Betrayal is not limited to men, women can also fall into the quagmire of betrayal.
Especially middle-aged women, once they are dissatisfied with their partner or disappointed in their marriage, it is easy to breed restless thoughts.
At this time, they longed for a man who could care, love, and support them to get rid of their inner pain and loneliness.
Many middle-aged women have endured too much pain and grievances in their marriages, and they urgently need someone to talk to, and some things are difficult to say to those around them, so they can only seek other comfort.
Therefore, when they meet a man outside of marriage who cares for them, comforts them, and accompanies them through their pain, they may have a heartbeat and thus have an affair.
However, once a middle-aged woman betrays, there are bound to be many changes, which are very different from the previous state.
They will leave many traces on their bodies, no matter how smart they are, they will be difficult to hide, and sooner or later they will be exposed, which is also the reason why extramarital affairs are difficult to last long.
Therefore, if a man wants to know whether a middle-aged woman has betrayed, he only needs to observe the traces on their body and naturally know the clues.
Generally speaking, after a middle-aged woman "cheats", the following three details are likely to reveal flaws.
1. If a middle-aged woman who often chats with her mobile phone and looks very mysterious betrays her marriage, the most obvious sign is that her mobile phone is no longer for you to view.
In front of you, she holds her phone forever and never puts it on the table and doesn't allow you to view what's in it.
Chances are, she changes her passwords so frequently that you can't unlock them even if you hold her phone, let alone learn the secrets.
Such a woman is extremely wary of you and will immediately become nervous as soon as she notices you looking at her phone.
Therefore, she carries her phone at all times, keeps a certain distance from you, and does not give you any chance to check your phone.
However, although a woman is cautious, she also exposes flaws, the more she cares about her phone and the more wary she is of you, the more she seems to have a ghost inside.
Moreover, the most obvious flaw is that she will deliberately keep a distance from you, often holding her mobile phone to chat, always looking mysterious.
Normally, it is impossible for middle-aged women to chat all the time, let alone deliberately keep their phones away from you, and only women with secrets in their hearts will have this abnormal behavior.
Therefore, once a man notices that a middle-aged woman is holding her phone and chatting constantly, appearing mysterious and deliberately avoiding you, it should be taken seriously, and they are likely to have had an extramarital affair.
2. Finding fault with you everywhere and being indifferent to your words Under normal circumstances, middle-aged women will not deny their husbands without any basis, and even if they are disappointed in their hearts, they will not say hurtful words.
After all, there is still a place for you in the heart of a middle-aged woman, and she just hopes that you will work harder and look forward to a happier and happier family.
However, when a middle-aged woman betrays and no longer loves you in her heart, she speaks completely differently.
At this time, her attitude towards you is no longer expectation, but from the bottom of her heart, she despises you, thinks you are worthless, and completely denies you.
She may often compare you to her lover and end up thinking that you have achieved nothing and are critical of you at every turn, which is a sign of betrayal.
Everything that comes out of her mouth has a taste of contempt that will make you feel extremely uncomfortable, which also means that she no longer loves you.
For example, every time she comes home, she has a displeased expression towards you, and always says something cold: "Look at people, they are so successful, and then look at you, nothing can be accomplished, it's really useless." ”
Or, she will complain: "I was really blind when I married you, and it was better to marry someone else than you." ”
For example, she always exaggerates your shortcomings to exclude you even more and doesn't want to be with you anymore.
Whatever you do, she will find a reason to blame you, and even if you do a good job, she will not be grateful, but will blame you for not doing well.
A woman, once she feels particularly disgusted with you, her love for you disappears and she behaves particularly coldly.
Such a woman almost no longer cares about you, and when she returns home, she often goes out to stay, and even when she comes home, she will keep her distance from you, making the marriage look inseparable, which is the most obvious sign of betrayal.
3. If you don't accept intimate actions anymore, you don't love you at allIn marriage, once a middle-aged woman no longer accepts intimate actions, it means that she doesn't love you at all.
As long as she still has love for you in her heart, she will not reject you, and as long as you have needs, she will definitely satisfy you.
However, when a middle-aged woman falls into an extramarital affair, she no longer has love for you in her heart and will completely exclude you from her sight.
As long as she sees you approaching, she will feel disgusted, and she is Xi to finding various reasons to reject you, and is not willing to let you come close at all.
If you don't give up, she will definitely get angry and even have a big fight with you, blaming you for not understanding her, and making you feel very wronged.
For a couple, if physical contact is lost, the marriage will become a reality and eventually collapse.
In fact, once middle-aged women fall into an extramarital affair, all their thoughts will be placed on others, which is an inevitable result.
On the one hand, they feel that that kind of love is very romantic and can bring them more happiness, and it is difficult to let go.
On the other hand, they are emotionally satisfied, better cared for and cared for, and have no expectations of you.
Therefore, once middle-aged women betray, they may indulge in the whirlpool of extramarital affairs and lose themselves.
In their opinion, the relationship outside is better, and the man outside of marriage is better for her, thus negating your contribution.
Such a woman has completely stopped loving you and naturally no longer accepts intimate gestures.
Therefore, it is a clear sign that women who have had extramarital affairs will basically no longer have intimate relationships with their husbands.
In general, once a middle-aged woman "cheats", these three details are likely to reveal "flaws":
Often holding the mobile phone to chat, it seems very mysterious;Picky at you everywhere and cold-spoken;No longer accepting intimate gestures, it is already completely unloved. Men need to be careful and take action to avoid losses if they find these abnormalities in middle-aged women.
Men cannot condone betrayed women, after all, such women cannot turn back automatically, they are already immersed in extramarital affairs and have long lost themselves.
Therefore, you should communicate with her as soon as possible and clarify the bottom line in order to preserve the marriage so that she will not dare to betray again.
If both sides really can't move forward, it's best to stop the loss in time, so as not to lose both money and money in the future, and it's not worth it.
Finally, it also reminds the men and women in the marriage that they must keep the bottom line of loyalty, otherwise, sooner or later they will pay a heavy price for betrayal.