My brother and sister-in-law come to eat and drink every day, and I made a hometown dish to entertain, and my brother-in-law did it deliberately
Zhou Jifang felt quite troubled: Why did his younger brother become so different after marrying his brother-in-law?She believes that people often say that those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black, but in Zhou Jifang's view, her brother-in-law seems to have become the black ink that changes her younger brother.
1 Zhou Jifang does not have a good impression of his brother and daughter-in-law. In her eyes, her younger brother has always been a well-behaved, sensible, obedient, and down-to-earth child. However, her brother-in-law is the opposite, instead of working 9-to-5, she chooses to start a business from home. Because the younger brother and daughter-in-law were unwilling to go out to work, they even persuaded the younger brother not to look for a job anymore, and the two stayed at home all day to start a business, but they did not achieve any significant results. On the contrary, the younger brother was influenced by his sister-in-law's lifestyle, and became more inclined to live a free and casual life, and was no longer willing to go out to find a job. The two are too lazy to cook at home every day, and often go to Zhou Jifang's house to eat.
2 Zhou Jifang felt very disgusted by this frequent behavior of rubbing rice. She doesn't like her brother and sister-in-law to come to eat often, especially every time the two come together, her brother-in-law always says to Zhou Jifang: "Sister, I want to eat these dishes tomorrow, you can cook them for me." That way of calling "sister" made it difficult for Zhou Jifang to refuse. However, once you promise to cook for your brother and sister-in-law, it becomes never-ending. Because the two of them went to Zhou Jifang's house every day to leave after eating, they didn't even bother to wash a bowl, which made Zhou Jifang feel very dissatisfied. Although she was unhappy in her heart, she couldn't show it, after all, this was her own brother, and she tried to convince herself at first: "That's my brother, many years of sister-brother friendship, you shouldn't care too much." ”
Although Zhou Jifang tried to persuade himself not to care, his younger brother and sister-in-law became more and more indulgent in eating, making Zhou Jifang feel like he had a heart disease, and his heart was depressed and could not be stretched.
In a conversation with his younger brother, Zhou Jifang proposed: "Brother, you are not young anymore, why don't you find a stable job?"Now you can't save for this precarious life, you have been married for many years, but you have no future plans, and you can't afford to raise children. ”
The younger brother and sister-in-law who have been married for many years have not yet had children, and Zhou Jifang believes that the casual life attitude of the younger brother and daughter-in-law has affected the younger brother, and the two live lazily and are unwilling to pay the hard work of raising children. Zhou Jifang was dissatisfied with his younger brother's wasted time and persuaded him to return to a normal life, otherwise there would be no future. The younger brother obeyed his brother-in-law's concept of "living in the moment", which made Zhou Jifang feel irresponsible.
Especially the younger brother and sister-in-law claim to start a business at home, but even food and clothing are a problem, and they always rub food from Zhou Jifang. Zhou Jifang realized that he was also an ordinary person and could not afford the extra expenses. My brother and daughter-in-law often asked what to eat, but never mentioned paying for the food. Zhou Jifang no longer had any extra money to buy them food, so she decided to dissuade them by changing her cooking methods.
In order to let his younger brother and sister-in-law no longer rub rice, Zhou Jifang deliberately made a spicy vegetable meal for a week, knowing that his brother and daughter-in-law don't like spicy and hate vegetables. The younger brother and daughter-in-law tried to change the situation and offered to eat seafood, but Zhou Jifang insisted on making spicy vegetables, indicating that in order to have a stable life, they should work steadily.
The younger brother and daughter-in-law understood that it was deliberate, but she had no choice but to leave. Zhou Jifang knows that this approach may offend his younger brother and sister-in-law, but he also firmly believes that sometimes he can't just maintain a superficial politeness, otherwise he is just embarrassing himself.