The peasant proverb has a deep meaning: money is not borrowed.
Third, what is the reason for not following the three?
Farmers often say:"Three do not borrow money, three do not follow the courtesy, and ten do not walk aisles"These colloquial words are concise and concise, and contain profound life philosophy. They are the norms and directions of people's attitudes towards the world and life. Below, we will analyze the meaning and rationale behind it in detail from these three aspects.
I won't lend you money.
1.Don't lend it to someone you don't know.
Money is a personal item and it is risky to lend it to someone you don't know. People you don't know don't know what your credit score and repayment ability are, and they can't know if the purpose of the loan is genuine. Therefore, it is advisable not to lend to people you don't know so as not to bring financial losses to yourself.
2) Don't lend to people who don't keep their promises.
People who lend money to rebel, even if they are enthusiastic now, will change their minds and lose their integrity when it comes time to repay the loan. A review of the borrower's character is essential to protect your interests before granting a loan.
3.Try to avoid borrowing money from your family.
While family members are supposed to help each other, in reality, some family members are more likely not to repay the money they borrowed. Some family members feel that the borrower is embarrassed to force them to repay, thus delaying repayment. To avoid the breakdown of relationships between family members due to borrowing, it is best to err on the side of caution when asking for a loan.
Extension: Sometimes even family members can't guarantee their ability and willingness to repay. Borrowing should have a clear contract and interest protection, otherwise the loan dispute will have a negative impact on family relationships. Therefore, we should evaluate whether to lend money to family members on a case-by-case basis, be more cautious in the borrowing relationship, and formulate a clear repayment plan with the borrower, so as to maintain a harmonious family relationship while ensuring our own rights and interests.
Not followed"Three salutes"。
1. Don't give gifts to people who don't know how to communicate with each other.
Giving gifts to people who don't know reciprocity is a waste of both financial resources and energy. Therefore, when choosing the object of the gift, it is necessary to see if the other party has a sense of reciprocity and Xi, only in this way can the interaction of both parties and the solid development of the relationship be guaranteed.
2) Don't give gifts to people of questionable character.
Character is a key factor in determining whether a person is trustworthy or not. Giving gifts to people with character problems will not only not be rewarded, but they may also fall into the situation of being deceived. Therefore, the choice of objects must be cautious, only the other party's character can stand the test, in exchange for the other party's courtesy and friendship.
3) Don't give gifts to people who aren't invited.
In rural areas, especially on large ceremonies, it is considered disrespectful for the host to give gifts to those who are not invited. Therefore, it is important to pay attention to etiquette and rules, and keep abreast of the scope of invitation, so as not to affect interpersonal relationships due to ignorance of etiquette.
Extension: Rural residents value etiquette, which embodies the principle of respect and love for others. Whether it's a wedding or a festival, gift-giving is a traditional Xi of rural residents. However, the premise of mutual gifts is that the other party can give them back, and only in this way can it be regarded as a normal relationship. Gift-giving is a form of respect and blessing to others, not an unconditional gift. Therefore, when we give gifts, we must carefully choose the recipient to ensure that the relationship and interaction between the two parties is equal and fair.
This road does not lead to Route 10.
1) Don't go the wrong way.
The peasants have become more aware that crooked ways often run counter to law and morality. Farmers are well aware that abiding by discipline and law, honesty and trustworthiness are the foundation of survival, so they resolutely do not take the crooked road and evil road, and choose the right road.
2) Don't blindly choose shortcuts.
Success often requires hard work and patience, and farmers believe that there are no shortcuts. While some people have achieved temporary success by taking shortcuts, it is only with the same effort that they can maintain success.
3.Mention the path traveled by those who came before you.
The path traveled by those who came before us is safer and matures over time. The peasants were in favor of learning from Xi experience of their predecessors, because the experience of their predecessors was their precious asset. While sometimes taking risks and taking new paths is an opportunity, farmers are more inclined to play it safe.
Expansion: Farmers' mindsets and lifestyles tend to be based on stability and norms, with a greater focus on protection and security. When walking, farmers pay more attention to the stability and flatness of the road to ensure a smooth arrival at their destination. Not only in the countryside, but also in the cities, there are many peasants who, after coming to the cities, have always adhered to these proverbs. They maintain their traditional virtues, which are also a kind of inheritance and embodiment of peasant culture.
Summary. Proverb"Don't borrow three, don't follow three, don't go ten"It is the crystallization of the wisdom of farmers, reminding everyone to pay attention to self-protection and follow moral principles in daily life. They are a guide to how to behave in the world, to deal with relationships, and to choose the right path. Although people's lifestyles and values are evolving, the wisdom contained in these proverbs is still precious. We must continue to pass on and apply these wisdoms in our modern lives to provide more guidance and enlightenment to our lives.
I believe that everyone will encounter similar problems and problems in life, and these aphorisms provide us with guidance and principles to solve them. We can draw wisdom from this and make more informed decision-making choices based on the actual situation. Of course, proverbs are only a summary of experience, and we must take into account the differences in specific factors when applying them in practice. I hope that everyone can learn from this nourishment and face life choices and decisions more wisely.