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Men's love is not as light as they say, but like women, they are all overwhelmed in their hearts and their feelings are difficult to control.
However, if a man really falls in love with a woman, even if he is introverted, he can also show it from the following two words, which must be believed.
01: Valuing her feelings
If you truly love someone, you will definitely value that person's feelings.
Even if you don't take the other person's likes and dislikes as likes and dislikes, you will pay attention to the observation of her expression while expressing your own thoughts, so as to obtain her feelings at that time.
Therefore, when a man will always pay attention to the emotional ups and downs of the girl, pay attention to her life state, and how she feels emotionally, it is the best proof that the man is deeply involved in this woman.
Of course, this also means that this man respects his lover's thoughts very much at this moment, is willing to listen and wait for her to speak, and will never ignore her inner voice because of a strong desire to express it.
When the girl is in trouble or in pain, he will also try his best to help, calm her emotions, and listen to her troubles and sorrows.
Even if harm is inevitable, he will not indulge himself to get by, but will try his best to let the other party vent, so that he can know what to do in the future.
02: Pay attention to her changes
When a guy really loves a girl, he will naturally pay attention to the changes that occur in her.
Because if you really love someone, you will not allow yourself to be ignorant of the other person's changes, but will only want to know the other person's movements at all times.
Love is fluid, and if you are not careful, the distance between two people will become farther and farther.
Therefore, after the love happens, the boy will be happy to pay attention to the growth and progress of the other person, and be a person who always applauds her on her way forward.
He will appreciate her strengths and talents, while also accepting her shortcomings and boundaries.
Truly falling in love with someone will never cut off her wings, but will give her wings, help her pursue her dreams, and encourage her to become a more independent and confident woman.
Of course, he will never be her life coach, but willingly be her companion and praise teacher.
03: Pay attention to her needs
Think about it, what kind of person would selectively ignore the needs of their lover?
Of course, the love is getting colder, and there is no care.
Therefore, when you really love someone, you will never ignore her, but always pay attention to her and value her.
This is not only reflected in the trivial things of daily life, but also in the emotional needs of the moment.
Such a man will do his best to satisfy her and will not disrespect her.
He will be willing to pay attention to the other person's decisions and choices, take the initiative to understand her thoughts and needs, and try his best to adapt to her way of thinking and living habits.
Of course, life needs to be run-in, but both people are willing to work hard for each other, and this dedication should be affirmed.
When a man puts his lover's needs before his own and gives his time and energy for her, this is the moment of true love.
Through the above three points, we can know that the top performance of a boy who really loves someone is to pay attention.
This emphasis is not only reflected in words, but also in actions and thoughts.
Only by truly valuing her partner's feelings, changes, and needs can she feel cared for and loved from the bottom of her heart.
Of course, the subtext of this emphasis is respect, and it is valued because of respect, and more respected because of it.
This kind of love is healthy, because love is about fulfillment, not control.
However, this kind of love is not self-sacrificing, but both parties know what true love is, respect each other, and value each other, so that they can get along more closely and happily.
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