There is an old saying that people have no height, and all they see is problems;People don't have a pattern, and all they see is reluctance.
In the final analysis, if a person does not have a pattern, he will often be entangled by small things and villains, and he will not be able to live well, and all he sees is reluctance, and all things that make him feel annoyed.
On the contrary, when a person becomes more and more organized, life begins to open up suddenly.
So, live in the moment, do everything happily, at will, be able to control your emotions, and control your own mentality.
Kazuo Inamori said:
"Life is a cultivation of the soul, which makes it more noble at the end of the curtain than at the beginning. ”
Being a person and doing things, no matter whether it is a good person or a bad person, a good thing or a bad thing, you should regard it as a kind of cultivation.
In the end, the soul will be cultivated again and again, and the level of life will become higher and higher, and eventually one's life journey will become more noble.
The pattern is small, and I can't be happy
If we are always consumed and entangled in some trivial things, on some inconspicuous little problems.
So, how do you make yourself happy?
Although, the reason why a person can't be happy is that he is easy to be emotional, sensitive, vulnerable, and likes to dwell on the past.
But in general, it's because the pattern is too small, so I can't let go.
People, if they are always entangled in this and that, will only make themselves more and more narrow-minded and narrow-minded.
In the end, even a small thing will make you sad for days, wronged for days, and painful for days.
This is a few days, that is a few days, how many days are there in a year?
Therefore, learning to make your own pattern bigger is like putting a spoonful of salt in a bowl, no matter how you drink it, it will be salty.
However, a spoonful of salt is placed in the river, no matter how you drink it, you can't drink the salt.
Only by constantly broadening one's horizons, opening one's horizons, and supporting one's own pattern can we dilute the little things in life one by one.
When your own pattern becomes bigger and bigger, then all your troubles and pains will become light and light, and you will become indifferent.
If the pattern is small, life will not be better
Life is short, if you are always blindly entangled, can't let go, can't forget, will only make yourself more and more stubborn, more and more painful.
Those who live more and more failures must be indignant for small things, calculating, resentful for small problems, drawing the ground as a prison, losing their mood for small gains and losses, and forgetting their principles and bottom line.
People with a small pattern will only let their life path become narrower and narrower, and when they go to the **, they are afraid that they will be used, taken advantage of, and calculated.
As a result, I always feel that others are uneasy and kind to me, and I always feel that relying on myself is the best choice.
Eventually, I became more and more stingy, more sensitive, and more calculating.
Yu Qiuyu said"When the pattern of human life is large, it will not sink into trivial decorations. ”
A person, only by making his life pattern bigger and stronger, will he let himself see a more open place and see a broader scenery of life.
At this time, we will really climb to the top of the mountain, stand at a higher place, overlook the ground, and see the overall situation and the scenery.
Those who only like to entangle themselves in the quagmire with bad people and bad things, villains and small things will only exhaust themselves and live a chicken feather.
Create a pattern, create a life
Life itself is one's own, and life has always been oneself.
In many cases, if you don't even understand your own personality and personality, and you don't get along with yourself in harmony.
Then, naturally, you will not be able to get along well with other people, let alone open your horizons step by step and support your own pattern.
In the end, I will only be constantly entangled with others in a small world in my life, angry and angry because of small things and small problems, constantly sinking, and consuming myself.
In fact, being a man and doing things, take it easy, look down, or even indifferent, only in this way, in the face of success or failure, can we really afford to let go.
Caigen Tan said:
"The wind comes to thin the bamboo, and the wind passes and the bamboo does not leave a sound;The geese cross the cold pool, and the geese pass through the pool without taking a photo. ”
When we really amplify our life pattern, small things, bad things, and bad things are all far away.
Then life will become more and more calm, more and more profound, and more and more calm and comfortable.
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