Recently, Xi Mengyao was scolded.
The reason was that during a chat on the show, Xi Mengyao was asked whether the two children were born naturally or by caesarean section.
Xi Mengyao said that both babies were dissected.
When he was asked: Does it hurt after the caesarean section?Xi Mengyao's answer caused great controversy. "It doesn't feel anything. ”"When I gave birth, my doctor asked me, "What song do you want to listen to?" ”
Xi Mengyao went on to say that it may be similar to last night's KTV (atmosphere). 
She and the other guests laughed after hearing it, but netizens quarreled. Someone accuses her, don't understate and mislead people, how can anesthesia not hurt when you wake up?
Some people scolded her for deliberately ignoring the risk of childbirth, and ridiculed that since it didn't hurt, she would give birth to 10 and 8. 
Someone else directly told her to shut up. 
Netizens quarreled all over the world, topicXi Mengyao: It doesn't hurt to give birthRushed directly to the first place in the hot search. 
In such a trouble, Xi Mengyao's reputation that she had finally accumulated returned to before liberation. Most women who are married and have children have experienced the pain of finger opening, childbirth and wound recovery, and they do not agree with Xi Mengyao's rhetoric at all. So, is she lying?What is the truth?I think she didn't feel anything, maybe she wasn't lying. Because her "production" is different from what we know. There are reports that Xi Mengyao's first son was born in Hong Kong Sanatorium & Hospital, which is the same hospital where the gambling king was hospitalized. The ** of the VIP ward of this hospital, 300,000. 
And that's not all. Hong Kong media reported that in the Hong Kong Sanatorium and Hospital, medical equipment, doctors' rounds, and designated delivery times are all subject to additional charges.
This means that when Xi Mengyao gave birth to her first child, the cost was likely to be more than 300,000. Of course, the high ** is matched by the quality of the service. Some people say that Xi Mengyao feels no pain, and may be using extraperitoneal cesarean section.
It is said that the recovery of extraperitoneal cesarean section is faster than that of general cesarean section, and you can get out of bed and eat quickly without any pain, but the risk is relatively high, and the technical requirements for doctors are very high. Of course, there is still controversy surrounding this kind of operation, and the parties have not said it personally.
But she used her money ability to buy the top medical treatment, which is undisputed. Xi Mengyao's production process must have suffered a lot less than ordinary people.
For her second child, Xi Mengyao chose to give birth in her hometown of Shanghai, and she chose the best private hospital in Shanghai. The entry threshold for caesarean section** is as high as 90,008. And a wealthy family like Xi Mengyao naturally has a ** that is more in line with their identity. If you live in a single room with better conditions, you can specify the doctor you want, and you can also enjoy one-on-one professional services. **250,000. Best of all, it really doesn't hurt. A netizen who gave birth in the Beijing branch of the hospital said that before the operation, the anesthesiologist not only put ** to comfort her, but also gave her a sufficient dose of anesthetic to relieve her tension and pain. The incision does not hurt sharply after the operation, and she can directly breastfeed the child.
It is such a comprehensive and meticulous service that Xi Mengyao moved freely and was full of energy after being discharged from the hospital by caesarean section.
And the confinement center she chose was the most expensive** of nearly 300,000. Here, she will enjoy professional postpartum care. High-end equipment, gentle care, pre-childbirth worries, and possible post-childbirth pain have all been smoothed out. So, that's the truth of what she said. When she gives birth, there is the most intimate and professional service, the most top medical care;When she doesn't have to endure the torture of opening the milk and getting up in the middle of the night to breastfeed, she really doesn't feel much pain. I remembered a heart-wrenching comment from a netizen: Those of us who only spend a few thousand yuan for reimbursement after giving birth, don't compare.
We don't have that superior condition, and we can't understand the cruel truth contained in her words. Most of the anxiety and pain in production is settled by money. The lives of rich people have long been separated from us by natural barriers.
Xi Mengyao's news reminds me of a ** I watched a few days ago. Xiaofeng, a 32-year-old woman in Zhengzhou, found that she was "paralyzed" after giving birth to her second child at the beginning of the year, and she couldn't get off the ground at all. As soon as she stood up and walked around, her uterus would fall from her body and hang down to her thighs. With every step, her clothes and pants rubbed against her uterus, causing her pain. Because she had no money, she endured the pain until the 8th month after giving birth, when she went to the hospital for a check-up.
I can't imagine how she survived those days of strength. If you have enough financial conditions, why suffer if you don't have to worry about taking care of your children?The Metropolis Express once reported a piece of news. Xiao Shen, a pregnant woman in Xi'an, delivered herself alone in a rental house. When her legs fell to her knees and she was about to faint, she kept beating her head to stay awake. When the medical staff arrived, they saw only a four-walled house, a naked newborn, and no clothes for the child.
