In the emotional world, every woman looks forward to meeting a man who is sincere and affectionate. However, some men are like the wind of indifference, no matter how hard you try, you can't touch his heart. They usually exhibit three characteristics that expose their unsympathetic nature. 
No sense of responsibility: SelfishnessIn his book The Art of Love, Fromm says: "Responsibility is a fully conscious action, our expressed or unexpressed desire and response to another life." ”A good marriage must not only have the cornerstone of love, but also have a sense of responsibility. Love can be free, but marriage must be responsible. In the TV series "Welcome", Tong Nana's husband Yu Peng is a man who has no sense of responsibility at all. As a husband, he didn't do his job all day long, and used his wife's ID card to borrow hundreds of thousands of dollars online to play games and watch live broadcasts, and finally lost everything. 
When the creditor came to the door, he hid as a shrinking turtle and left all the problems to his unwitting wife. It was only after the family's valuables were emptied and his wife was threatened by her creditors that he returned home slowly.
A man who has no sense of responsibility only cares about himself and does not care at all about the life or death of his family and the quality of life. Such a man who has no responsibility is a disaster for a family. Men who are truly responsible, whether it is the pursuit of their career or the care of their family, they will have the courage to take responsibility. However, affectionate men will choose to evade or pass the buck when they need to take responsibility. This kind of man can't be trusted and relied on. 
Not serious about feelings: Three in the morning and four in the eveningWilde said: If a man's love is not single-minded, then he will not be happy with any woman. Sincere feelings require the dedication and cherishing of both parties. However, affectionate men treat relationships like child's play, and they may easily start a relationship and end it quickly. Just like in the TV series "Good Things Come in Pairs", Lin Shuang's husband Wei Ming obviously has a good wife at home who can go out of the hall and enter the kitchen, but he is still messing around with female colleagues outside. When he got tired of it, he abandoned his female colleague again and turned around to fall in love with the rich daughter......
A man who is in the twilight of his life treats feelings like fast food, pursues short-term excitement and freshness, and lacks in-depth understanding and sincere devotion.
Such men cannot truly understand the profound meaning of love and marriage, and it is difficult for them to take responsibility for marriage, they will only hurt those women who are sincere to them. 
3. If you have money, you will become bad: Lack of affectionMoney can test out a person's nature. Some men may behave faithfully and diligently when they are poor, but once they have wealth, they forget their original intentions and become selfish and indulgent. is like Song Siming in "Snail House", his family was poor since he was a child, and his younger brother gave him the opportunity to go to college. After graduating from college, Song Siming married the daughter of **, Jiang Miaomiao, and became the mayor's secretary by relying on her father-in-law's connections. Song Siming, who has money and power, not only cheated, but also blatantly took his lover to a class reunion.
After being discovered by his wife, Song Siming had an arrogant attitude, directly admitted that he was cheating, and said that he was just playing on the spot. This kind of man, in order to pursue more material comforts, can easily betray his former feelings. As the writer Fyodor Dostoevsky said: ". .Money is the root of all evil. "If a man becomes bad when he has money and is unable to stick to his principles and values, his actions will only disappoint and hurt the other person. 
Zhang Xiaoxian said in "Please Love at Least a Man Like a Man": Love a man you love and love you, love a man who is good to you, love a man who is smart and wise, and keep improving, love a kind man, love a man who has a commitment, or at least, love a man who is like a man. On the emotional road, we all want to meet someone who is worthy of being entrusted with life. However, encountering selfishness and twilight.
Fourth, men with the three characteristics of being unsympathetic should quickly restrain themselves from the precipice, because men with little affection cannot give us true happiness. Love heals to get out of negative emotions and start with yourself. 52 pieces of original content***