One writer once stated: "In all human creation, money is almost the product of demons, and there is nothing more vile and deceitful than money, and therefore no other field offers so much room for the cultivation of hypocrisy." ”
This sentence could not be more appropriate to describe the wealthy.
Ordinary people struggle in the whirlpool of life, hoping to gain more wealth.
In a wealthy family, they have endless wealth, and the audience mistakenly thinks that they live a rich life, and only those who are in it can truly appreciate the deep meaning of this.
Recently, the topic of "pseudonymous" has been very hotly discussed. Those who disguise themselves as celebrities live in chaos, but what about the real celebrities?
After reading Yishu's work "Xi Bao", I have the ability to provide you with answers. The two daughters of the Miao family, as top wealthy celebrities, are envied by everyone, but their ending is heart-wrenching.
First, let's discuss the wisdom of the Ao.
She is an extremely innocent young woman, neither naïve nor naïve, and she does not have the arrogant and arrogant temperament of a wealthy lady at all.
When she first met Xibao, she was very enthusiastic, took the initiative to talk to her, and asked the driver to take her home safely.
To express it with the word Xibao:
She is a living being on another planet, and the energy and sincerity she displays are almost suffocating and intolerable. ”
She was able to be so pure and immaculate, all of which grew up in a privileged living environment. She said that her parents were excellent and she was raised to be a person of good character and learning from an early age. In the first 19 years, she had never experienced any hardship. Her parents are both engineers, have stable jobs, and have good incomes. Probably the only thing that bothers is studying abroad and having to navigate between multiple different schools due to poor academic performance.
Of course, she doesn't need to have outstanding grades, and the wealth of the family is immeasurable, enough to support her for three generations.
She is different from Xi Bao, who is still struggling with life and has to sacrifice her youth to continue living, while all of her wisdom, such as her studies and partner, has been properly arranged.
Miao's smart husband is named Song Jiaming, and this man is not only a brain doctor, but also outstanding in appearance, tall in stature, and exudes a strong academic atmosphere. With his keen eyes, the elegance of his family background, and his learned temperament, even his clothes look very fashionable.
He stood side by side with his wisdom like two perfect companions. The girl with this quality of being smart makes Xibao deeply envious, she said:
Having and being loved is truly a blissful experience. People like Miao Congming and Song Jiaming, who embrace her firmly and powerfully, once they leave their parents' home, they will devote themselves wholeheartedly to the arms of their husbands, and the tenderness like rose petals will always wait for her. ”
For such a girl, you really can't imagine what can annoy her. She was gentle as a child, but she could make people feel that she was so strong. What is even more appreciated is the kindness and charm of her heart.
When she learned that Xibao was with her father, she said a few harsh words in anger, but she would never muster up the courage to hate someone, because in her dictionary, the word "hate" never appeared, even if it was just to hate someone, and after a while she would forget it.
Wisdom is both a good quality and a blessing, and he stands at the highest point of the pyramid and never needs to suffer the pain of ordinary people. She is a noble lady from a famous family, but she lost her legs in a car accident and has been unable to take care of herself since then. According to common sense, she should live a peaceful and successful life under the protection of her father and husband. But in reality, there are many unfortunate people, who always seem so vulnerable in front of the goddess. However, behind the ** girl, there are scarred sights everywhere.
Song Jiaming seems to be a smart person on the surface, but in fact, his motive is only for the wealth of the Miao family, and at the same time, he is just a pawn to maintain his image.
You'll never understand what a glamorous man can hide deep down.
In the original, there is such a description:
Xibao: Are you really smart? Mr. Song.
Jiaming: With a high degree of intelligence? The girl's name is "** girl".Such babies do not have any nerve tissue in their minds. Did you know that there is a newborn baby who is born without a brain, but glows at the back of the brain, and these rays of light are coming directly from their pupils? At present, many people refer to this type of unintelligent women as "** girls", in which intelligence is one of the key factors.
Xibao: What you're trying to say is that you don't really like to be smart?
What Song Jiaming said was: Love? What is the definition of love?
Although Song Jiaming has a contemptuous attitude towards Conghui, this does not affect his marriage to her. They have lived together for more than eight years and have always had a good relationship. After getting married, Song Jiaming and Miao Congming chose to live separately, which led to frequent disputes between them.
Song Jiaming did not pay attention to Miao's intelligence, on the contrary, the relationship between him and Xibao became blurred. He sees love and hate as twin brothers, he sees himself as the embodiment of love and hate, turning both love and hate into himself, and expressing the pursuit of love and freedom in his own way. Wisdom can buy everything in the world with money, but it can't buy true love and freedom.