Because of lack of money, Xiao Shen did not have several prenatal checkups during pregnancy. Because she had no money, she didn't dare to go to the hospital if her due date was more than 7 days. She said that she only had 1,000 yuan on her, which was the last money for the two of them, and she would not go to the hospital unless she had to. For her, not to mention ** childbirth, even letting the child be born safely in the hospital is a luxury. I still remember a pregnant woman in Hangzhou, who went to the hospital alone to give birth and disappeared in a hurry. **When I found her, I only saw an extremely small rental house, and the mother who had just given birth was lying on the bed weakly resting. The elderly and sick husband are a heavy burden on her, because she has no money to eat, she relies on the 3 slices of bread given by ** to spend the most difficult day of production.
When she cried and said "life is too hard", countless people had a sour nose. If it's not forced by life, who wants to risk themselves and their children?Some people live in high-rise buildings, and some people are in deep ditches. There is a world of difference between having money and not having money. The sky-high confinement center where Han Geng's wife Lu Jingshan lives is an unattainable dream for countless ordinary people.
Pianist Liu Shikun is a daughter and hires 6 nannies to take care of his wife and young daughter's diet and daily life in an all-round way.
In the same world, two completely different lives. For the wealthy, the birth of a child is a great joy. The child is crying, the child is hungry, no matter how big or small, there is a special person to take care of it. They just need to tease the child when they are asleep or happy. For extremely ordinary families, because of poverty and hardship, the birth of a child brings more complex practical difficulties in addition to joy.
There is a line in the Korean movie "Parasite": Money is like an iron that irons everything. It allows you to become decent in the most difficult times and relieve your suffering in the most painful times. A patient diagnosed with lymphoma in Shanghai was diagnosed with a maximum life expectancy of one year. After the sky-high price of 1.2 million anti-cancer injections came out, she quickly injected ** this drug. After being successfully discharged from the hospital, after several re-examinations and tests, the tumor cells in her body basically disappeared.
Money, you can really continue your life. According to the data of "21st Century Business Herald", the incidence of lymphoma in China is very high, with about 100,000 new patients every year, and the 5-year survival rate is only 383%。It is internationally recognized that spending more than 40 per cent of household income on illness is the standard for catastrophic household health expenditure. The out-of-pocket expenses of lymphoma patients account for 72 percent of the average annual household income02%！Behind this, there are countless families who can't afford to see a doctor who have no choice but to give up. According to Hong Kong media reports, the gambling king died after falling into a coma in 2009 until he was bedridden for 11 years. And he relied on an expensive life-sustaining injection of 860,000 shots. Until his death, his medical expenses cost more than 1.5 billion Hong Kong dollars!I'm reminded of the old saying that has been circulating in the slums of England: either you have money, or you die young. In the world of the rich, as long as they can continue their lives, they can pay for it without blinking. And in the world of the poor, health and life are priced. There was a news before, on the streets of Anhui, a man hung a sign on his body, which read, "Punching bag, 10 yuan a punch". It turned out that his 6-year-old daughter suffered from leukemia and went bankrupt after the family went bankrupt for less than two years.
And this time, in addition to the exacerbation of the condition, there is also a rare complication. This complication, the domestic ordinary medicine can not work at all, the doctor suggested that the family go to Hong Kong to buy a foreign medicine on their own, the price is 70,000 Hong Kong dollars. Use twice a week for 6 weeks to see results.
However, how can a family with only a few acres of thin land afford it?The effect of the medicine can't be packed yet, what if it doesn't work?In order to cure the disease, they already owe hundreds of thousands of foreign debts, and they still have young children to raise at home, and they do not have any trial and error costs at all. There is a sentence in "I Am Not the God of Medicine": There is only one disease in the world, and that is the disease of poverty. For ordinary families, this is the most painful thing. SMA (spinal muscular atrophy) is a motor neuron disease. People gradually lose their mobility, making it difficult to breathe and even unable to swallow. The sky-high medical expenses, coupled with the need for a lifetime of care and **, many people can only watch their lives gradually shrink. The advent of 14 million injections of "special drugs" has discouraged countless families.
14 million is a number that many people can't earn in a lifetime. As one netizen said: Cancer will only kill me, millions of ** fees, but it can kill several members of my family. And as long as the rich have a glimmer of hope, they have countless ways to keep themselves alive. The cruelty of sky-high drugs is to make people see hope, but then fall into deeper despair. Life is priceless, but for countless ordinary people, when the ** reaches a certain number, they are likely to give up their lives. Is money everything?For the rich, probably not. But for the poor, it may be a lifesaver they want but can't. It is a sense of security, the ability to give a better life to the family, and every time, in the choice between money and health, you can choose health without hesitation. The world is not fair. Some people are rich and smooth, flowers are brocade, and the fire is boiling oil. Some people are poor, miserable, and afflicted, and they do not go alone. But everyone is desperate to live seriously in this cruel world. Ye Jingzhong once said: "In addition to looking up or looking up in our eyes, we should often look down." Looking down on the suffering and sickness, looking down at the fall and the cracks, looking down on the masses and the bottom. If you are in the upper echelons, please look at the sadness and suffering of ordinary people. If you are at the bottom, please don't be presumptuous and keep walking, maybe the exit is ahead.