As the saying goes, "home and everything prospers". As guests, we all want our visit to bring joy to our host's home. However, there are some words, once spoken from the owner's mouth, that indicate that you will only add to the embarrassment if you stay any longer. The smart thing to do is to leave with each other and leave room for the owner to be alone.
The English playwright Oscar Wilde once said, "To enter every room, knock three times." "As guests, we should be mindful of our own proportions.
So, when the master says the following four words, should you also take your leave with humor, so as to save them from being anxious?
The first sentence, "You can use whatever you want at home." It may have been a polite remark from the host, and on the surface it seemed to be warm. But in fact, the owner has regarded you as his own family, if you really use it casually, I am afraid that you will soon face white eyes. The correct way to do this is to thank the host and then honestly stay in the position of "guest".
The second sentence, "I'll get busy first, you can watch TV." "It's a sign from the master that he is delaying things because of you. On the surface, he was polite, but he was already starting to get bored. If you stay any longer, I'm afraid the owner won't bother to hide his emotions.
The third sentence, "I haven't slept well in days, I have to go to bed early." "It's tantamount to the host's polite way to drive you away. No matter how interesting you are, the master can only say "I'm going to sleep" openly. The practice of acquaintance is to say goodbye early.
The fourth sentence, "Our family is used to going to bed early and getting up early." The subtext of this sentence is that the host can't hold it anymore and wants you to leave quickly. Otherwise, you will find that the host is in good spirits and polite with you until late at night. In fact, if you leave early, the host's family can also sleep early, which is good for both parties.
At the end of the day, it's important to be thoughtful and considerate of your host's mind, so that both you and your host can have fun. I wonder if you have encountered similar "hints" when you were a guest at someone's house, and how did you deal with them?Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.