Have you ever wondered why we sometimes feel guilty about someone?Is it because we did something wrong, or because we didn't do our part?Or is it because we don't give enough love and care to each other?
I once met a girl who always made me feel guilty. Every time I see her, I wonder if I did something wrong to make her unhappyHowever, when I asked her, she always smiled and said, "No, you're good." ”
Later, I realized that she didn't really want me to feel guilty. She just wanted me to care more about her and love her more. However, I kept taking her words as a comfort and didn't really understand her heart.
So, is the guilt the afterglow of love or the bondage of responsibility?Perhaps, both. When I.
When we feel guilty about someone, we feel constrained by not doing our part, and we feel warm because of our love and attention to the other person.
However, true feelings of guilt are not a good feeling. It can make us feel upset and guilty, and it prevents us from truly loving and caring for each other. Therefore, when we feel guilty about someone, we should be brave enough to face our hearts and understand the real feelings and needs of the other person.
Only in this way can we truly break free from the shackles of guilt and love and care for each other.