...... when asked about grades or wages by relatives, when friends call ** without saying hello, and when parents "break" into the room without knockingHow far can you "endure" these things?
In life, there are always some "transgression" behaviors that catch people off guard. Last Thursday, the fifth episode of the second season of Zhejiang Satellite TV's "Three Teenagers", titled by Junlebao Xiaoxiao Luban, revolved around the "sense of boundary" between people.
Juvenile researchers" Cao Enqi, Li Jinye, Mei Jinyi (in alphabetical order of surname) chatted heartily with Song Yaxuan, Tang Jiuzhou (in alphabetical order of surname), and Shen Tao, the "director of the Juvenile Research Institute". Not only did Song Yaxuan share the daily interesting stories of his teammates, but also the "cross-border" archaeology of the program group, and many common topics were talked about in the hearts of netizens, triggering a big discussion on the whole network!
Since its launch, the whole network has won a total of 953 hot searches, including 132 hot searches on the Weibo platform, and 168 hot searches on the whole network this week. After the broadcast of this episode, three teenagers were on the top 4 of the live hot chat list, and the main topic of Weibo Three teenagers reached 34500 million, and the total number of views on program-related topics exceeded 361180,000, short** three teenagers 2 ** broke 637410 thousand. Create a hot topic before the broadcast The social boundary sense of three teenagers has been read by more than 65 million people, and it has risen on the hot search list on Weibo, and the topic How to grasp the sense of boundary in friendship has triggered KOLs in many fields to participate in discussions.
Tang Jiuzhou's "face is wide" is exaggerated but effective.
Cao Enqi used "trouble" to test the "boundary" of friendship
Everyone has a different understanding of "crossing the line" and has a different degree of acceptance of different behaviors, but when it comes to "being stolen by others", the teenagers unanimously say "unacceptable". Cao Enqi even bluntly said that a "small flame" burst out of the "bottom of my heart"!Faced with this situation, Tang Jiuzhou took out his mobile phone to support the scene, and while putting the mobile phone on the face of Song Yaxuan, who played the "peeper", he deliberately asked: "Look, don't you like to watch it?"This kind of "sticking to the face and opening up" style of rejection has a lot of effect, which makes netizens sigh, "I learned!."”
Maintaining a "sense of boundaries" in the process of interacting with others not only protects oneself from "aggression", but also avoids touching the "psychological boundaries" of others. In the street interview of the program, some viewers also said that they should clarify the boundaries between themselves and their friends and be less nosy. However, if the "copper wall and iron wall" are erected, it seems that it is not conducive to the warming of friendship. Li Jinye bluntly said that we should distinguish between the "sense of boundary" and the "sense of distance", and understanding each other's boundaries can help us get along more harmoniously. Cao Enqi believes that the mutual "trouble" between friends actually proves the depth of friendship, and it is also in the process of deepening understanding and becoming close friends.
In this regard, Li Yun, a professor at China University of Political Science and Law, pointed out that people should be brave enough to express their "psychological boundaries" in interpersonal communication, and the run-in of a sense of boundaries can make feelings healthier and stronger.
Song Yaxuan revealed the details of "e-person" dating.
Mei Jin's translation of "Treasure Parents" made netizens call "envy".
Behavior without a "sense of boundaries" can upset friends, but too clear boundaries can also easily appear "impersonal". In an unfamiliar environment, how to quickly close the distance?Song Yaxuan revealed that "e-people" will also be nervous due to socializing, and sometimes need self-encouragement to take the initiative to take the first step in making friends. Mei Jinyi will take the initiative to ask for the purchase link while praising the clothes, and get *** reasonably through the "high emotional intelligence" speech, and for the "I person" Li Jinye, others need to take the initiative to "break the ice" and send a "friend application".
The "sense of boundaries" of friendship is easy to establish, but the scale of family affection is difficult to control. Many netizens also said: "Although I rely on the family world built by my parents, I am still troubled by my parents' 'transgression' behavior." Tang Jiuzhou "has bitter words" about the elders' behavior of "breaking into" the room without authorization. Mei Jinyi's parents have a "sense of boundary" of family affection, which perfectly interprets "I want to hold an umbrella for my child even more after being drenched in the rain", such a "treasure parent" makes netizens call "envy"!
Only by giving family and friends personal space and respecting the "social boundaries" of others can you achieve the most comfortable state in your relationship!In the next episode, the show will focus on "breaking away", will the teenagers be "hoarders" or "minimalism"?Lock in the second season of "Three Teenagers", which will be launched every Thursday at 22:00 on Zhejiang Satellite TV and 22:30 on Z TV, and work with the teenagers to clean up the clutter and travel lightly!
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