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I'm crispy. If it's not the extreme anger, who wants to make their "family ugly" public?Today, a high-profile divorce case is finally over. Do you know how bad a person can be bullied?Mr. Chen and his wife have been married for 16 years. In order to support his family and raise 3 children, he worked hard outside all year round. As a result, after discovering his wife's cheating last year, he found out in despair:Of the 3 daughters, none of them are their own. 
And today's trial, what is even more surprising is that ** learned from Mr. Chen:In November last year, his wife gave birth to a fourth daughter, and the paternity was her cheating partner. But the point is that until now, they have not divorced ......
The hat on his head is so green that it glows. It's a shame for everyone. After the incident, Mr. Chen also had delusions that his wife could at least admit her mistake and apologize. But I never expected that the person who made the mistake was arrogant. Not only did she not feel that she was wrong, but she also felt that Mr. Chen did not know what to do: "The child has called him dad for more than ten years, and he still goes to take a paternity test, what is the difference between this and livestock?""I don't think I'm cheating, blood ties are that important?"There are so many *** families in this world, aren't they still living well?."”
Looking at this, my three views were shattered. Those who have done bad things are justifiable. Innocent victims, but also morally kidnapped. Do honest people deserve to be bullied, is this world more hooligan than anyone?I thought that this was already the limit. But yesterday, one of the "cases within a case" in this case**Unexpectedly, after Mr. Chen chose to resort to the law after exposing the adultery, his wife would dare to retaliate. At around 12 o'clock in the morning, she and her lover came to Mr. Chen's house with two 36-ring, arm-thick firecrackers. They set up a "delayed detonation device" on the window of the bathroom using mosquito coils, which suddenly detonated. The loud noise could be heard even at the police station 2 miles away. Not only blew up the window glass. It also caused his 80-year-old father to be hospitalized with acute emergency disorder and heart disease. 
Isn't this a naked threat?I really want to scold: You are not done bullying honest people?Over the years, Mr. Chen has basically handed over all the money he earns to his wife. It may be true that there is a lack of companionship, but that is not a reason to cuckold someone else. If you have a new lover, you can get a divorce;If there is a contradiction, it is possible to resort to law. But you can't make inches again and again, and treat others as fools for so many years, right?That's 3 kids!It means that from before marriage to after marriage, 16 years of marriage is 16 years of continuous cheating. It's not that I don't love it anymore, but I never loved him, I just used him as a tool. As a result of this, Mr. Chen suffered from severe depression and relied on drinking alcohol every night to fall asleep. He couldn't swallow this breath, so even if he exposed his family ugliness to the whole country, even if he borrowed money to fight a lawsuit, he had to seek justice for himself and make them ruined. 
But how miserable is he now?Because of his **, his wife thought that he was "nothing to do", the three children were angry with him and ignored him, and he was maliciously speculated and ridiculed by netizens. I don't understand, is it really to force him to death, or force him to do something out of the ordinary in order to be satisfied?In these years, honest people are too miserable. Anyone can step on it. The gentler you are with others, the more you have to get some people. But you know, the rabbit is forced to bite people. Don't force honest people, and don't do things desperately. Once honest people can't bear it, there really is no one more ruthless than them!
Do you remember the serious murder case in Shangluo last year?A 56-year-old man killed seven people and seriously injured two before committing suicide by jumping into a river. He who easily deprives others of their lives is guilty of a heinous crime. I'm not trying to exonerate murderers. But a closer look at the origin of this ** is embarrassing. 
* Wang Laohan is a recognized "honest man". His family conditions are very bad, he doesn't like to talk, but he has always been honest and responsible. Maybe it's also because he has no money, no background, and no son, and he is always bullied. The fuse this time was that the branches of the cherry tree of the neighbor Li's house grew out of the hospital, blocking the public travel channel. Wang Laohan couldn't pass by bicycle, and communicated several times, but not only failed, but was also abused by the Li family. An honest person, especially an honest person with low self-esteem, will always constantly wronged himself to avoid conflicts with others. But anger is building up little by little. Several times, when he couldn't bear it anymore, he cut off the branches that grew outside the courtyard. As a result, because of this, he was scolded by the Li family's daughter-in-law all night, and insulted him with foul language as soon as he went out. The two sides went to the police station, but they were told that they still had to lose money. During the mediation, Wang Laohan also thought that several people in the village had pulled the shelf. In this way, anger erupted in the unbearable. Together with the Li family, the people who pulled the bias, and the people who had bullied him, Wang Laohan picked up the axe and ** one by one. An honest man was forced to become a demon like this. At the cost of several lives, he vented the resentment in his heart, and finally committed suicide by jumping into the river. After reading the whole case, there was only one lament left. In any case, the moment you choose to kill, there is no way back. But in order to prevent the tragedy from happening again, it is more important to pay attention to how an honest person was forced to this pointI have always felt that honest people strictly follow the bottom line of morality, law, and values more than anyone else. Personality determines that they abide by the bottom line, and they are always more reasonable and less calculating when encountering problems. Even if you suffer a loss, you don't want to have an argument with others. But what about the result?Often, their "taking a step back in case of trouble" becomes a signal that they can "kick their nose in the face". The more people are willing to be reasonable, the less they are taken seriously. But in this world, everyone has a bottom line. You have trampled on the dignity of others again and again. Even the most honest person will be unbearable. If you push others into a corner, don't blame them for fighting with you.
Today, Mr. Chen's appeal is simple. He does not accept any mediation. One is to divorce, and the other is to pay compensation. Third, we hope that the law will investigate their criminal responsibility. 
Some people say that this kind of ugly thing should not be caused by Mr. Chen. After all, there is a husband and wife, and the children have been raised for more than ten years, so there is no need to embarrass everyone. You see, that's always the case. Because honest people are reasonable, they must be honest people to back down. But I think, thank God, Mr. Chen can still resort to the law so calmly to defend his rights!Why can't you be more serious?We should support honest people to be more truthful in the way of law. Sometimes there are more and more bad people, just because the good people are too tolerant. If you are so kind that you lose the bottom line, some people feel that no matter how bad you do, you don't have to pay the price. So sometimes you can't be too honest. In the face of people who have made inches, the most taboo is to make unlimited concessions. You can be kind to people, but you can't be slaughtered. We need to live some edge. This is not for you to take the initiative to hurt people indiscriminately, but to show the bottom line early and come up with thunderous means to protect yourself. And behind this, those who think honest people are easy to bully should also wake up. When you step on the bottom line of others again and again, and are proud of it, the distance is out of control, and it is not far off. When you're lucky, you'll meet Mr. Chen, who talks to you through the law. When you are unlucky, you meet Wang Laohan, who is dead and the net is broken. Either one, it will inevitably pay a terrible price. So, don't just bully someone who seems to be honest. Don't rely on others to have a good temper, get an inch, and bully others. Don't take advantage of the kindness of others;Don't deceive other people's feelings;Don't infringe on the rights of others. The first lesson in life is to learn to respect others.
Finally, I hope that the law can continue to protect the goodness of honest people. They are honest and honest. They believe that they should behave and do things worthy of their conscience. Together, they build the good undertone of society. If even their rights and interests are not protected, it will only inspire more tragedies. The law should hold up an umbrella for honest people. Only when every honest person can be a kind person with peace of mind can our society truly achieve fairness and justice. By protecting them, we are protecting ourselves.