I am an ordinary housewife named Li Juan, and my son has just entered the first grade of primary school. Our family lives in a small community in the city, and our life is ordinary but happy.
Every morning, her husband Li Qiang would get up early and go to work. He is an ordinary worker, although the income is not high, but he is honest and reliable, and he has always been the support of my heart.
We have always been tolerant of each other. I never asked my husband about his salary, nor did I talk to him about it.
However, one day, I accidentally cooked a burnt dish while cooking, and my husband suddenly lost his temper, threw the dishes and chopsticks in anger, and went into the bedroom in a rage.
My son's name is Liu Lin, and when he saw this scene, he quickly handed me a big red note with "under the steps", and then carefully hid in his room.
I looked at my son's nervous and witty face, and my heart was both moved and distressed. I knew that he was trying to alleviate the conflict between his parents and use his own small strength to resolve the turmoil.
I silently took the note and saw that it read, "Mom, don't be angry, Dad didn't mean to lose his temper."
Looking at these simple and warm words, my eyes moistened. My son, who has just started his independent life, also knows how to understand and care for our elderly couple.
I put the note in my heart and continued to cook. Although my son's cooking skills are not yet mature, I believe that he will do his best, and I firmly believe that his efforts will warm our family.
Soon after, my son came to me with a simple noodle with a look of satisfaction. I took the bowl he handed over, looked at his well-behaved face, and the contradictions and unhappiness in my heart slowly melted.
Thanks, baby, your cooking is delicious. I complimented with a smile.
The son laughed happily, "Mom, don't be angry, Dad will correct it." ”
I wiped tears from my face, and my mood gradually relaxed. My son's words comforted me and made me understand that the warmth of the family comes not only from the material, but also from the support and tolerance of the family.
This argument also made me realize how important communication between me and my husband is. In the future, no matter what problems we encounter, we must sit down calmly and communicate well.
On this day, although there was a conflict between the three of us, we also understood the importance of family to each other.
After a few months, our family gradually forgot about the last quarrel and returned to a harmonious atmosphere. However, an unexpected incident once again reminded me that conflicts and disputes between families are inevitable.
It was my son Liu Lin's birthday, and my husband and I discussed to surprise him. I proposed to prepare a birthday party for him and invite friends and family to celebrate together.
He thinks that the world is full of falsehood and impetuousness, and birthday parties are just senseless show-offs and waste. He insisted that a simple family meal would suffice.
On my birthday, I reluctantly made the decision to cater to my husband's wishes and prepare just a normal meal.
At dinner, my son couldn't help but say, "Mom, you're really good!".Thank you for everything you have done for me. This sentence is undoubtedly an encouragement and support for my soul.
I looked at my son with relief, knowing that he must have felt my love for him. No matter how different the opinions of the whole family are, family affection is always our most valuable asset.
I took my husband's hand and whispered, "Brother Qiang, we are all working for a common goal - to make our family warmer and happier.
When my husband heard this, he let out a long sigh and hugged me tightly. At this moment, I deeply felt his sincerity and apology.
This home is built by every member. Each of us has our own ideas and ways of doing things, but only in tolerance and understanding of each other can we truly maintain family harmony and happiness.
As the months passed, the atmosphere in the house gradually returned to calm, and we as a couple found a way to understand each other again.
However, on this day, the unexpected befell our family again.
Her husband Li Qiang has been accumulating dissatisfaction and irritability due to the pressure of work, which makes him more and more irritable and irritable.
On this day, I was busy preparing dinner and couldn't help but ask my husband, "Qiang, what happened to you when you got home?"Why is the mood so bad these two days?”
Li Qiang didn't answer me, he was silent for a moment, and slammed a plate, "You don't care if something happened to me?"You're not my parents, I have my own business, don't be nosy!”
I was completely crushed by his indifference and aggression. Tears flowed uncontrollably, and I felt that my dedication was completely unseen.
Just when I was dazed and helpless, my son Liu Lin came over, he held my hand tightly, and said affectionately: "Mom, don't be sad, I will always be by your side."
I looked up at my son and felt the maturity and wisdom that he didn't belong to at that age, and my tears stopped flowing.
