There is nothing big in life except life and death!
Birth, old age, sickness and deathIt's something that everyone will go through, and our country pays attention to itThe dead are greaterA grand and solemn funeral will be held for the deceased, of which many remainTaboo and exquisite
In addition to the deceased before his deathHousehold itemsIn addition to burning or buriing, even the deceased slept before his deathNone of the beds can be used anymore, not superstition,The closer you are, the more taboo you have to be.
So why can't you sleep in the same bed that the dead slept in before?The closer you are, the more taboo you have, and why?
China has been up and down for 5,000 years, leaving behind a lotXi and culture, and a lot of it is aboutFuneralTarget. In ancient times, when science was not very developed, people thought that the world existedYin and Yang are two worldsEven if a person dies, he does not leave completely, but goes to live in the underworld.
But despite what people think, it is inevitable that after the death of a person, it will ariseIntense feelings of grief, and in the days to come, it will also be to the deceasedDeep nostalgia。And in order to respect the deceased, relatives will also hold a funeral, to:Mourning for the deceased,Death also becomes oneSolemn and serious business
When the funeral is held, the relatives and friends of the deceased will come to see off the deceasedThe last ride, filial sons will also wear white clothes to show respect for the deceased, and on the day of burial, people will prepare a large amountPaper and plastic products, burned in the cemetery, means that these items are taken to the underworld for the deceased.
And used by the deceased during his lifetimeHousehold itemsRelatives will also sort it out and take it to the cemetery orBurning or burying, but also to make the deceased's life on the other side more comfortable. In ancient timesPrincely nobilityHolding a funeral is not only for some daily necessities, but also for a large number of burialsGold and silver jewelry, directly in the tomb.
People are also particularThe dead are greaterDuring the period between the death of the deceased and the burial, the funeral of the deceased is given no matter whatConcessionsIn those days, it can really be said that the deceased is the greatest, even if the children and grandchildren are in a foreign country, they have to rush backRush to the funeral, otherwise it is to the deceasedUnfilial piety or disrespect
And the deceasedThe image can also be exaggerated, often moreMediocre deceasedwill get 10 pointsOutstanding reviews, far higher than the merits and abilities of the prenatal period, some of the deceased in the pre-mortemNot very good conduct, have done some bad things, but as long as they are not the kind of vicious and vicious, they are criticized by peoplewill be forgiven
Those who have conflicts with the deceased will also choose to conflictBig things are small, and small things are smallAfter all, there is something bigger than death. After the funeral, when everyone dispersed, they were also relativesThe saddest momentFor a long time afterward, the deceased will be deeply remembered.
NowadaysCremationIt has gradually replaced burial as the most dominant form of funeral, especially in urban areas, where cremation has become almost the only form of funeral, but although the funeral mode has changed, someFuneral Xi still exists, such as burning household items or clothing used by the deceased during his lifetime.
Generally, such as clothes, towels, and bed sheetsClose-fitting use, the family will gather it togetherIncineration, but there are some large objects used by the deceased during their lifetime, which cannot be incinerated, such asBed, which are often stored at home, orFor use by others
But in ancient times there was such a saying,It is not possible to sleep in the bed that the deceased slept in before his death, no matter how expensive the bed is, it can only be left unused, and especially loved onesThe closer you are, the more taboo you have to beThis, so why is that?
In ancient times science was not so developed, and people thought that the world was thereYin and Yang are two worldsAfter the death of a person, the soul does not completely dissipate, but goes to another world, and the deceased is aliveRelics left behind, and become the deceasedCommunicate the two worlds of yin and yangThe only way and channel is for the deceased to communicate with the yang world through relics.
Humans are very afraidCorpses of the same kind, and for the deceased, it is even more jealous of it, and no one wants to have with the deceasedToo much to doMost of the intimate clothes of the deceased were burned, and perhaps the only thing left was the bed, so sleeping in the bed that the deceased slept in before his death was regarded as a kind ofUnlucky behavior
According to metaphysics, everyone has oneIndependent magnetic fieldIn the process of death, the magnetic field in the body of the deceased will not dissipate, but will be presidingAn objectThe bed is a good hostel, and most people spend their last journey in bed.
