With the development of society, visiting relatives and friends has become a trend. We often encounter various occasions for parties, birthdays, full moon wine, marriage, buying a house and a car, etc., these are all good opportunities to enhance relationships. However, in such an exchange, we need to pay attention to some details, especially to learn to observe words and colors, and distinguish which words are sincere and which are polite.
First of all, if the host invites you to leave after eating at home, or asks you to wait at home to watch TV before returning, you have to get up and leave quickly. Because these words are all hints from the hosts that you should leave, and they say it out of politeness. If you are there like a wooden pestle, the owner will be embarrassed and will never let you come to her house again next time.
Secondly, when you hear the phrase "I have ready-made food at home, let's make do with it", you should also get up and leave quickly. This sentence is just a polite remark from the hosts, who don't want you to eat there in the first place. If you do stay for dinner, it will make them feel embarrassed and will never entertain you warmly next time.
Finally, if the host says "you can finish your meal before leaving" and you already have food, then leave quickly. Don't get caught up in your mind and miss the time. If you don't leave, the host will be in a hurry to eat and may turn aversion to you.
In short, when you go to someone's house, you should learn to read words and colors, and don't pretend that you don't understand those hints. If you hear these 3 sentences, it's best to leave quickly. After all, don't be angry with anyone, especially to maintain a good interpersonal relationship, so that people can no longer dare to hate you behind your back.