Why has the eldest lady worn that hairpin for more than ten years?It turns out that it was all about covering up her Achilles' heel!
In the know, most of the ladies like to wear a step shake.
For example, after Minglan got married, whether she was working as a housekeeper or entering the palace, she would wear a step rocker.
When Mo Lan returned to the Sheng family to bribe Xue Niang to get her cliché, she reluctantly started over and took off a silver hairpin as a step.
People like Gui Fen'er, Shen's family, and even Xiao Qin's family prefer to wear a step shake.
When walking, every step is swaying, showing a solemn and noble temperament.
Bu Shao This type of item is mainly a headdress made of gold, silver, jade and other materials.
Its form and material both represent the hierarchy and identity of society, so it will shake when it walks, hence the name Bu Shao.
In the Han Dynasty, only the eldest princess and queen chose to wear the step rock.
Since the Han Dynasty, this culture has gradually spread to the common people, and many noble ladies have begun to show their social status and manners by wearing steps.
The most common thing that the lady wears is a hairpin made of white jade, also known as a jade flute.
In ancient times, women could begin to wear their hair in coils and tugs at the age of 15 so that they could become adult women, a tradition known as the curtain.
Whether it is a flute or a step, the materials used also represent a symbol of social status.
Although Lin Xuanshuang can also choose to wear a step shake, she only carries some simple jewelry to show her noble temperament.
A flute covered with white jade like the eldest lady is not suitable for everyone.
Whether you're wearing a step shake or a flower day, when the eldest lady appears on the stage wearing a jade flute, everything becomes clear who is her mother.
Later, when the eldest lady quietly returned to the capital from Youyang's hometown, she wore only a wooden hairpin on her head.
It can be seen from this that she really has no room to show her talent in her hometown.
However, Mrs. Wang doesn't wear a step shake, isn't she willing?She's not meant to wear this at all!
Although she was born in the Taishi Mansion and is the daughter of a concubine, her personality is quite impatient and she will behave very arrogantly once she acts.
Just wearing a step shake not only does not improve one's demeanor, but can also backfire and become a laughing stock.
In addition to the ability of the housekeeper, the eldest lady actually did not cultivate the stable temperament of a noble girl.
In the early years, Mrs. Wang was punished in the process of giving birth to Aunt Kang, and she did not want to see her eldest daughter leave her.
After Wang Ruofu was reborn, he needed to follow Wang Laoshi to the outside to take up his position.
After careful consideration, he decided to leave with his eldest daughter, Wang Ruofu, while his younger daughter, Wang Ruofu, chose to stay at her uncle's home to raise her.
Uncle Wang and his wife had no daughters, and they had a deep brotherhood with Mrs. Wang.
Wang Ruofu was endlessly pampered, which made her show a frank and innocent personality.
However, the experience and etiquette of this old couple in the business field are obviously not comparable to that of the old lady couple.
Wang Ruofu was reunited with her biological mother when she was more than ten years old, and the ladylike demeanor she learned was obviously not comparable to that of her sister Wang Ruofu.
It is not surprising that when she married someone else and became a big lady, she still showed a fiery personality and always became the object of ridicule.
In this case, the eldest lady seems to be wearing a hairpin.
She can easily get rid of her face with just one drop earring, but if she wears a step shake again, she really can't get herself into trouble.
The eldest lady tried to persuade Ming Lan and Gu Tingye to break up, but was it out of sincerity or did she have other purposes?
Gu Tingye's experience of being thrown into prison is really like a mirror that can reflect demons and evils.
Those relatives, noblewomen and magnates in the capital once watched Gu Tingye show a strong momentum.
In front of Minglan , he disguised himself as five people and six people, each of whom was a marquise and a grand lady.
At present, Gu Tingye's status has declined, and only the Gui Fen family and Qi Heng and his wife are willing to stand up and support Minglan.
At the moment when Sheng Hong didn't want Changbai to come forward to testify.
What is shocking is that the eldest lady actually quietly returned from Youyang's hometown in the middle of the night, and strongly recommended that Minglan and return to her maiden home.
At such a critical moment, she suddenly came over to care about Minglan , did she really care about Minglan or did she have other plans?
First of all, for the good of Minglan , the premise of the eldest lady is undoubtedly true.
After experiencing the poisoning of her grandmother, the eldest lady has developed an in-depth understanding of many things.
Out of personal interests, Aunt Kang instigated her sister to poison Mrs. Sheng, which almost led to the threat to Mrs. Sheng's life.
The eldest lady is not a wicked person, and making such a mistake fills her heart with guilt.
Although Minglan had conclusive evidence of the eldest lady's poisoning early on, her actions were always to track down the real culprit behind it.
He also sincerely expressed his heart to the eldest lady and revealed the true feelings of the eldest lady.
Such a fair way of handling affairs made the eldest lady feel deeply guilty.
Looking back on so many years, Minglan experienced many hardships with Wei Xiaoniang when she was young.
As she grew older, the eldest lady has not received special care from Rulan and Mo Lan, let alone maternal love.
