As the saying goes: women with salty pools, men with canopies, **salty pools" mysteries.
As we all know, marriage is a major event in a person's life. The important question is whether you can find the right partner; A good spouse can make your life, a bad spouse can ruin your life, and in serious cases, you will fall into the abyss from which you will never recover.
As the saying goes:"The woman has a salt pond, and the door is right; Men have colored clothes, fame and fortune"。This is a proverb that teaches us how to discern wives.
in the first half of the sentence"Salt ponds"What does the term mean? Some say it means salt pond, a pool of water with a high salt content that prevents crops from growing, but this is not the case because the word was actually passed down to us by our ancestors.
In our ancient myths and legends,"Salt ponds"The term originally referred to the pool where the fairies bathed. It is the place where the fairies wash away the dirt from their bodies, so this page indicates"Salt ponds"is a derogatory term, not a positive one; After all, bathwater doesn't sound like a word with a positive connotation.
Over time,"hamachi"The name became"Peach blossoms"meaning.
This proverb says that if a woman has a lot of peach blossoms around her, she is easy"Chase away the man", prone to cheating and extramarital affairs.
In traditional antiquity, people's minds were not as open as they are today, and many people attached great importance to female chastity.
Hence this"Salt ponds"refers to those beauties who can attract peach blossoms, which cannot be boasted of in the old days. In most people's eyes, they are"Red-faced whip", thinking that marrying them will be cuckolded.
In addition, influenced by traditional thinking throughout the ages, many men do not want their other half to be luxurious when dating and looking for a significant other, but rather to be simpler.
However, there are some one-sidedness and prejudices in this area today, which have been criticized by many people. Therefore, we need to put the relationship between appearance and personality in perspective.
We can't judge people by their appearance, and we can't arbitrarily assume that a person can't speak just because they're pretty.
We can also learn from this proverb that a good woman must be pure, self-respecting, and have the right moral and ethical values.
Canopy"(Chinese Traditional), meaning:"Chinese cover"。
The second half of the sentence"Canopy"What is the meaning? Why do you say there is?"Canopy"of people who are very rich?
Canopy"The term has a variety of meanings. It can be the umbrella of a large chariot or carriage, or the name of an astronomical phenomenon, the shape of an ancient star or cloud when it is close to the sun or moon. It can also be a human organ, such as the eyebrows or lungs.
Later, there was also a feeling of proximity to the strong.
The first meaning is,"Canopy"It is a symbol of a person's wealth, and since it is close to the powerful, it must be rich.
The second meaning is that if a person wants to be rich and rival the country, he must"Wearing a gorgeous veil", i.e., often show up. That is, if a person is rich and powerful, he must actively participate in social activities and strive to make a name for himself. This sentence also emphasizes that a person should work hard, make achievements, and achieve success.
In other words, if a man sits at home every day and does not go out to earn money, it will be more difficult for a woman to take care of the family alone.
Therefore, husbands and wives should work together and actively contribute to the family, wives should work self-cleanliness, self-esteem and self-love, and self-development, and men should work hard.
In addition, in some traditional Xi customs,"Salty ponds"with"Canopy"Refers to the fate of a person.
Female homicide"Salty ponds", then the peach blossom is a bad omen; Male homicide"Canopy", which indicates great wealth and wealth, but there are also some traditional thinking Xi.
At different times, people are still putting forward different points of view. The same word has different meanings. Today, people's thinking is more holistic and diverse.
Understanding that a man is not just material, and understanding that a woman is not just physical, more and more people are beginning to pursue inner beauty, the perfect combination of advantages and disadvantages.
More and more people are realizing that while satisfying material needs, the soul must also be fulfilled, and appearance is not the only factor to consider.
In modern society, we must establish a correct view of mate selection. When choosing a mate, you can't just look at whether she is or not"Fairy Pond", he is not"Canopy", but from the moral, character, family background, attitude to life, ideals and ambitions and other aspects to see if they are the same. In the process of pursuing a higher level of emotional and spiritual harmony, we should consider various aspects such as morality, character, family background, life attitude, ideals and ambitions.
This will help you find good partners, get married, and run a good business.
Moreover, this sentence can be understood from different perspectives. It can not only be accessed from"Mate selection"It can also be understood as an effort of contemporary people's self-cultivation, and can also be integrated into our own outlook on life.
On the road of life, we must learn to control ourselves and make our minds as calm and bright as a pool of clear water. We must also focus on our inner temperament and cultivate inner peace, humility, and tolerance.
The relationship between men and women must be based on mutual respect, equality and reciprocity.
Finally, the meaning of cultural symbols changes over time, and spoken language generates new understandings and perspectives.
Therefore, when we read proverbs, we need to recognize and understand their spiritual connotations, so that we can be"Take the essence and remove the dross"to accumulate more and more wisdom in life.
I also hope that the above explanation helps you understand this sentence.