If a man can live a dignified and upright life, look up to the sky, bow down to the ground, walk the world, be worthy of others, and be worthy of himself, he is a frank and unrestrained man.
Such a man is undoubtedly attractive. When people around him interact with him, they often unconsciously "like", and the man's life path will become more and more open. So what are the usual manifestations of such a man?How many of the 6 micro habits of men are accounted for?
1.Be kind and be kind to others.
A man is "bad" in his bones, "selfish" in his bones, specializing in doing things that harm others and benefit himself, and even worse, he can't see the good of others, and sees that others are better than himself, so he becomes jealous, wants to "pull the other party down", and does things that harm others and himself.
An upright man, when he interacts with people, will send "kindness" and will prove that he is an "honest person" with his actions. Loyalty and honesty are his qualities, so he will earn the respect of people who really value his feelings, and he will also gain a bunch of supporters and friends.
2.Stick to the bottom line and respect others.
A man has no bottom line in what he says and does, does not know how to respect people, always focuses on himself, always takes his own feelings as the standard for judging the "right and wrong" of others' behavior, and imposes his will on others.
Obviously doing things without a bottom line, not respecting others, and asking the other party to accept it unconditionally, the result can be imagined: men often become more and more unpopular.
A dignified man, no matter what he says or does, he is measured, he will abide by the boundaries, he will respect others, and because of this, he will often be respected by others.
3.Empathy, for the sake of others.
In life, men do not know how to empathize, only consider their own interests when speaking and doing things, and do not consider the interests of others and society, the result can be imagined, many people feel that such men are more "selfish", and there will naturally be fewer and fewer supporters of men.
An upright man will defend his own interests, but also protect the interests of others, he will empathize, the so-called "do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself", he has requirements for himself, he will think about others, and the people he deals with will feel comfortable, and he is willing to deal with men.
4.There is a sense of boundaries and will not cross the line.
In life, men lack a sense of boundaries, mix hard with things that should not be mixed, often cross the line, and appear to have no "self-knowledge", which will not only end up boring for themselves, but also disgusting.
An upright man will be measured, he will abide by the boundaries, and he will not blindly mix things that should not be involved, just as he will not express his opinions on other people's affairs at will without understanding the situation, and he will not "brag about himself" and use his "very good" as a reason to force others to do anything, he has a sense of boundaries, and often looks above board and respectful.
5.Abide by credibility and take responsibility.
In life, men don't talk about credibility, what they said yesterday doesn't count today, when it's time for him to take responsibility, men choose to escape, or find all kinds of reasons for themselves, such men will be boring.
An upright man will cherish his feathers, maintain his reputation, speak counting, and take responsibility, which is the minimum requirement for himself, so he will often win the respect of others.
6.Improve yourself and become excellent.
In life, men know that they are going downhill, and understand that if they continue like this, they will make their lives worse and worse, and they will make themselves worse and worse.
A dignified man will always have expectations of himself, he will aim high, he wants to become better and better, so he will improve himself, make himself better, he will have the courage to try and face problems head-on. Therefore, he will always make some achievements and win the respect and trust of those around him.