Mai Jia's "Sea of Life" is not only a fascinating, but also a masterpiece of profound human nature. Through its unique narrative style and vivid character portrayal, it allows us to see a world full of contradictions, conflicts, jealousy, and malice. In this world, people with small patterns always can't see the good of others, they are narrow-minded, and they can't tolerate the success and happiness of others.
First, the narrowness of the small pattern.
Pattern can be understood as a person's vision, mind and way of thinking. In "The Sea of Life", people with a small pattern often only see their immediate interests, ignoring long-term development and overall interests. They lack a big picture and are unable to look at problems from a higher level, so they are prone to short-sightedness and selfishness.
People in small patterns often lack tolerance, and they can't see others better than themselves. When they see the achievements and happiness of the people around them, they are not sincerely happy for the other person, but they are jealous and even have the urge to destroy. This narrow-mindedness not only limits their own development, but also has a negative impact on those around them.
2. Psychological analysis that does not see the good of others.
Not being able to see the good of others is a typical human weakness. In "The Sea of Life", this mentality is vividly portrayed. The reason why people in the small pattern can't see others are good mainly has the following reasons:
Inferiority complex: People with small patterns often have low self-esteem and lack self-confidence and self-esteem. They are afraid that the success of others will reflect their own failures, so they would rather see others fail than see others succeed.
Competitive pressure: In a highly competitive society, people in small formats often feel tremendous pressure. They fear that the success of others will threaten their own status and interests, hence jealousy and hostility.
Distorted values: People in small patterns often have distorted values, believing that money, status, and power are the only measures of a person's worth. Guided by such values, they are unable to understand and accept the happiness and success of others.
3. How to overcome the narrowness of the small pattern.
To overcome the narrowness of the small pattern, we need to work on the following aspects:
Broaden your horizons: Read more, travel more, make more friends in different fields, and broaden your horizons and cognitive scope. By learning about different cultures, ideas, and experiences, we can cultivate a more open and inclusive mindset.
Enhance self-confidence: Enhance your self-confidence and self-esteem through self-improvement and hard work. When we are confident in ourselves, we are not easily threatened or envied by the success of others.
Establish the right values: Be clear about your values and life goals, and not be swayed by external factors such as money, status, and power. We should pay attention to our inner needs and true values, so as to establish a healthy and positive outlook on life.
Learn to appreciate others: Be genuinely happy for the success and happiness of others, and learn to appreciate the merits and achievements of others. When we are able to genuinely appreciate others, we find ourselves more expansive and open-minded.
Foster a spirit of cooperation: In a competitive society, cooperation is more important than competition. We should cultivate the spirit and ability to cooperate with others, and achieve a win-win situation through cooperation, rather than a lose-lose situation through competition.
IV. Conclusion. With its profound portrayal of human nature and unique narrative style, Mai Jia's "Sea of Life" makes us deeply aware of the narrowness of the small pattern and the harm of not seeing the good of others. As readers, we should reflect on our own behavior and psychological state, strive to overcome the narrowness of the small pattern, and cultivate a more open, inclusive and open-minded mindset.
Only in this way can we ride the wind and waves in the ocean of life and realize our values and dreams. At the same time, we should also pay attention to the psychological state and needs of the people around us, help them overcome narrow-mindedness and negative emotions, and jointly create a more harmonious and beautiful social environment.
I love "The Sea of Life" because it can write non-existent characters as your friends, let them live with you, and make it impossible for you to escape them.
One person has this to say about the book. "After reading "The Sea of Life", I felt that all the difficulties became less difficult.
In fact, this book is a book that makes people think more, even be shocked, when they close it and look back at it, leaving a stronger sense of tolerance after regaining their peace. After reading a lot of books, you may forget many details, but it will make you more tolerant of the world.
People can only live once, but "The Sea of Life" can let you experience a kaleidoscopic life!If you are a fan of the Mai family, or someone who is confused, you might as well read "The Sea of Life", people have ups and downs in this life, ups and downs, and there is nothing that cannot be overcome.