Therefore the bed will remain in large quantitiesThe magnetic field of the deceasedIf you continue to use this bed and sleep on it, it is easy to get the magnetic field left by the deceased and the magnetic field of the body of the livingBlendering, causing harm to the body of the living, or directly affecting the livingEmotions and the brain, so that the spirit of the living is in trouble.
There is also the possibility of aggravationThe grief of the livingChina is a country of etiquette, and filial piety is very important, and it even appeared in ancient timesFilial piety, regard filial piety as the basis for being an official. People are also particular about seeingDeath is like life, treat the deceased as if they were alive, in order to reflect a person's filial piety.
The days after the deceased died, exactlyHold a funeralAt this time, most of the relatives of the main family are busy with the aftermath and have no spare time and energy to mourn the deceased, and wait until the funeral is over, at homeAfter the desertion, the deep nostalgia for the deceased will be a brainBurst out
At this time, the loved ones will passSome relicsTo remember the deceased, and most of the relics of the deceased have been burned, only the bed has been placed in its original place, and the filial sons will chooseSleep in the bed of the deceased, to remember it, but the filial son himself is very sad to lose his loved ones, and sleeping on the bed of the deceased will onlyTouching the scene, even more sad.
Sleeping on the bed of the deceased will definitely sprout up inadvertentlySad emotions, will always be obsessed with the deceased, and after sleeping soundly at night, it will also be oftenDreaming of the deceased, which will greatly affect the livingSleep quality, causing the spirit to deteriorate and affect the work and life of the next day.
And those who are not close relatives and have an ordinary relationship with the deceased, sleeping on the bed where the deceased slept will still occurA lot of mental stressAfter all, people are very afraid of death, and the spirit has always been thereHigh state of tension,It's easy to cause someMental illnessor make the body extremely uncomfortable.
However, whether it is feudal superstition or metaphysics, or nostalgia for the deceased, these are very largeSubjective factors, in addition to these, there are someObjective factors, that is, the scientific statement, proves that you cannot sleep in the bed that the deceased slept in before his death.
Under the rapid development of today's economy and society, people's living standards have improvedOverall lifespanIt is also constantly extended, howeverOrgans of the human bodyThere is a lifespan, after entering old age, the bodyFunctionsare constantly decreasing, and it is easy to cause diseases, and many elderly people areDied of illness
And the disease is often carriedgerms and bacteriaThe bed, as the item that has been in contact with the patient for the longest time, must be stained with a lot of bacteria and germs, and if it is not carried out after the patient diesCompletely sanitizedThen these germs and bacteria still exist, once someone uses themIt's easy to get on
There are even some elderly people who suffer fromInfectious diseases, such as hepatitis B, tuberculosis, etc., these germs are very contagious, and the living often sleep in the bed of the deceasedVery probabilityIf you are infected with these diseases, once you are infected with these diseases, it will be good for your life and healthGreat threat
Even if the deceased did not die of illness, yesDie of natural old ageIt doesn't mean that there are no bacteria and germs in the bed. The body of the old man isVery fragile, it is easy to get contaminated with bacteria and germs, especially in theOn the verge of death, that's when the body is at its weakest, and many bacteria and germs willTake advantage of the situation
As a result, even though the elderly are not sick, their beds are still stained with bacteria and germs, which are also present to the livingA big threat。Nowadays peopleHygienic conceptIt is also getting stronger and stronger, and will carry out the clothes of the deceasedCentralized destruction, completely destroys residual bacteria and germs, but often doesIgnore the bed
Therefore, the bed that the deceased slept in before his death was tens of millionsCan't continue to sleep, even after a comprehensive sanitization, it will be rightThe spirit of the livingto cause a certain impact.
China has attached great importance to it since ancient timesFuneral Xi, will be concentrated incineration of the deceased's clothing and daily necessities, so that the deceased can live in another worldRelatively comfortable
But the bed is an item that is not convenient for incineration, and is also relatively inconvenientRelatively expensive, almost no of which are incinerate, and many will also choose to put the bedRepurposing,In particular, loved ones will choose to make it directlySleep in a bed
But this is for the livingThere is a lot of harmIt's not just that it will bring great things to the livingPsychological stress, and it is easy for the living to be contaminatedBacteria and germs, affecting their life and health.