Vinny Sha Tu Nisha
The years have not spared people, and I have not spared the years. ”
When we enter the threshold of 60 years old, the scenery of life is different from the past.
So, at this age, do men still need the company of women?Let's listen to the real stories of some of the "old boys" around us.
1. Lao Li's "twilight love".
The sunset is infinitely good, just near dusk. ”
62-year-old Lao Li met 58-year-old Aunt Wang in his retirement life. The two met by chance in the park, and their common interests brought them together.
Lao Li said: "Although we are all entering old age, love knows no age. With her by my side, I feel that my life is full of vitality again. ”
2. Lao Zhang's "Dance Partner Life".
It is enough to have a confidant in life. ”
The 65-year-old joined a ballroom dance club after retirement and met Ms. Li, who also loves dancing.
The two found a common rhythm in the dance, not only cooperating tacitly in dance, but also supporting each other in life.
Lao Zhang said with a smile: "Dancing allowed me to find a new joy of life, and it also allowed me to meet her in my later years." I feel very lucky. ”
3. Lao Wang's "soul mate".
There are no colorful phoenix wings, and there is a little bit of wisdom in the heart. ”
After the death of his wife, the 70-year-old Wang fell into loneliness and loneliness for a while. Luckily, he met the empathetic Ms. Zhao. Although the two did not remarry, they became friends who talked about everything.
Lao Wang sighed: "At this age, it is really a blessing to find someone who understands you." She made me understand that men need a woman's understanding and support at all times. ”
4. Lao Chen's "Declaration of Independence".
After the death of his wife, 68-year-old Chen chose to live alone.
He said: "I don't reject dating with women, but at this age, I pay more attention to personal freedom and spiritual pursuit. I enjoy reading, traveling, and photography, and these activities make me feel fulfilled and satisfied. Of course, if I meet the right person, I won't say no. ”
Fifth, Lao Yang's "family first".
Home and everything is prosperous. The 72-year-old Yang, who has been with his wife for many years, said: "For me, my wife is not only a life partner, but also a relative and friend. We've been through ups and downs together, and we're still supporting each other today. At this age, I cherish our relationship even more. ”
Through the stories of the above "old boys", we can see that there is no fixed answer to whether men after the age of 60 need women.
Everyone's life experiences and needs are different, so their attitudes and choices towards relationships are also different.
Some people pursue love and companionship, others enjoy independence and freedom;Some people pay more attention to the communication and understanding of the soul, while others pay more attention to the warmth and protection of family affection.
Conclusion:
The years are ruthless, but people are affectionate. ”
No matter how old we are, we all have the right to pursue happiness and love. As long as we keep an open mind and a positive attitude towards life, it is possible to meet that person who makes our heart flutter in our old age.
Therefore, do not let age be a shackle that binds us in our pursuit of happiness. As a philosopher once said: "Love does not look at what is in front of you, but also poetry and distance." ”