Human suffering and happiness are simple.
If your ability is greater than your desire, you will be happy;On the contrary, if the desire is greater than the ability, you will suffer.
Happiness and pain are just that.
In addition to the pain of ability, there are also various negative emotions.
1.Inferiority. In the past year, no matter whether it is a teacher or a friend from other professions, many people around him are timid, complacent, and in pain, and others can not sleep sensitively with a word.
The Master would like to say that all external evaluations and opinions are temporary, and that in their eyes we are only most important when we are despised and despised to satisfy their ignorant vanity.
The only thing that can really accompany us throughout our lives is our own emotions, experiences, and achievements, not their unnourishing and sarcastic words.
Most of the time, your low self-esteem, fear, and anxiety come from the imagination of unknown difficulties and challenges, let go of the baggage, to experience, to feel, to do it yourself, you will find many things that are both simple and happy.
2.Conceited. In the past, at work, the master would feel that no matter how small the work was, it was a big thing, and no matter how big his own thing was, it was a small thing after all.
What you do at work is just a kind of self-deception.
Your personal health, ability, and family stability are 1, everything else is 0, you are the family navigator, and if 1 falls, what greets your family is either an abyss or an iceberg.
Cherish life and family, and stay away from conceit.
3.Consumed. Effective internal friction is called development, and ineffective internal friction is involution.
The rules of this world, when you can't figure it out, start from the perspective of interests, reflect and judge, and you can often find the answers you need.
Internal friction is the cage you set up by yourself, the prisoner's dilemma of the self.
Internal friction is the end of oneself and oneself.
Most of the time, you're not playing a zero-sum game, you're playing a negative-sum game.
No critique is stronger than self-criticism, and no judge is harsher than ourselves. ”
Internal friction destroys not only your spirit, but also your purpose, passion, and desire for this world.
Let internal friction become an opportunity for your development rather than another form of involution.
4.Cupidity. In the past year, many people around Master have been looking for shortcuts to success, full of lust and greed.
Whether it's an investment or a marriage.
But **yes**, those who bought houses were cheated, and those who invested were cheated.
Greed and shortcuts are disguised as what you can think of and what you can't think of, ambushing you at any time on the road of life, waiting for you to take the initiative.
Sharp words are a knife, greedy people always want to keep everything for themselves, and always want to reach the other side as quickly as possible.
A wise person will only choose what he needs most, because all the gifts of fate are secretly marked**.
5.Complex. Complexity is a complex thing in itself.
The big things in the world must be done in detail, and the difficult things in the world must be done in the easy.
The most common mistake we make is not that we can't solve complex problems, but that we always do simple things complicated.
Think about it, how many simple things are complicated and complicated for us to do.
From simple to complex, it can be the experience of the first half of a lifetime;From complex to simple, it must be the practice of the second half of life.
Only simplicity can achieve concentration, and only concentration can achieve the ultimate.
Those who are really powerful are very simple, and simplicity is the great wisdom of life.
In the new year, throw away your inferiority complex and conceit, abandon internal friction and greed, improve your self-ability, and strive to be a simple person.
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