I have a neighbor, Sister Yang, who helped her daughter take care of her children after she retired.
Sister Yang has an only daughter, 170 tall and 110 pounds. Not only is she beautiful, but her temperament is also very good, and she has a kind of quiet beauty.
But her daughter was not in love well, and she got married at the age of 30, and Sister Yang had retired at this time.
After her daughter got married, she gave birth to a fat boy, and Sister Yang was so happy that she couldn't see her little grandson for a day. In the blink of an eye, the six-month maternity leave has passed. My daughter is going to work, who will take the child?The in-laws and the couple are doing business in other places, and if necessary, the in-laws can come to help. Sister Yang's daughter hopes that Sister Yang will help, first, Sister Yang is retired and has time. The second is that the daughter is closer to her mother and gets along easily. The third is that the mother-in-law came, and the father-in-law still had to take care of the business, so the old couple could only live separately.
Sister Yang really doesn't want to bring it, in her words, this is a thankless job, and the responsibility is still great. But the daughter grinds hard and bubbles, and the son-in-law buys wine and cigarettes. Sister Yang's wife also persuaded her that now that the child is in trouble, she can help if she can. If you don't pay now, how can you expect them to support their old age when they are old. Sister Yang thinks too, even for the sake of her daughter, this little grandson has to help bring it, not to mention that it is really a next-generation parent.
The old couple of in-laws are also very reasonable, and told Sister Yang that since they can't take the child, they have to express their hearts, and they will pay for the child's expenses. Give his son 3,000 yuan a month to subsidize the family of the young couple.
Sister Yang said that most families are like this now, because young people have to go to work, and they can't take care of their children, so they are all taken by the elderly on both sides. Some are brought by grandma, some are brought by grandma, and some are brought by a week in a round, anyway, they either pay money or are tired.
I have to say that young people nowadays are really blessed, they don't have to bring or raise a child by themselves. It was as if children were born to their parents, and they became hands-off shopkeepers.