did not exchange for her husband's love, but made Song Siming even more unscrupulous. When he sees his wife sad, he will comfort her with various reasons, coax her, and even use his future and status as bargaining chips.
Song Siming's dominance and control over his wife in marriage is a manifestation of his inner turmoil, and it is also his attempt to prove his wife's love and importance to him in this way. As a well-informed woman, Mrs. Song chose to bear it silently, perhaps for the sake of the future of her family and children, or perhaps to maintain a superficial peace.
However, Song Siming's indifference to his wife contrasts sharply with his obsession with seaweed. Lying in bed with his wife, he felt lonely without words;And beside Seaweed, he enjoys simple pleasure and carnal pleasures. This contrast reveals the emptiness and confusion in his heart, and also reflects his irresponsibility for family and marriage.
He is reluctant to divorce, and behind it is the selfishness and selfishness of men. He feared that the divorce would damage his reputation and career, and he realized that his wife had played an important role in his success. This complex relationship is not only a entanglement of husband and wife's feelings, but also a competition for power, status and interests.
However, what ultimately led Song Siming to ruin was his uncontrollable desires. When he had money and power, he began to pursue more material and emotional satisfaction. His obsession with seaweed and his desire for status eventually led him to a situation from which he could not extricate himself. The fire of desire burned Song Siming's rational and moral bottom line, and finally pushed him into the abyss.
The fire of desire made Song Siming fall into the trap of Guo Haizao's warmth, and he poured all his passion and tenderness into this innocent and comfortable girl. He saw her as an object of satisfaction for his own needs and desires, intoxicated by her admiration and love for him, and indulged in a strong sense of accomplishment and conquest. When he learned that Guo Haizao was pregnant with his child, who was still a boy, Song Siming's heart began to completely lose control.
He wanted to protect this child so much and protect the bloodline of the Song family. Song Siming is a very traditional person in his bones, and he has always been suspicious of his wife for not belonging to him for the first time. He was crazy because of Guo Haizao's **, and mistakenly thought that he had fulfilled his regrets. Therefore, this unborn child is almost his greatest wish for Song Siming. For the sake of this child, he is willing to give everything, including his life.
When he found out that his wife had come to the door, he immediately chose to flee and was finally killed in a car accident. Before he died, he shouted out his love for Guo Haizao. But in reality, he loved the unborn child even more. The shrewd Song Siming, of course, knew that there would be an end of the day, so he cleverly left a refuge for his unborn child, his wife. He wants her to bear the consequences of his mistakes, and this is his ruthless calculation of his wife.
For his wife, she accompanies him all the way to struggle, but is robbed of tenderness by other women when he can enjoy happiness. He inflicted great pain on his wife and emotionally bound him. He is not worthy of love, nor is he worthy of anyone's love.
In general, Socrates once said that the most precious thing in the world is the happiness that can be grasped now, not "not obtained" and "lost". Trapped by unattainable obsessions, Song Siming builds an illusory world for himself to satisfy his greedy desires. In the end, his ending was a relief for his wife and a wake-up call for Guo Haizao. But sadly, both women were irreparably hurt because of him.
People's desires, like a sharp sword, dance quietly in the shadow of **, killing people invisibly. It is so terrible that people turn a blind eye to the wealth and status they already have, and they cannot extricate themselves from those things that have not been touched, until they finally destroy the happiness of their lives with their own hands. The blade of desire, wielding in the endless night sky, may bring instant satisfaction, but more than that, endless pain and remorse.