When I was a child, I always thought that there was reason to go all over the world, and it was difficult to move an inch without reason;
When I grew up, I realized that this world talks about money, relationships, and interests, but it is unreasonable.
In fact, it is our cognitive error, we think that the truth is the principle that morality instills in us, in fact, the real reason is in line with the Tao, that is, altruism, everyone only cares about their own interests, so the reason that is in line with the interests of others is the Tao, and others only talk about the truth that is in line with their interests.
It is necessary to do one's own business by speaking the principles of others, so as to conform to the Tao.
Pay more attention to human nature and interests, and pay less attention to feelings and behaviors, whether at work or in life.
Your relationship with anyone does not depend on how good you are to others, but on your strength and how many chips you have.
People are generally more tolerant of the strong, and even if the weak have done nothing wrong, they will be treated harshly.
The most impressive, I remember once in Daxing, Beijing, next to me lived a 42-year-old single sister, who believes in Mahayana Buddhism, always with a smile in her eyes, kind eyebrows, giving people a particularly gentle and comfortable feeling.
Since I can often see things that have not happened in the future, I will ask her when I am curious, and she can use the knowledge of Buddhist culture she has learned and her expertise to answer me, and I have great respect for her from the bottom of my heart.
She was so cute, I remember I went to pick her up, arranged accommodation for her, I took her to dinner, and she asked me, how young are you, how old are you. I said guess, she said 23 years old. I said no, I'm in my thirties, and she said it's true, you're not like it. I said it was true.
The core of my look at whether a woman has low self-esteem is that she doesn't dare to face her age and tries to use her appearance to get something for free. People who pretend to be tender are essentially showing weakness, hoping to gain something through the disguise of appearance, and the evil of human nature breeds and is understood, which will make people annoying.
In other words, the strong are the ones who are giving, who are strong themselves, and who also contribute to the society around them.
I often feel that I am very naïve, and I have been trying to transform, especially after I started writing again this year, I wrote ** eight years ago, and then I felt that I wanted to write nutritious, less nonsense, and high-value content, so I no longer wrote long texts**.
My favorite author is Lao Tzu, who writes the Tao Te Ching, 5000 words, every sentence is worth **, no nonsense!
After thousands of years, we only now have that concept of application, called"Keywords:", it's all about the point.
In the process of writing, I think, reflect, think deeply, reflect deeply, and finally I like people who are mature in thought, clean in appearance and soul, and not gaudy, including myself. Without going into details!
Back to that sister, usually other people respect me, I know it's because of the position I'm in, they just want to be strong, or fear power, and I don't really do anything for them.
Usually they will give me delicious food or give it to other people, but they will not consider giving it to that sister, and every time such a scene, I feel uncomfortable or uncomfortable in my heart.
That sister is an ordinary salesperson, according to her communication with me, in her 40s, unmarried and single, with ordinary ability, little income, no savings, just worked as a volunteer, and left four houses. But she said that she looked forward to love and believed in fate.
My sister is very kind, and I respect her, but she can't win the respect of most people because of her kindness. During that time, when I saw her, I was also thinking about life, and at the same time, I also sounded the alarm to myself.
I remember a very deep time, a girl quit her job, she gave her things completely to people who were not lacking and did not need them, including me, but not to that sister, but that sister is the one who really needs it, I saw the reality and power of human nature, but there is no good, and kindness is often faced"The weak"In fact, the vast majority of people are like this in reality, because the vast majority of people's thinking is at the bottom, but my sister is a very kind person, and the inner perfection of the cultivator.
Some people will say that reality and forces are not very normal. Tell everyone that when you socialize upwards, what you give is material, but when others look at you, they will subconsciously examine your character qualities. At the very least, you have to make people feel like you're reliable.
I was also reflecting at the time, seeing the bad side of human nature, and I was thinking that if one day I was old, if I didn't have any outstanding abilities and fell to the bottom of society, the world would definitely not treat me well.
But do you believe it?That sister is the person with the best character in that group of people, with smiling eyes and a rich heart, learning Xi every day, reading the Dharma deeply, and living in the moment. In addition to the appearance of older single women and the traces of the washing of the years, her energy is very positive, warm and peaceful. I have always felt that she is beautiful, don't be confused by skin when looking at people, see the essence through appearance, I appreciate her soul.
Seeing her, let me confirm that a cultivator will not be poor in her heart because of economic deprivation, she will not be mentally barren because of material poverty, and she will not change the energy in her inner thoughts because of the ugliness of the outside world. She's had a big impact on me, but she doesn't necessarily know it.
For her, seeing through human nature will not hurt her at all, and will not make her physically and mentally uneasy because of others' ignorance of her, this is the transparency of an enlightened person. Inner perfection, do not look outward.
Later, when I left there, the first thing I did was leave my things with that sister. I feel that based on her income, and her abilities, she should be the one who needs it the most. She was a little moved, or maybe out of politeness, she called me ** and said to send me, I said no, I remember that I also specially charged the card and gave her two cards, both cards have money, but I didn't tell her that I charged it, she is worth it, and I will meet again.
I wrote an article "Daigo Empowerment, This Sentence Cures a Lot of Depression" in which I wrote that when you are really weak, when you really need help, the world will instinctively leave you and abandon you, including the people closest to you.
Because they are worried that you will cause them trouble, or even say the so-called bad luck. It is normal for people's fate to have ups and downs, so they can only cross themselves.
Only we are strong, the world is attracted by our value, once there is no value, the whole world will abandon us. The so-called noble people are just people who can understand our value. Essentially, we have to be valuable. Encouragement!
Tianxingjian, self-improvement. "
The terrain is good, and the virtue is loaded. "
There are many people who can read the above two sentences, but those who are really deep in their bone marrow have probably experienced wear and tear in order to truly understand it and practice it.
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