Does your child have any of the following characteristics?1. I love to complain, I like to cry very much, he has to cry for a little thing, and I also like to go to adults to complain, and I like the feeling of adults supporting him.
Second, he is timid and shy, submissive, does not like to express his true feelings, does not like to show himself, he is cringe, he never takes into account his true feelings, and has to listen to other people's opinions on everything.
Third, in order to take care of other people's emotions, always say oh, it's okay, give up their own persistence, Xi habitual compromise, very afraid of conflict and confrontation. You can go back and observe that if you have two or three of your children, you need to pay special attention, because your children are probably on the road to being bullied.
You can think about it, are the adults around you who are always submissive, afraid to say what they think, and often swallow their anger, are also easy to be bullied, let alone children?So how should parents raise their children to avoid being bullied?In fact, the child's own personality factors are very crucial, which is the first to cultivate the child's self-confidence, release the child's nature from an early age, let him boldly try, explore, and deliberately exercise the child's independent self-confidence. At the same time, don't take on the child's own responsibility, you let the child find the solution to the problem by himself, cultivate the child's opinion, listen to the child more, guide the child to take the initiative to express, do not interrupt the child's desire to express and confide, being able to speak is 10,000 times more important than being obedient.
Second, insist on physical exercise, exercise more, and insist on exercising, so that the child's physique will be stronger, and when he is bullied, he will have more confidence and ability to resist. So we can let our children learn according to their interests, what taekwondo, basketball, badminton and so on. and so on.
The third is to encourage your child to say no. When the child's toys are snatched away, we don't have to rush to stand up for him, or you comfort him and say, oops, it's okay, then we should give the child enough security and confidence, you should encourage the child to say loudly, this is my thing, please give it back to me. When a child is beaten, we should not count or laugh at the child, at this time we should encourage the child to say loudly, it is not okay to hit someone, you must apologize to me. When the child can firmly defend his own rights and interests, others will not feel that the child is easy to bully, and they will be afraid.
Fourth, teach children to fight back, which is not good for countering violence with violence, but it is also very useful in an emergency. Therefore, in daily life, we can guide children step by step through games, and when our bodies are violated to varying degrees, how can we fight back?
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