He Jiaru's character in "Xiaoman Life" is not pleasant.
Today's audience doesn't like the protagonist of "Our Lady's Heart" or "Silly White Sweet".
He Jiaru and Tian Tian are best friends, and the "brain circuits" of the two of them are the same.
They think:"It's important to cling to the powerful, to please others, to fit into the so-called upper circles. ”
Even if they want to please these women, their own character is very problematic.
He Jiaru still thinks that it is necessary to make a good first impression on them.
Her exact words were:Tian Tian doesn't have a deep friendship with them, so he can't leave them with the impression of going back on their word.
Judging from He Jiaru's expression of her own views, Tian Tian's reaction after listening: she agrees with He Jiaru's views very much.
Who are the people He Jiaru and Tian Tian want to please?Who do you want to make a good impression?
It is Tian Tian's son Younuo, the parent of other students in the aristocratic school.
As parents of students, do you deliberately make friends with the parents of your own children?
If you're just a superficial greeting.
Do you think they will help you when you need help without reservation or expectation?
Or will you sacrifice your time, connections, and money to help the parents of your child's classmates with whom you have no friendship?
Even if you can help, do you have to have contact with the child's parents, establish an emotional connection, and help with your heart, instead of being kind, as long as others ask for it, you will respond?
Tian Tian had to stay in the countryside to live in the countryside and her husband was "awkward", so she told these rich wives (students' parents) that she was going to divorce, causing her to be looked down upon by rich wives.
These rich ladies were still in the bathroom, "chewing the root of their tongues" and slandering Tian Tian for the private things they told them.
He Jiaru needs 300,000 yuan to go to business school.
In order to help her best friend, Tian Tian transferred the money to He Jiaru without saying a word.
He Jiaru heard that his best friend Tian Tian was looked down upon because of the "divorce incident".
and Tian Tian said that he would invest 300,000 yuan in the rich wife for financial management, but lent her the money, and was sarcastic, feeling ashamed of Tian Tian, and determined to avenge her.
He Jiaru immediately "went up".
I saw her wearing red lips and sunglasses, and appeared domineeringly in front of these rich wives, pretending to be Tian Tian's rich aunt.
The way she stood up for her best friend was very special, I saw her domineering walk in front of these rich wives, angrily ask for the financial account of one of the rich wives, and put all the 300,000 yuan that Tian Tian lent her to study in business school.
He Jiaru really deserves to be Tian Tian's "good best friend".
She took Tian Tian's only 300,000 yuan to help her "fill her head".
Seeing that her best friend Tian Tian was slandered by a rich lady with "bad character", not only did she not persuade Tian Tian to stay away from these people who "consumed" her, but instead turned her best friend's only 300,000 yuan over!
You also know that Tian Tian is not familiar with them, and you also know that they have a bad character, and they still speak ill of Tian Tian in the bathroom.
You still feel like the money is going into their financial account.
When she makes money, Mrs. Fu will definitely return it to Tian Tian "with interest".
He Jiaru's thoughts and operations, I am "hehe" anyway.
Tian Tian's son, Yunuo School, is going to hold an event. Forget if it's a spring outing.
Anyway, in order to "support the scene" for his son, Tian Tian sneaked into the mansion that was so-called "mortgaged and repaid" to others.
The BMW that was originally "mortgaged to others" was secretly driven.
While driving, she warned her son Yuno: "I must use this opportunity to have a good relationship with other classmates and integrate into the group."
Yuno asked his mother rhetorically"Why should I be friends with them?Why do I have to fit in with them?Why can't I be myself?”
The screenwriter used the name of children to teach adults the truth, and Younuo Tian Tian and He Jia Ru knew right from wrong.
Most parents educate their children: "It only takes 1 sentence to offend a person, but it is not easy to make 1 friend." So, don't offend the other person, be sure to tolerate others. ”
As the people of this concept say: "It is not easy to make a person, and it only takes one sentence to offend a person." “
You let me fit in and please people.
How can you be sure that every word you say will satisfy the other person?
If I say the wrong thing and offend someone who is not suitable to be friends in the first place, will all the efforts I have made to forcibly integrate, curry favor, and compromise be in vain?
To care about everyone's feelings is to ignore one's own feelings.
This kind of education can only educate one after another "pleasing type" personality who would rather sacrifice himself than please others.
If you want to make friends and be respected by others, it's not what you do for the other person, it's where you stand.
and whether you have an independent personality determines whether you deserve to be respected.
If you will only blindly cater to and please others, you will only lose your own time and bottom line. All you get is someone else's "kicking your nose in the face".
The finale of "Xiaoman Life" is terrifying, Feng Dan's study abroad is fake, and absconding in fear of crime is true.
Xiaoman Life" Han Jinjin did not accept Feng Dan to repay others with "personal promises", so he was violent.