Kazuo Inamori said:
"The greatest stupidity of human nature is to embarrass each other, small people like to slander and jealousy, because I am not good, and I don't want you to be good. People with a big pattern understand a truth, the strong help each other, and the weak tear each other apart. Life is in a hurry, self-crossing is a kind of ability, and crossing people is a pattern. ”
Those who do not live satisfactorily often lack the ability to introspect, and even lack the courage to survive.
Because their vision is too low, they see all the problems, their hearts are full of trivialities, and they live in calculations every day, which is destined to be difficult to exert their strengths and feet, and it is difficult to achieve the growth they deserve.
Once someone around them surpasses them, they start to be genuinely afraid and want to hinder others from succeeding, and the phrase they often say is, "If I don't go well, you can't go either." ”
There is a famous crab law in psychology, which perfectly explains this inferior nature of human beings.
It is said that when a crab is placed in the bamboo basket, it must be covered to prevent it from coming out, and when the number of crabs in the bamboo basket increases, there is no need to cover it, because at this time, the crab cannot climb out.
When one crab climbs to the mouth of the basket, the rest of the crabs will grab it with large pincers and drag it to the lower level, while the other crab will step on it and climb up, and the cycle repeats.
In fact, the same is true of human beings, and the greatest stupidity of human nature is to make difficulties with each other.
Regarding human nature, Keigo Higashino has a saying that goes like this:
"The greatest evil of human nature is not to see the good of others. You never know how much malice those people in your life who seem close to you will be behind your back. ”
Jealousy is like a poison, it always corrupts people's hearts, makes people lose their minds, does not learn to restrain themselves, deviates the course of life, and knocks the ship next to it to stagger.
Some people are carried away by this jealousy and become unreasonable.
Writer Fan Gumu said:
"Some people, even if you don't offend him, will be jealous of you, slander you, and even want to destroy you. ”
For them, your excellence is so dazzling in their eyes, they always want to pull you into the water, don't want you to work hard, and do everything to prevent you from succeeding.
For them, they don't have a good life, they don't let others live well, what they don't have, they don't want others to get, if others get what they don't get, they will do everything they can to embarrass you.
When we experience more and more people and things, the more we will understand that the smaller the pattern, the narrower the mind, and the lower the level, the easier it is to be jealous of others, all due to human nature.
Mo Yan said:"The ugliness of human nature is to find fault with people who are powerless, powerless, and kind, and to find merit in people who are powerful, powerful, and lack virtue. When powerless, powerless, and kind people are harmed, they still have to stand on the so-called moral high ground, and falsely persuade powerless, powerless, and kind people to be patient and generous. ”
I have to say that when a person is still very weak, he is surrounded by "wicked people".
When someone sees that the person around them is richer than themselves, they are indignant in their hearts and want to make the other person poorer than themselvesWhen he saw that others had money and status, he spread rumors and slandered them in every possible way, lest the world be chaotic.
People with a small pattern can be said to spend their energy on hurting others, and they interpret human nature to the fullest.
There's a saying that's well said:
"The superior people help others, the middle people crowd people, and the inferior people step on people. ”
The road of life is destined to take a different path of life because of the different vision patterns of each person.
The more incompetent a person is, the more habitually he finds fault with others, justifiably accuses others, and when he talks about it, he is full of eloquent words, endless, and habitually silent when he talks about himself.
Such a person will only expose his ignorance, unable to achieve inner growth, and eventually make himself more and more narrow, and the path of life will become narrower and narrower.
And really smart people can actually overcome the stupidity of human nature and open up a path in a win-win situation.
Build a platform with each other, and the road is easy to walk.
Praise each other, help each other, get a good reputation in cooperation, the network is destined to be wider and wider, the circle is more and more abundant, when you need help, others will also lend a hand, have a different harvest!