Why are you unhappy when life is better than before?

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-29

"Navarre's Treasure Book" believes that happiness = wealth + health + good interpersonal relationships, and this is the first time in my life that I have been hospitalized, which has given me a deeper understanding of this.

These three elements are actually relatively comparative, you feel very happy to eat a white flour steamed bun when you are hungry, but knowing that your neighbor drinks 82 years of Lafite every day, you feel that your life is garbage. Wealth, in particular, can be easily manifested through external forms, whether your neighbor's house is bigger than yours, whether the car is better than yours, whether the official rank is higher than yours, so,When you pursue happiness through wealth creation, you will find that "wealth is endless", and the richer you are, the more dissatisfied you are. When I was the happiest, I was probably when I just graduated and earned 1,000 yuan to live in the basement, and how cool it was to drink a bottle of beer with my friends after playing.

Not only wealth, in factHealth and interpersonal relationships are also relative, but you can't tell at a glance whether this person is healthier or less healthy than you, whether this person must live longer than you, whether this person has a more intimate and harmonious interpersonal relationship, so you can have more "self-feeling".

This time I was sick, and I thought I was miserable, and I felt guilty about passing on my bad genes to my children, but when I was admitted to the ward and found that the seven people in the same ward had the least symptoms, I felt a sense of happiness. "When you cry for not getting the shoes you want, until you see a man without feet", that's what it means. Of course, going to the hospital is miserable, but in the worst place, the more you can experience the happiness of life. Many people are terminally ill, many people look down on the disease and dare not use good medicine, many people suffer alone and unaccompanied, and the ward is the epitome of human suffering.

There is no hell, there is no heaven;Without comparison, there is no happiness. Happiness is not something that comes out of it, but something that comes out of it.

Happy life

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