**After "The Gate of the Mansion", many viewers were attracted by the decisive and decisive second grandmother, but few people really paid attention to the man behind the second grandmother - the second master.
There is an opinion that the second master is like a "coward" in his life, no matter what he does, it is impossible, he can only hide behind his mothers silently and become a rich idler.
However, if you really read the book "The Gate of the Mansion" carefully, you will realize that the second master is not as incompetent as you expected!
In short, that's what he and his son Bai Jingqi said to that poem in the dead of night:
Although he was burdened with the vanity of a thousand talents, he never really opened his clothes and robes in his life.
Although he is not very talented, he knows what he is capable of.
Among the three sons of the Bai family, the status of the second master, Bai Yingxuan, is not particularly prominent.
In the field of medicine, his skill is not comparable to that of the Boss;In terms of scheming, they are not as cunning as the old three.
This was the only time he went to the doctor, but because he was too honest and didn't understand the actual situation, he gave Da Gege, who had not yet married, a happy pulse. As soon as he opened his mouth, he told the matter, causing the Bai family to fall into chaos and becoming a prelude to the grievances between the Bai family and the royal palace.
For the outside world, he always says "what to do", but Bai Yingxuan is the wisest in this regard.
He knows his abilities very well, and although he never takes the initiative, he doesn't stop his daughter-in-law from defeating monsters.
The story of Mansion Gate is set at the end of the Qing Dynasty, when the traditional view of patriarchy over women was widely held, but Bai Yingxuan's view was the opposite.
In the Bai family, the second grandmother is regarded as the most influential figure, and her personality is very domineering. In short, "my daughter-in-law is better than me".
I think that even now, many men find it difficult to accept this situation, and it is inevitable that they will feel a little unhappy in their hearts.
Despite this, Bai Yingxuan has always stood silently behind his wife, willing to be the green leaf next to the red flower.
In a certain family council, he expressed his opinion accurately, and just as the old man Bai Mengtang was about to give praise, he quickly clarified that it was taught to him by his daughter-in-law.
At the last moment of the old man's life, he handed over the power of the family to the second grandmother, and told her that in the future, the affairs of the family would be managed by the second grandmother.
Bai Laosan looked very unwilling, and as soon as he went out, he pulled his second brother Bai Yingxuan and said angrily: "How can this matter be considered a big deal?."Actually let a woman take care of the housework?!”
Can you guess how Bai Yingxuan expressed it?
He calmly expressed: I, really not as good as my mother!
Although Second Master Bai sounded a little weak when he said this, the way he said it was so cool!
In front of his younger brother Bai Laosan, he frankly admitted that he was not inferior to his daughter-in-law as a man, but he was not ashamed, such a man did not flinch!
Although it may seem useless on the surface, it is actually the most outstanding spouse.
Although Bai Yingxuan did not achieve significant results on the international stage, especially after the conflict with Zhan Wangfu, he was also extremely disappointed in the field of medicine.
Especially after the death of the old man, the second grandmother took over the Bai family, and he began to play the role of the shopkeeper, pretending to know nothing, and handing over everything to his wife.
Hiding in a flower room, he planted flowers, tended with forage, and skillfully used pen and ink day after day.
However, such a person has won the most favor of the second grandmother, a strong woman, what is this based on?
On the one hand, he never intervened in any of the actions of the second grandmother, did not ask the reason, completely trusted her, and let his daughter-in-law do what she wanted.
From another point of view, his care and love for his daughter-in-law comes from the heart.
Since the second grandmother became the leader of the family, Bai Laosan has constantly caused her troubles, showing her face, creating obstacles and finding faults every day, causing the second grandmother to fall into embarrassing situations many times, and she is in a state of restlessness every day.
The second grandfather, Bai Yingxuan, as the man behind the second grandmother, felt deep pain in his heart when he saw all this.
He told me: Can you stop being this home?I'm so tired all day, is there anyone who really feels sorry for you?
The second grandmother firmly stated that there was no need to make other people's hearts ache.
Bai Yingxuan's eyes were full of tears, and she shouted loudly: I'm really distressed!
As a man, he cares about his wife and gives more than he can do, and this roar not only expresses his regret and self-blame, but also shows his love.
When the second grandmother heard those words, she immediately became soft, and all the tenacity was transformed into tenderness at her fingertips.
At that particular moment, her husband gave her deep understanding and care, which made her heart more determined, and all the pain and resentment were resolved at this moment, and since then she has devoted her life to the Bai family without complaint.
Because of what you said, I have to manage this home well. ”
Despite his cowardice, he is truly the most brilliant father.
Bai Yingxuan is not only a competent husband, but also a competent father.
For his sons Bai Jingqi and Bai Yingxuan, he poured countless deep affection and efforts.
After experiencing all kinds of unfair treatment outside, when I came home and saw my son's little face, all my worries became insignificant.
If the second grandmother is called a tiger mother, then the second grandfather is undoubtedly a cat father, and he has never missed every moment of his son's growth.
When I was a child, my son and I often joked that we should put the four treasures of the study in the quilt and then hold him to sleep, so that the words written would be loved by everyone.
The two masters happily slept with the inkstone for several nights, and even accidentally knocked over the ink in the quilt, and were kicked out of the room by the second grandmother.
There is also a famous moment, and that is the glorious moment of Bai Yingxuan, a loving father.
Because of Huang Chun, Bai Jingqi was coldly kicked out of the house by the second grandmother. The second grandmother is a hardworking and capable rural woman, and she entrusts her life to her son. As a father, he longs to see his son off in his heart, but as a husband, he must defend the rights of his daughter-in-law, so he does not dare to send his son openly.
He had no choice but to stand at the entrance of the stable, his body bent and silently watching his son's figure drifting away, his heart filled with sadness.
The kind of thing that wants to send it but doesn't dare to send it directly, wants to ** but doesn't dare to show it directly, a father's concern for his son and his attachment to his son are all fully displayed.
With the sad background ** "Thinking Back", just one line is enough to touch people's hearts and make people cry.
Bai Yingxuan paid the price of his life for his daughter Bai Yuting.
After learning of Han Rong's misdeeds towards his daughter Yuting, the second master of the Bai family, who had always been cowardly, picked up the flower shovel and rushed out without hesitation, he believed that children were the only and biggest bottom line in his life.
This is the real Bai Yingxuan, in order to protect his children, he even sacrificed his own life.
Eventually, due to extreme anger and a cerebral hemorrhage, he collapsed to the ground and never recovered.
Unfortunately, until his death, Bai Jingqi did not have the opportunity to meet his father for the last time.
In the work "Mansion Gate", there has been such a scene:
The second grandmother said to Bai Jingqi: You must concentrate on studying, and don't be like your father, who will always be a person who is not successful, unsuccessful, and unsuccessful.
Bai Jingqi refuted the second grandmother without hesitation
What happened to my father?He never got real satisfaction in his life!”
Although Bai Yingxuan was born in a medical family, her life was full of yearning to become a literati and writer, but her heart was not truly satisfied;
In the play, he is a man who struggles to maintain even a basic family, but he chooses to stand behind his second grandmother and creates a home full of happiness for her;
Although he failed to emerge as a hero in the eyes of his children, he gave everything for his two children.
Despite the fact that he achieved nothing in this life, he was definitely a competent husband and an outstanding father.
In the work "Mansion Gate", he is undoubtedly the most tender character!