The child's mother describes the child's situation to the analyst
In mid-July 2023, Ms. Zhao, Feifei's mother, learned about Button Family Education Group from the Internet and communicated with analysts.
Ms. Zhao reacted to analysts:
Feifei has always been by our side since childhood, in order to let Feifei have a good learning environment, we took out a loan to buy a school district house when Feifei was in elementary school.
Since childhood, we have not let Feifei do any housework, and we hope that he will put his studies first.
Feifei's academic performance in elementary school was very good, and he was obedient and sensible, but he arrivedWhen she was in her second year of junior high school, Feifei became obsessed with mobile games.
Since then, Feifei has stopped studying seriously, and his grades have plummeted.
After graduating from junior high school, Feifei was not admitted to high school. We sent him to a vocational secondary school, butAfter less than a year, he suddenly came back on his ownI can't say it's going to be on it.
We asked him why, and he said he had a fight with his classmates, so he didn't want to go.
After that, we managed to transfer him to a vocational high school in another placeAfter a few months, he went home on his own, saying that the head teacher scolded him and didn't go.
We were so angry that we beat him, and after that he locked himself in his room for three days and three nights and did not come out.
Later, we tried a lot of ways to help him transfer schools, but each time he didn't stay for a few days and came back.
I really couldn't help him with a leave of absence.
Moreover, Feifei learned to smoke during the time he was in vocational middle school, and he was very addicted to smoking, and he could smoke a few packs a day.
Sometimes,We wouldn't let him smoke, and if we hid his cigarettes, he would yell at us.
Now, Feifei has been staying in his room smoking and playing mobile games, except for eating and going to the toilet, he will not step out of the door.
He also went in and out of his left ear and out of his right ear when he was kind to us, and he couldn't listen to it at all.
In order to change Feifei's mood and return to school to continue her studies, Ms. Zhao established a link with Button Family Education Group, hoping to help children build self-confidence and establish life goals through professional strength.
According to Feifei's specific situation, Ms. Zhao was connected to Zhang Yuemeng, a button family education psychological counseling teacher.
After taking over the case, Ms. Zhang Yuemeng immediately communicated with Ms. Zhao, learned in detail about Feifei's growth experience, personality characteristics, family atmosphere and parents' education methods, etc., and preliminarily analyzed the reasons behind Feifei.
After Ms. Zhang Yuemeng learned about Feifei's situation, she immediately held a seminar with other teachers in the expert group on Feifei's situation, formulated targeted family education solutions for Feifei, and gave guidance to Feifei's parents.
After seeing the plan, Ms. Zhao recognized the exclusive plan and the concept of family education, and actively cooperated with the teacher's guidance.
In the process of guiding Ms. Zhao, Ms. Zhang YuemengCognitive-behavioral**, psychoanalytical, positive psychology are usedand other professional and technical means to help Ms. Zhao correctly handle the relationship in the family and actively guide the children.
In the process of guidance, Ms. Zhang Yuemeng will give professional guidance to every question Ms. Zhao has in education.
Give Ms. Zhao the correct and appropriate solution in a timely manner to help Ms. Zhao solve the child's problems.
Throughout the process, Ms. Zhao learned and mastered a scientifically effective and suitable education method.
After half a month of Zhang Yuemeng's guidance, Feifei has changed significantly.
Feifei gradually began to adjust her work and rest, and understood the hard work of her parents, participated in family affairs, helped her parents do what she could, and found a sense of family value after being praised by her parents.
I also slowly quit smoking.
In September 2023, two months after the guidance of teacher Zhang Yuemeng, Feifei successfully resumed school, and more confident in learning, learning stamina, said to make up for the missing homework,There is no sign of dropping out again.
The parents were very happy and expressed their gratitude to Teacher Zhang Yuemeng.
Through the joint efforts of Zhang Yuemeng, a teacher from Button Family Education, and Feifei's parents, Feifei successfully changed his lifestyle.
Not only did he walk out of the room and away from his mobile phone, but he also adjusted his schedule and completely quit smoking. Now, he has regained his self-confidence and is back in school and immersed in school life.
Feifei's transformation is not only reflected in his behavior, but also in re-establishing his life purpose and full of confidence in the future.
In the process of guidance, Feifei's parents also understood the importance of the adjustment of the relationship between husband and wife to the growth of their children, and began to work hard to create a harmonious family atmosphere.
At the same time, they also learn how to handle their emotions correctly and accept their children's emotions positively. This makes them more respectful and understanding of their children, and they are able to give them more encouragement and support.
In the end, the professional counseling of Button Family Education and the active cooperation of Feifei's parents provided strong support for the child's growth. I believe that in the coming days, Feifei will continue to develop in a better direction.
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