My son's words reminded me of the promise we had made, to grow old together. Although our marriage is facing difficulties now, I believe that as long as we work together, we will be able to overcome the difficulties and regain the warmth we once had.
On this day, I decided not to avoid the problem anymore, I wanted to sit down with my husband, listen to him, and understand his troubles.
This quarrel does not seem to have calmed the conflict between us, but has made our relationship even more strained.
I felt disappointed and helpless and didn't know how to solve the problem between us.
One night, I was cleaning up the house when I suddenly saw my son's homework book read, "Why do mom and dad keep arguing?""My heart tightened, remembering how many arguments we had lately.
I tiptoed into the bedroom and saw my husband sitting alone on the bed, playing with his phone with his head down. I sat quietly next to him and whispered, "Strong, we can't go on like this, we need to sit down and communicate well."
The husband still didn't raise his head, he sighed softly and said, "Juan, I know that we have been arguing fiercely lately, but I don't know how to solve it, and I don't know how to change this situation.
My husband looked up at me with a hint of anticipation in his eyes: "Are you saying that we should sit down and communicate and understand each other's thoughts and feelings?"”
I nodded and smiled: "Yes, we can start from now on, listen to each other, understand each other." It is only through sincere communication that we can solve the problems between us.
My husband held my hand tightly, and the anxiety in his eyes slowly dissipated: "Okay, I promise you, from now on we will work together to change our relationship."
Gradually, our hearts began to draw closer, and the family atmosphere became warmer. We cooked a hearty dinner with our own hands, and the whole family sat around the table, laughing and laughing.
Although we still have a long way to go, we believe that through communication and understanding, we can make our families more harmonious and happy.
On that sunny weekend, I went for a walk in the park with my son. I watched my son run around happily all the way, and my heart was filled with joy.
Suddenly, a little boy crashes into his son, who falls to the ground and suffers a head injury. I hurriedly picked up my son and looked at his bleeding head, feeling distressed.
I immediately approached the security guards and asked them to find the little boy who knocked down his son and his parents. Soon after, the boy's parents arrived.
Their tall man is none other than the basketball star his son likes, surnamed Wang. Mr. Wang glared at me angrily and said, "Look at your son, it's clear that he bumped into my son."
I couldn't help but retort angrily: "You are, obviously your son bumped into my son, and you still have the face to blame my son!."”
Between the words, the atmosphere became more and more tense, and the crowd of onlookers gradually increased. I was desperate to get justice for my son, but the situation became even more difficult.
Mrs. Wang stepped forward and asked me, "Do you think we have money and want to blackmail us?"You see that you are poor, so you deliberately find fault, right?Her voice was sharp and piercing, and it shook my heart.
I was furious, and my tone became more and more agitated: "You're too much, aren't you!".In your eyes, the rich can do whatever they want, and the poor can only be angryI tell you, whether you have money or not, I will fight for my son to the end!”
At this moment, my son suddenly reached out and grabbed the corner of my clothes, and he whispered: "Mom, stop arguing, I'm fine, don't make any more noise."
I turned my head to look at his wounded face, and tears almost flowed from my eyes. I was touched by his strength and tolerance, and I understood that at this time, I should give my son a safe and peaceful environment.
I took a deep breath, faced Mr. Wang and Mrs. Wang, tried to control my emotions, and said calmly: "Since you all insist on your own statement, then let's let the security guards and surveillance video judge."
In full view of everyone, the two sides reached this temporary consensus. The whole process was tense and long, but in the end, the security guards proved the truth with surveillance footage.
The son did not hit the boy on his own initiative, but was injured by the boy. Faced with this fact, Mr. and Mrs. Wang had to admit their mistakes.
They apologized to me, and I accepted theirs. This accident made me deeply realize that disputes and conflicts between families do not need to be resolved through quarrels and conflicts.
Back home, I gently stroked my son's head, my heart filled with gratitude and guilt. His selflessness and strength made me understand that our family should be based on tolerance and understanding, not quarrels and accusations.
After this incident, my husband and I decided to change ourselves and pay more attention to communication and inclusion after deep reflection.
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