InMarriage, the age difference can be a challenge in a couple's life. When a 35-year-old woman marries a 26-year-old boy, the differences in their lives become more apparent, causing a lot of trouble in their relationship. This article will ** this woman in with a big boyMarriageand the reasons why the couple ultimately chose to divorce.
After the divorce, Ms. Wang moved to a house near the company. One day, she met a 26-year-old boy in the office, who was Ms. Wang's assistant. At first, Ms. Wang thought that the boy was of average ability, but his appearance and demeanor made her feel comfortable. As she learned more, Ms. Wang gradually discovered the plight of the boy's family, and he would send money home every month. Ms. Wang was fascinated by this kindness, even though she did not put her feelings first. However, as they spent more time together, Ms. Wang began to take an interest in the boy. The boy is also an enthusiastic suitor, he does not hesitate to share his likes and gains, and even though he earns little each month, he still buys small gifts for Ms. Wang. At first, Ms. Wang tried to avoid the other party's kindness, because the age gap between the two was too great. However, in the end, she still can't resist the boy's sincerity and love for her. Eventually, they decided to step inMarriageof the temple.
The first acquaintance between Ms. Wang and the boy stemmed from work, and in the process of taking care of each other and cooperating with each other, they gradually developed a relationship. Although the boy was young, his carefulness and sincerity made Ms. Wang feel warm. He often prepares a bowl of hot soup for Ms. Wang, and he is very caring. Such thoughtfulness made Ms. Wang have a good impression of this young man. Ms. Wang is also a cheerful person, and her humor and intelligence attract boys. The two resonated with each other and gradually cultivated a deep oneEmotion。They enjoy the movie together, ** andTravel, which makes them more intimate. Although the boy is young, he knows how to care for people, and although his income is not high, he always surprises Ms. Wang in his own way. All of this made Ms. Wang feel that the boy was a reliable and trustworthy companion.
After Ms. Wang and the boy decided to get married, they faced many problems. First, since they worked in the same company, Ms. Wang proposed that the boy quit his job and stay at home to take care of her in order to avoid affecting the work environment. The boy was happy to accept the arrangement, because he felt that as long as Ms. Wang sent money to his family regularly, he would not need to go out to work. So, they came to an agreement: the boy would take care of Ms. Wang at home, while Ms. Wang would take care of the out-of-home work.
However, the differences in their lives soon became apparent. Ms. Wang is older and wants to take an early break every day so as not to cause trouble at work. The boy is a young and lively person, who likes to play games with his friends or use his mobile phone at night, and often makes excited noises, which disturbs Ms. Wang's sleep. In addition, there are big differences in the interests of the two. Ms. Wang is more concerned about topics such as ** and house prices, while the boy only cares about going to ** to play and what to eat tomorrow. Even if she goes out occasionally, Ms. Wang wants to take a quiet walk by the beach or watch a movie. However, the boy prefers to go to the Comic Con and go camping at the ** festival. These differences have led to contradictions and frictions between them.
The difference between Ms. Wang's life and that of the boy gradually created a lot of problems. After a day's work, Ms. Wang longed to go home and rest, but the boy appreciatedNightlifeAlways party or play games with friends in the evening. Their nights became noisy and Ms. Wang was unable to sleep, which caused her a lot of physical and mental distress. Ms. Wang tried to communicate with the boy, hoping that the boy would be as quiet as possible at night, but the boy was always in high spirits and unwilling to cooperate. He felt that the evening was his own personal time and should be enjoyed, and said that Ms. Wang needed to adjust her way of thinking.
In addition, Ms. Wang's interests and those of the boy are also very different. As a mature woman, Ms. Wang prefers to talk about mature topics such as investment and the real estate market. She wanted to have some deep thinking and discussion with the boys. Boys, on the other hand, are among the younger ones and prefer light-hearted topics such as games, entertainment and food. When Ms. Wang asks complex questions, the boy is often uninterested, and sometimes even seems a little bored. Ms. Wang felt that she could not share what she was interested in with the boy, which made her feel lonely and dissatisfied.
As time went on, the problems between the couple became more and more numerous, which eventually led to theirMarriageBreak. Because Ms. Wang often made mistakes at work, her boss thought that she had lost focus on her work and even fired her. Faced with the boss's questioning and accusations, Ms. Wang resigned reluctantly. At the same time, because Ms. Wang no longer has a financial **, the boy's attitude has also changed, and he is no longer willing to cook and clean for Ms. Wang. There were more and more conflicts between the two, which eventually led them to choose divorce.
Ms. Wang lost her job after she was rightMarriageThe expectation and pressure have increased. She used to be a master in the workplace, but now she has lost her job and is at a loss. She felt that her identity was being questioned and that she could not face her family andSocialpressure. The rift in the lives between Ms. Wang and the boy has also deepened. The boy used to be willing to take care of everything for Ms. Wang, but now he feels that he has no financial ** and he has no obligation to serve her. In order to compete for the dominance of life, the contradictions between the two become more and more intense.
Ms. Wang eventually chose to return to her hometown to seek support and comfort from her family. She told her family the reason for the divorce, saidMarriageThe breakup was due to the fact that the lives of the two were too different. She believes that the age gap and lifestyle differences are a gulf that they cannot bridge. Although she has feelings for the boy, feelings do not mean suitability. She wanted the other girls to be able toMarriageBefore that, I was more rational and calm to consider whether I and the other person are compatible in life.
This story tells usMarriageIt's not just a choice of feelings, it's also a choice of life. Two people inMarriageDifferences and conflicts in can ruin the feelings between them. When choosing a partner, we need to consider how suitable the two people are in life, not just personal feelings. The age difference can beMarriageespecially when one of them is still in the stage of growth and self-exploration. When faced with life differences and troubles, couples need to actively communicate and compromise to find solutions to their problems. However, if the problem cannot be solved, it will eventually lead toMarriagebreakdown, then divorce may be an inevitable option. Before choosing a divorce, we should think carefully and evaluateMarriageand the impact of divorce on ourselves and those around us. Most importantly, we should start with:MarriageLearn from your failures, get to know yourself better and find a partner that suits you.