Today, I saw a paragraph on the Internet of "an 88-year-old grandfather fell at home late at night and went to the hospital alone for medical treatment", and the more I watched it, the more worried I became. ** 88-year-old grandfather sent his three daughters abroad with all he had, has not come back to see him for ten years, and now he can only go to the hospital alone, from the hospital door to the short distance of dozens of meters in the treatment room, the old man trembled and walked for a long time, and finally walked to the consultation room with the support of medical staff.
The medical staff are worried about the inconvenience of the elderly, and hope that the elderly will notify their families to come to the hospital to take care of them, but the old man is resolute that he can be alone, and the old man does not want to be accompanied by his family, but who knows that the children left him alone in the country, and then the medical staff said to the old man, how inconvenient it is for you to pay alone, the old man replied: That can't be helped, the young lady helps. Hearing this sentence really makes people feel distressed and hateful, what hurts is the pity of the elderly, and what is hated is the unfilial piety and ruthlessness of the children.
When he came to the attending doctor's office, the doctor suspected that the old man had a precursor to cerebral infarction, and suggested that the old man do a head CT and go to the internal medicine department to have a look. How desperate is a person's heart to say such a sentence, the abandonment of children, the loneliness in his heart, the helplessness of life, at this time, no matter how remorseful the old man is, it is useless.
In the end, with the help of an enthusiastic young man, the old man helped him all the way to complete the examination, fortunately the old man's fall and brain were not too problematic. During this period, the old man confessed to the young man, in fact, he also wanted to go abroad, but the reason why he didn't go was because there was no medical insurance abroad, the cost was very high, and he was worried about increasing the financial burden of his children. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, people are dying, and they have always thought about their children in their hearts.
After watching the whole paragraph**, there is an inexplicable sadness in my heart, like a fish in my throat. **The old man is not wrong, he has fulfilled his responsibilities as a father all his life, and his children are not wrong, excellent they have to fight for their future, the so-called dilemma of loyalty and filial piety, and they can't make a choice at the moment. Perhaps this is a typical example of Chinese parents, who think about their children until they die. Parental love is great, but it also vividly shows the desolation of old age and sickness.
Some people say that the old man's mistake is that he should not send his children abroad, I don't agree with this, the children's excellence is their creation, let them display their talents, let them develop, as parents can not become a stumbling block for their children to move forward, as the so-called: talent is handed over to the country, and mediocre qualifications are on the knees!
Finally, I wish all the old people in the world a happy old age, and I also hope that all the children will go home to see more