We often envy the pure and youthful ignorance of high school, which is the precious wealth of our youth. After entering college, it is not difficult for us to find that love seems to have become a consumable, and pure and lasting love has become a luxury. There is less slow love such as holding hands and strolling and waiting for the sunset, and more fast-food love that enjoys today and breaks up tomorrow.
I think fast-food love in college is a microcosm of today's socio-economic development. On the one hand, the rapid economic and social development has created a world miracle of economic take-off, but at the same time, it has also affected the mainstream consciousness of a society and caused a series of drawbacks. For example: the pace of life is increasing, information fragmentation, anxiety is rampant, hedonism, etc. We were going to work from 9 to 5, so we gave up our leisurely strollWe wanted to start a family, so we gave up singing about wine;We want to become a talent, so we give up love and freedom. College students have been surrounded by these pressures for a long time, facing the cruel reality, facing the fierce social competition, and facing their imperfect selves, they are constantly suffering from internal friction, and in order not to collapse themselves, they inevitably have to seek some spiritual relief. Fast-food love is the kind of relief they are looking for. In the process, a fast-food relationship can not only satisfy their need to love and be loved, enjoy passion and intimacy, but also have no family responsibilities, so why not?
Born in a great era, we have to admit that it is the times that have made us, and it is the times that are constantly spurring us, but the contradiction is that it is also the times that overwhelm us. The wheels of history are rolling forward, the tide of the times is rushing, the economy and society are constantly developing, and people in society are always tense their nerves, pursuing everything efficiently, fast, and fast-food love is the result of it.
Wen Zhou Min. Figure from the Internet.