As a legendary figure of China's richest man, Xu Jiayin's behavior has always attracted much attention. Especially when his father, Xu Xiangao, died, and his refusal to attend the funeral caused widespread speculation. According to the speculation of some netizens, perhaps Xu Jiayin's refusal to attend the funeral was guided by a certain master, who believed that this was to avoid the influence of negative energy on Xu Jiayin. However, in fact, there may have been other reasons why Xu Jiayin did not attend his father's funeral. On the one hand, Xu Jiayin's eldest brother, Xu Jiaqin, is not his biological brother, but a child born to his father's second wife. Therefore, in terms of family relationship, Xu Jiayin and his father may not be very close to each other. On the other hand, Xu Jiayin had fulfilled his filial piety when his father was dying, provided his father with the best medical resources, and carefully built a cemetery in his hometown to show his respect and meticulous care for his father. Therefore, Xu Jiayin's refusal to attend the funeral may be due to personal choice and faith, and he may have hoped to commemorate and remember his father in a more solemn and alternative way after his death.
Xu Jiayin's funeral decision has sparked widespread public discussion. Some people praise him for his independent thinking and courage to make his own choices, while others criticize him for not respecting family traditions and lacking the spirit of filial piety. However, both support and criticism show that people think deeply about family relationships and human feelings.
1. Build a magnificent cemetery
With Xu Jiayin's efforts, the cemetery in his hometown has become extremely magnificent. The cemetery covers a total area of about 15 acres and has environmental facilities such as fountains, pavilions, streams, and precious trees. The meticulous care of the cemetery and the hiring of security and cleaning staff show Xu Jiayin's love and nostalgia for his father. In terms of scale and detail, the cemetery is undoubtedly a luxury project that cost a lot of money, and it is a testament to Xu Jiayin's commitment and responsible attitude towards the family.
As a place to bury the deceased, the cemetery often reflects the family's remembrance and affection for the deceased. Xu Jiayin's construction of the magnificent cemetery is not only a commemoration of his father, but also an expression of respect and continuity for the family. Through this luxurious architectural project, Xu Jiayin has shown the outside world his adherence to family values and the cherishing of family affection.
2. Go all out to take care of your father
During Xu Xiangao's illness, Xu Jiayin did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to provide him with the best medical resources and hired the best medical team. He made careful arrangements to ensure that the father received the best ** and care, showing a dutiful act in the last stages of his life. This kind of best-effort not only shows Xu Jiayin's deep affection for his father, but also shows his understanding of family responsibilities and family values.
Filial piety is one of the core values of traditional China, emphasizing children's respect and love for their parents. Xu Jiayin's behavior during his father's illness shows his adherence to and commitment to these values. Not only did he provide the best medical resources, but he also took care of him himself, trying his best to provide a comfortable and reassuring environment for his father. This kind of behavior is not only an expression of personal affection, but also a compliance with social morality.
1. The difference between showing off and being low-key
Unlike Xu Jiayin's arrogant personality, Liu Qiangdong chose a low-key approach when he returned to his hometown to visit relatives. Liu Qiangdong did not publicize his achievements and wealth when he returned to his hometown, but returned to his hometown with a simple and ordinary attitude, and had a simple exchange and greetings with his fellow villagers. He also sent 10,000 yuan in cash to the elderly people in the village to express his gratitude to his hometown and family. This low-key and grateful attitude is in stark contrast to Xu Jiayin's flaunting of wealth and comparison.
Xu Jiayin and Liu Qiangdong are two well-known entrepreneurs in China, both of whom are self-made successful people. However, they have very different attitudes towards wealth and homecoming. Xu Jiayin likes to show off and show off his achievements and wealth, while Liu Qiangdong pays more attention to the feelings of his family and hometown, maintaining a low-key and humble attitude. This difference reflects differences in personal values and attitudes towards life, and also provokes reflection on how success and wealth affect a person and how to treat family, affection and traditions.
2. The display of the spirit of filial piety
Xu Jiayin showed filial piety during his father's illness, from building a cemetery to arranging medical resources, all of which showed his concern and embodiment of family filial piety. However, his refusal to attend the funeral was criticized by some for a lack of filial piety and respect for tradition. In contrast, although Liu Qiangdong did not attend the funeral when he returned to his hometown to visit relatives, he still showed his love and gratitude for his hometown and family. He took his wife back to visit the old people and left a gift for each of them, expressing his respect and importance for his hometown, his family, and traditional values.
Filial piety is one of the core values of traditional Chinese culture, emphasizing children's respect and love for their parents. Different people have different attitudes and practices towards filial piety, but whether it is Xu Jiayin or Liu Qiangdong, they both show their concern and responsibility for the family in different ways. Xu Jiayin expressed his love and filial piety to his father by building a cemetery and providing medical resourcesLiu Qiangdong expressed his thoughts and gratitude to his hometown and family by returning to his hometown to visit relatives and give gifts. Either way, it reflects their respect and cherishing of family, affection, and traditional values.
To sum up, the reason why Xu Jiayin refused to attend the funeral may be due to personal choice and faith, and he may want to commemorate and remember his father in a more solemn and alternative way. In any case, his care and the act of building the cemetery during his father's illness showed his commitment and responsibility to his family, his family, and his traditions. In contrast, Liu Qiangdong's low-key and grateful attitude also shows his love and care for his hometown and family. These two examples show that different people may have different choices and expressions when faced with family and responsibilities, but the most important thing is to show respect and value for family, affection and traditions.