She wasn't in a good mood, she had spent most of her life on planes, she had no idea what she was really after, and she didn't care about it.
If a person is too compliant, the lack of pursuit becomes frightening, like a walking corpse that cannot find the meaning of existence.
It is widely believed that as long as wealth is abundant, life will be full of happiness and contentment. But in reality, true happiness does not come from the accumulation of wealth, but from living a fulfilling life when there is something to do and someone to love.
Perhaps for a young woman like Miao Mingming, living an ordinary life is her deepest desire.
Wisdom eventually chose a way to redeem himself, which was to run away from home, disown his family, and choose to take up a teaching position at a school.
She left behind a letter:
In the past, I always thought that money could buy everything, but my mother and Satoshi didn't seem to be short of money, but they were in pain for a long time. For Chinese, only by living in the motherland can they truly enjoy happiness, and only by returning to the sea can they have a real home. I found everything I was after, and as the sun rose and I returned home, I gave what I knew to the kids. I have no other plans, I do my own laundry, I wash my own hair, I have learned to cook and cook.
Many people don't understand why they have to endure such a difficult situation when the conditions are so superior. Actually, it's not a simple question, it's about your own life. You must understand that if one wants to live a happy life, then the meaning and satisfaction of life is crucial.
This feeling is usually achieved through the activities we do. Without a clear plan and action, nothing will happen to you. When you have a vision and current goals, your life is full of momentum.
For those celebrities from famous backgrounds, everything is at their fingertips, there are no challenges or difficulties, and it is difficult for them to truly experience happiness.
Only those who have experienced suffering will have a deeper sense of happiness. Because in this world, only those who have experienced suffering can know how to cherish it. When you feel hungry, whatever food you eat will feel very delicious. My grandfather used to be like that, too. What's more, the family has never been a big family full of warmth, leaving only the smell of copper and those lifeless family members.
She wisely decided not to play the role of an empty ** girl, she will sincerely put in the effort to achieve self-sufficiency, so that she can truly feel happy. This is also the biggest regret of her life. The results of his ingenuity were not particularly bad, he was at least able to comprehend at the critical moments, and there was still a long time to fight for them.
However, the fate of the wise sister is not as good as we imagined, and it is difficult to imagine that a wealthy socialite will be eroded by marriage and eventually lead to a tragic end.
Miao Cong is actually the half-sister of Miao Cong Hui, after the death of Miao Cong Hui's mother, Miao Cunzi chose Miao Cong Ming's mother as his wife. It is a sigh that he is seven or eight years older than he is and that he lost his mother at a young age.
Her appearance is very luxurious, and the book describes it like this:
This young woman, aged about twenty-seven to twenty-eight, showed a very intelligent, dignified and stylish temperament. She wore a white silk shirt with a string of beads made of sandalwood, a gold watch, a pair of black cool leather trousers, a swamp waist around her waist, and a pair of black stiletto heels on her feet. ”
The value of those pants alone is equivalent to a month's salary of a bank manager.
Fang Jiakai, the husband of Miao Congxi, is undoubtedly an outstanding figure, he is a gentle and rich good man, slightly mellow, always with such a good temper, always smiling, giving people the impression of being kind and rich.
Although he was engaged in business, his family could have lived a carefree life without the strong assets of the family. He is a businessman, capable, but not ostentatious, low-key and down-to-earth. A man of this type is generally considered to be a good man, who is not only family-oriented and honest, but also very hard-working and self-motivated.
Miao Congxi and Fang Jiakai have two daughters, and their cuteness is comparable to that of angels. Both daughters are very sensible and can take care of their parents and do a lot of housework since they were young. A family of four is undoubtedly the best example of a happy life. The two of them are also happily married. Still, this marriage is nothing more than a gorgeous cheongsam, the back of which is covered with lice.
A woman who is deeply influenced by tradition, she firmly believes that only by giving birth to a son can the family be more harmonious, and Fong is not opposed to this.
For the sake of our son's future, we should strive to make our lives more fulfilling and comfortable.
Despite this, the third child is still a girl.
It's puzzling why socialites like Congxi insist on having a child? She wants her son to be the jewel of her palm. Her real intention was to win Fang Jiakai's heart.
That's right, Fang Jiakai and Song Jiaming are both men with bright appearances but empty hearts.
Fang Jiakai was in a relationship with a young woman in the outside world, and he thought that with such a woman, life would become more meaningful and simple.
