Returning to the countryside for the Chinese New Year is a traditional Xi for many people. When everyone gathers in their hometown after a long absence, they can not only feel the strong local atmosphere, but also listen to the various stories told by the old folks. Among them, measuring whether a person is "mixed well" has become one of the most concerned topics for many rural relatives and friends.
So how to tell at a glance how well a person is "mixed well"?First of all, we can start with the way the other person is dressed. Dressing up is the external display of a person's image, and it is also the basis for people to judge others for the first time. If a person dresses plainly, neatly, and with some fine details, such as a neat haircut or carefully selected accessories, then it can be said that he mixes well. Because people who take care of their appearance are usually detail-oriented, they will also have certain ethics in life and work. On the contrary, if a person is sloppy in clothes and has messy hair, then it is clear that his life and financial situation may not be very good.
We can judge by the way the other person speaks and behaves. A person's speech and demeanor are a manifestation of his inner qualities and cultivation. People who are good at communicating with others and speak well are often respected and liked by others. They are able to pay attention to the appropriate tone of voice when conversing, and follow certain rules of etiquette. People who are unkempt and do not know how to communicate with others are likely to encounter some bottlenecks in their lives and work. For example, being rude in dealing with others, or not knowing how to respect others' opinions, often leads to the breakdown of interpersonal relationships, which in turn affects one's own development in society. A person's financial situation is also one of the important bases for judging whether he is "mixed well". Although money is not the only measure of a person's worth, money is a symbol of a person's strength and status in modern society. If a person has accumulated a certain amount of wealth through hard work, then it means that he has achieved success to some extent. And if a person spends all day doing nothing and living on the financial support of others, then his life situation may be relatively poor.
Li Ming, for example, is a successful entrepreneur who returns to the countryside for the New Year with a well-dressed person, neat hair, and a gorgeous watch and elaborate rings. When he talked to the villagers, he used appropriate words, spoke humorously, and was very approachable. From his experience of starting a business independently and succeeding, it can be seen that he has achieved great satisfaction both materially and spiritually, and it can be said that he "mixes well". On the other hand, Xiao Zhang is the opposite. When he returned to the countryside for the Chinese New Year, he was dressed sloppily, his hair was messy, and he had some habits of smoking and drinking. Although he is sincere when talking to people, because he is idle all day and has no regular job and income**, the villagers generally believe that his living situation is not very good.
To sum up, it is not very difficult to tell if a person is "mixing well". Starting from their dress, speech and behavior, and economic status, we can have a preliminary understanding of a person's living status and development status. Of course, this is only a superficial judgment, and to truly understand a person, it is also necessary to gain an in-depth understanding of his inner world through long-term contact and communication. For there may be people who have things outside of their bodies, but they are empty inside;Others may be penniless, but their hearts are full and content. Therefore, while judging whether a person is "mixed well", we must also maintain an inclusive and open mind, not only focusing on the external appearance, but also paying attention to the inner cultivation and quality. In the years to come, let us use in-depth understanding and sincere communication to see through the true face of each person and discover more meaningful and valuable life stories.