What does the gaze say, and what is the reason for not daring to look at each other?
The gaze is a symbol of perception (self-esteem image). There are many reasons for being afraid of stares, and they also vary from person to person.
The gaze can convey many messages, such as confidence, sincerity, pressure, expectation, etc., and it plays an important role in communication. The gaze can convey a variety of meanings and is related to self-esteem images or "perceptions", so the choice of objects that can look at each other is limited.
However, some people may be afraid of eye contact due to factors such as low self-esteem, social anxiety, self-awareness, or past trauma. Therefore, building self-confidence and reducing self-awareness may help alleviate this fear, and by gradually exposing themselves to situations where they feel feared, and gradually increasing eye contact with others, these people can gradually overcome their fears and return to normal social functioning.
In addition, age and psychological development can also affect the changes in our eyes, such as less attention to our parents in infancy, more wandering eyes due to psychological conflicts in adolescence, and more reserved eyes in adulthood due to work and social environment. When loneliness becomes the main theme, our hearts will become more and more closed, and our eyes will become more distant.
Reasons for not daring to look at each other may include fear of absorbing negative emotions, revealing one's heart, fear of discovering one's strengths, and fear of receiving good emotions. Therefore, you can try to look directly at the center of the other person's eyebrows instead of looking directly at the eyes to respect the other person's feelings, but at all times, the eyes should be focused, which is the respect for the person.