Of course, Fang Jiakai did not plan to break off the marriage contract with Miao Congxi, he hoped that Miao Congxi would accept the women around him more wisely.
This suffocating marriage relationship ultimately destroys our wisdom and rest. In this family, the most unfortunate thing is that herself, her husband and son have grown up**. She was diagnosed with breast cancer and needed to travel abroad for surgery, and Fang Jiakai did not even visit her once.
She says the disease eventually turned into the last straw that limited smart rest:
Money is valuable for people who are financially disadvantaged, but for me, I prefer to stay healthy, end my marriage with Fang Jiakai, and take my children away from the hustle and bustle. ”
She needed to have her right mastectomy due to her illness, and on the third day after the operation, she chose to take poison to end her life. It's not surprising that she made this choice, because her life has been so difficult.
Such a dilemma is not on the material level, but on the spiritual level of deficiencies and vacancies.
She lost her mother at a young age, and since her father was busy with his own career, she must have grown up under the careful care of servants.
Although there are many good things in life, the most valuable thing for children is still a harmonious family and a pair of parents full of warmth. In this world, the most important thing for parents is not material wealth, but spiritual fulfillment. The childhood that he experienced was full of tragedy, and no amount of money could compensate for such losses.
She can only pin her hopes on married life, and give birth to a son at all costs in order to win love. In order to satisfy her husband, she desperately tried and worked hard for her children. In the end, her stomach was out of shape, and her husband's infidelity hurt her soul deeply.
Although she is a celebrity who is envied by everyone, her life is so lonely, and no one can understand and care about all the pain and tears. She is an ordinary **, taking the temperature and blood pressure of patients every day, doing various examinations for patients every day, and taking patients to participate in various activities together. Faced with the threat of cancer, all her perseverance was destroyed.
It's really hard for me to imagine how Cong Xi spent the last stage of his life, and without his family, he had to rely on Xi Bao as an outsider. She was found dead on a cold winter day. When she died in the hospital room, she must have felt a deep sense of loneliness and hopelessness.
What is even more disappointing is that Fang Jiakai did not show any remorse after her death, but criticized her for not acting confused enough.
People often talk about celebrities, but that's actually it. Despite the abundance of wealth, when the love and warmth of life faded, it left only an empty shell.
Are celebrities in wealthy families really so eye-catching?
What we see is always the best of them, they live a life of luxury, without worrying about food and clothing, and they don't have to rush around for life.
However, when I read the story of Ao's wisdom and Ao's rest, I was more inclined to think that it was a blessing to continue to work hard for life. Although our economic conditions are not well-off, we have a clear way forward.
Wealthy ladies, because they have been immersed in material and money for a long time, it is difficult to find the true value of life.
A lot of people might think that I'm saying this because I don't feel like I can eat grapes and I feel that grapes are sour.
In fact, it can be seen from Xibao that in her poor days, she was full of passion and endless hope for the future.
Later, she became the heir to the fortune of Cunzi, but when she had a fund that she could never spend, her mood became dull, whether it was studying Xi, falling in love, or working, she felt powerless.
Life is like one mountain after another, and the truly happy moment is not the moment of climbing to the top of the mountain, but the whole journey of climbing. When you take the first step on a new journey, you will definitely feel like you are climbing a peak! Because in that moment, your heart is full of anticipation, energy, and enthusiasm.
The wealthy seem to be standing at the pinnacle of life, and they no longer have any mountains to climb, which is the life that is clear at a glance in the true sense.
Every member of the family failed to get a good ending, Song Jiaming chose to become a monk, Miao Congshu was placed in a nursing home, and Mrs. Miao lived alone.
Why is this happening? In the original, it also bluntly pointed out the problem:
Despite the fact that they may seem overly cultured, reserved, and humble on the outside, giving a sense of happiness, no one actually understands what they are doing. It's like one family is staging a play while the other family is playing the role of the audience. ”
How could the members of the family behave in such a way that they would discreetly wear a box of masks on any occasion, whether painted with gold, set with silver, or set with precious stones. But as time goes on, we're still not sure if it's the mask or if they're wearing it. ”
In fact, there is no such thing as a perfect life, having wealth and power does not mean that everything will go well, and families with wealth may face more difficulties than the average person.
We don't need to envy them or belittle ourselves, everyone has their own unique world and experiences various emotions and challenges in this world. Everyone is an individual with thoughts and feelings, and all kinds of problems and difficulties will be encountered, but the key is to see how you deal with them. It's like people drink water at what temperature they know.