14-year-old children are in the rebellious period of adolescence, the more tough the parents, the more rebellious the child will be, therefore, to change the status quo of the child, the general principle is to go to the heart, through a certain method to let the child slowly change from the heart, so as to focus on learning and active activities.
What should I do if my child is addicted to playing games and rebellious and doesn't go to school?
1. Set rules and stick to them.
Regarding issues such as children's addiction to games, parents should guide their children to establish boundaries between mobile phone networks, learning, work and rest, and sports, set clear rules and stick to them, such as limiting children's use of electronic devices and encouraging children to participate in more sports and social activities in the field.
2. Pay attention to the way you communicate with your child.
When talking to your child, you must pay attention to your tone and words, and don't always speak to your child in a commanding tone, such as: you give it to me, you should now, you are doing ...... nowThe time is not to do ......You know ...... timeIn fact, this kind of communication method will not only not make the work better, but will deepen the child's resentment towards his parents.
3. Give children positive attention.
While your child's rebellious behaviour may be a headache for you, you need to give them as much positive attention as possible to encourage their growth. With positive attention, you can make your child feel cared for and supported, and encourage them to cope better with difficulties and challenges.
4. Be active and useful to guide children.
When children are reluctant to go to school, parents and teachers need to actively guide children, help them face the problems they encounter in school life, and guide them well in thinking and behavior. Parents should guide their children with patience and forgiveness and help them deal with learning problems. When children do something wrong, parents and teachers should not use overly harsh or reproachful words, but should use positive methods to encourage them and guide them to make continuous progress in learning.
Reasons why children in the first year of junior high school are addicted to playing with mobile phones:
1. Lack of parent-child education.
Studies have shown that the more frequent, intense, and unmanageable conflicts within the family are, the greater the negative impact on children's mental health. When the content of the conflict between parents is related to the child, the child's mind will be more painful, and it is more likely that the child will use the mobile phone for a long time as a way to deal with the pain.
2. The needs of the mind are not satisfied.
Children's addiction to mobile phones, the same as other serious mental behaviors, fundamentally speaking, is a deep-seated mental need that is not satisfied, especially in the family does not obtain the corresponding mental nutrients.
3. Mom and Dad's words and deeds.
Mom and Dad are the first teachers of the child, Mom and Dad will have an impact on the child, if the child has a pair of "mobile phone control" Mom and Dad, then most children are addicted to mobile phones, and it is not difficult to understand that the mobile phone does not leave the hand.