Introduction: In the long history of marriage, every couple has experienced various tests, and the marriage of Shuting and Wang Yang is no exception. The story depicts the complex relationship between Shuting and her mother-in-law, and how she struggles to rise to the challenge and dedicate herself to the harmony of her family in the midst of life.
Although Shuting and Wang Yang's marriage has lasted for many years, it has been shrouded in a layer of haze that is difficult to unravel. Shuting's family background is not good, so her mother-in-law has always been unimpressed with this family business, and she has also developed a dissatisfaction that is difficult to hide.
What makes Shuting feel even more pressure is that they have been married for many years, but they have not been able to usher in the arrival of a little life. This has also become another point of criticism in the mother-in-law's mouth. The mother-in-law believes that Shuting's inability to continue the incense for the family is one of her major shortcomings. Every year at family dinners, my mother-in-law always complains about this problem to her relatives, which makes Shuting feel great pressure.
Shuting has been trying to change her mother-in-law's impression of her with her own efforts and strive to satisfy her mother-in-law. However, it seems that the mother-in-law's demanding demands can never be satisfied, and her words are still mean.
After three years of marriage, Shuting found out that she was finally pregnant. The news not only made the couple ecstatic, but also made the mother-in-law particularly excited. Her expectations for her grandson almost surpassed everything, and Shuting was busy throughout her pregnancy, painstakingly preparing various supplements for Shuting, and also consulted a so-called "traditional midwife" to teach the health of confinement. Even though Shuting felt that these were redundant, she still tried to accept them gladly, thinking that it was her mother-in-law's concern.
However, what Shuting didn't expect was that when Shuting gave birth to a daughter, she and Wang Yang were very happy, but her mother-in-law's face became a little solemn.
In the mother-in-law's concept, the boy is the hope of continuing the family incense, and the girl is regarded as an "outsider". Although Shuting and Wang Yang think that men and women are the same, they are full of love for their daughter, but their mother-in-law can't accept this reality. Her attitude towards Shuting began to become cold, and her care during the confinement period also became perfunctory.
Fortunately, the mother-in-law lives in a community with them, and the couple goes to the mother-in-law's house together after work every day, and then takes the child home after dinner, and then sends it to the mother-in-law's house early the next morning to take care of it.
Despite the mother-in-law's prejudice against Shuting's daughter, Shuting still shows great respect and care for her mother-in-law. Shuting gives her mother-in-law 3,000 yuan per month for living expenses, and she goes to her mother-in-law's house to cook and cook as soon as she gets off work every day, and even if she is usually busy with work, she will help her mother-in-law clean her room every week, and at the same time, she will ask for leave to accompany her mother-in-law to the hospital when she is not feeling well. Every time her mother-in-law gets sick, Shuting always cares about the hardships, accompanies her, obtains medical records for her, and takes care of her diet and daily life.
Although Shuting gave a lot in front of her mother-in-law, her virtuousness and Gu family did not touch her mother-in-law's heart. This indifferent attitude makes Shuting feel helpless, and she may understand that sometimes kindness does not necessarily change the hearts of others, and it also makes her expectations of her mother-in-law more realistic.
When the child was 4 years old, Shuting found a kindergarten near her home in order to facilitate her mother-in-law to pick up and drop off the child.
Once, Shuting came to her mother-in-law's house to pick up her daughter as usual. The mother-in-law sat on the sofa in the living room with a gloomy expression. Shuting tried to keep smiling, but she could feel a nervousness and hostility.
Mom, I took my daughter home, do you have anything you want to eat tomorrow?Shuting tried to lighten the mood.
The mother-in-law responded coldly: "Don't you think it's too much to eat every day?"Have they become your home?”
Shuting explained helplessly: "We are all busy with work, and it is convenient for you to take care of our daughter in kindergarten here." You don't have to worry, I'll give you some more money. ”
The mother-in-law was unmoved: "I just think that you come here every day, like you are eating and drinking." It's shameless".
At this time, Shuting's daughter walked out, and when she heard her mother-in-law's words, she immediately said dissatisfiedly: "Grandma, don't talk nonsense!."Mom buys vegetables, cooks and washes dishes every day, which one of our families is her rubbing?”
The mother-in-law was a little caught off guard by her daughter's confrontation, she wanted to speak and stopped, and finally smiled helplessly and said softly: "Okay, okay, I'm not saying that your mother is bad." Your parents and daughters have such a good relationship, and I have nothing to complain about. ”
Shuting felt her mother-in-law's dissatisfaction, and in order to avoid further conflicts, she decided not to force her mother-in-law anymore. She gave up her easier job and chose a relatively hard job close to home, waking up early every day and rushing to the company, especially after work, she had to rush to her daughter's kindergarten.
Due to the nature of her new job, Shuting needed more time and energy commitment, and her life became even more stressful in the face of the double pressure of work and caring for her daughter. In the evenings, she often worked hard to prepare breakfast for her daughter the next day, and stayed up late to tidy up the housework and make sure everything was in order.
Despite the increased stress of life, Shuting did not complain or complain to her mother-in-law, but silently worked hard to maintain the harmony of the family.
And her husband Wang Yang was very distressed when he saw it, and he was also dissatisfied with his mother-in-law's attitude, and he no longer insisted on giving his mother-in-law living expenses.
Through this series of changes, the relationship between Shuting and her mother-in-law began to gradually ease. Shuting's hard work and dedication also made her mother-in-law gradually understand her intentions. Perhaps the difficulties in life are also an opportunity for growth and communication, and it is through these difficulties that Shuting gradually won the respect and understanding of her mother-in-law.
Conclusion: Shuting's story is a microcosm of an ordinary family, full of ups and downs and hardships in life. Through her efforts, we see the great power of family affection and responsibility. Perhaps, everyone has their own hardships and efforts, just like Shuting, her efforts may not completely change a family relationship, but she has won respect and understanding. Every ups and downs in life is an opportunity for growth, and it is through these experiences that Shuting gradually finds the balance of family harmony. Perhaps, we can also draw strength from her story to face the difficulties in life, understand with our hearts, move with our efforts, and make our family a warm harbor.