But now things happened suddenly, for the sake of Aunt Kang, Mrs. Wang was willing to give up her little daughter,.
Although Minglan is willing to protect her, she does not have a deep emotional bond with her mother.
Mrs. Wang is not only burdened with debts, but also has power in the hands of Minglan , so she naturally wants to make up for the lack of maternal love.
There is also a small detail, when Mrs. Wang persuaded Lan to leave, she may have been influenced by her grandmother.
In ancient times, due to the poor dissemination of information, Mrs. Wang was trapped in the ancestral hall of her hometown in Youyang, which made it difficult for her to obtain news from the outside world.
The first person to convey this news to her was undoubtedly the old lady Sheng who sent someone back to her hometown in Youyang.
Originally, Kang Zhaoer was arranged by her grandmother to marry Youyang's hometown, and now it is also her grandmother who sent someone to invite her home.
The grandmother sent people back to Youyang's hometown this time, mainly to prepare for both sides.
First, he quietly brought the eldest lady Wang and persuaded her to separate from him.
If she can get rid of the Gu family's troubles, Minglan will not have to suffer the same pain again, and the Sheng family will be able to get rid of the predicament without being implicated in any way.
It is certainly not appropriate for the old lady to say this, she can only express it through the words of the eldest lady, which also helps to ease the tension between mother and daughter.
If Minglan can hold out to the end, it is also acceptable, because grandmother will bring Kang Zhao'er, the second person, to support Minglan in her decision.
From this point of view, he immediately realized the problem and rushed back to the capital late at night to persuade Lan.
This is not a solution that the big lady can conceive.
Only that grandmother, who was wholeheartedly thinking about Minglan , could do such a thorough calculation.
After Mo Lan was attacked by Mama Kong's hand, why did Lin Xiaoniang take off her hairpin?
Mama Kong has put a lot of effort and effort into this lesson taught by the Sheng family.
She spent one night comprehensively educating the girls on everything from the ethics of Sheng Fa's housekeeper to the girls' abilities to stand in society.
Three daughters after being attacked by a prototype.
Minglan not only learned the wisdom of "one is prosperous, and one is lost", but also mastered the skill of "water grinding patience".
Although Rulan felt wronged, she had learned to control her emotions and no longer get angry with Mo Lan.
Mo Lan alone, she and Lin Hanshuang suffered setbacks for the first time.
Instead of reflecting on himself deeply, he complained that his father no longer cared about him, and he was constantly crying in his room.
Lin Hanshuang was also upset because it was the first time in years that she had not given her and her mother enough protection.
She had the same fear in her heart as Mo Lan, and if Sheng Hong really followed Mama Kong's advice, she might ignore them.
If Wang Ruofu continues to look for opportunities to take revenge, her life will become very difficult.
Surprisingly, after appeasing Minglan , Sheng Hong actually chose Lin Qige as his new home.
Hearing the arrival of the sovereign, Lin Hanshuang immediately adjusted his nervousness.
He also skillfully removed the hairpin from Mo Lan's head and hid it behind his back.
When I saw this for the first time, I really couldn't figure out what the connection between this hairpin and Sheng Fa was.
It was only when she saw Empress Shen apologizing behind her back that she realized that there was a deeper intention hidden behind Lin Hanshuang's actions.
In ancient times, when concubines made serious mistakes, they would usually remove the ornaments from their heads and then exude an apology.
Such a ritual is also known as taking off the hairpin and waiting for punishment.
Gui Fen'er was born prematurely because of Xiao Zou's behavior and almost lost her life.
The harem of the previous dynasty was all crusading against Shen Congxing, and in order to solve this thorny problem, Queen Shen stayed up all night and finally decided to take off the hairpin to apologize.
She was red-haired, and in front of all the concubines, she walked outside the emperor's palace and knelt down to ask for forgiveness.
In order to save her face, she reduced her dignity to the minimum, so the contradictions between the Zhang family and the previous dynasty naturally decreased.
This tradition of taking off the hairpin and treating the guilty is also applicable to the official eunuch family.
Although Lin Mai Mishuang was born in a dilapidated concubine family, she was also born in a family of eunuchs.
By reading books and understanding the rules, you will naturally understand the deeper meaning of being free from hairpins.
She quickly removed Mo Lan's hairpin, intending to make her daughter apologize to Sheng Hong.
Seeing that Mo Lan had been profoundly instructed and showed a correct attitude of admitting her mistakes, Sheng Hong felt that she should no longer be blamed.
It must be admitted that Lin Xiaoniang does know how to shape and show her talent.
If she didn't have such ability, how could she do whatever she wanted in the Sheng family for so many years.
Mama Kong made her point of view clear, saying that Sheng Hong is not a person worthy of praise.
He is not an easy person to understand, but he always pretends to understand but pretends to be confused.
As long as his dignity is not compromised, no matter who suffers injustice or who benefits, he will have no problem as long as he is not treated unfairly.
As long as the most fundamental interests are touched, even Lin Hanshuang, who has been favored for twenty years, will be sent to the land of Zhuangzi.