Why do you say that you are poor for three generations?

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-28

Have you ever felt uncomfortable or incomprehensible when you sit in an office, classroom, or public place, unconsciously shaking your legs, or seeing someone else shaking their legs?Shaking your legs is a very common bad Xi, and some people think it can relieve tension or boredom, but it can actually have a detrimental effect on yourself and those around you. In traditional Chinese culture, there is a saying that "men shake their legs poorly, women shake their legs cheaply, and their hands don't hold the bowl mold for three generations." Although this sentence is somewhat exaggerated, it also reflects a negative evaluation of leg shaking, believing that shaking leg can affect a person's image, luck and fate, and even affect future generations. So, why is it said that the legs are poor for three generations?Is there a scientific basis for this statement?This article will analyze the causes, harms and improvement methods of leg shaking from multiple perspectives such as society, culture, history, thought, psychology and emotion, hoping to help everyone develop good Xi and stay away from the trouble of leg shaking.

Leg shaking is a form of self-regulation that can be divided into two types: conscious and unconscious. Conscious leg shaking refers to a person deliberately shaking their legs in order to achieve a certain purpose, such as relieving tension, improving concentration, and consuming excess energy. Unconscious leg shaking is when a person unconsciously shakes his or her legs for some psychological or physical reason. There are many reasons for shaking your legs, such as:

Anxiety. When a person is faced with stressed, difficult, or uncertain situations, anxiety arises, which can lead to tension and discomfort in the body, and shaking the legs is a way to release anxiety.

Bored. When a person is bored or not interested, there will be a state of idleness, which will lead to physical relaxation and fatigue, and shaking the legs is a way to pass the time.

Excited. When a person feels excited or excited, there will be an emotional upsurge, which will lead to the excitement and activity of the body, and shaking the legs is a way to express emotions.

Habit. When a person shakes his legs for a long time, he will form a Xi inertia action, which will be automatically triggered in some specific occasions or situations, and shaking his legs is a way of Xi inertia.

Although leg shaking can regulate a person's mood and body to a certain extent, it can also bring some adverse effects, such as:

Damage to health. Shaking your legs will consume the body's energy, cause fatigue, and also affect the body's blood circulation, leading to edema of the lower limbs, and even causing diseases such as varicose veins.

Affect efficiency. Leg shaking will distract people's attention and concentration, reduce people's work efficiency, and also affect people's thinking and judgment, resulting in a decrease in the quality of people's work.

Disturbing others. Shaking your legs will make some sounds, or affect the sight of people around you, cause unnecessary interference and dissatisfaction to others, and affect interpersonal relationships and social image.

Shaking your legs is a bad Xi that can be improved, and with awareness and effort, you can overcome it. Here are some ways to improve leg shaking for your reference:

Find out why. If you want to improve the Xi of shaking your legs, you must first find out the reason for your shaking legs, whether it is anxiety, boredom, excitement or Xi, and then take different countermeasures for different reasons, such as relaxing, finding interests, controlling emotions or changing the environment.

Increase your workouts. Exercise is a good way to regulate the body and mind, can enhance the health of the body, can also release emotional pressure, through proper exercise, can make your legs fully stretched and relaxed, reduce the urge to shake the legs.

Divert attention. When you feel that you are going to shake your legs, you can divert your attention in time and do some other things, such as reading books, listening to **, playing games, etc., so that your brain and body are busy and forget the idea of shaking your legs.

Remind yourself. When you unconsciously shake your legs, you can remind yourself in time to stop this action, or let others remind you to develop a good Xi. You can also put some tags on your legs or wear some bracelets as a reminder signal to make yourself aware of your behavior.

Shaking your legs is a bad Xi that can be improved, and with awareness and effort, you can overcome it. Shaking your legs will not only damage your health, affect your own efficiency, and disturb others, but also bring yourself a negative image and evaluation, and even affect your luck and fate, which is why some people say that shaking your legs is poor for three generations. Although this sentence has no scientific basis, it also reflects an awareness of the adverse effects of shaking legs, and we should pay attention to it, improve our Xi in time, and make our lives healthier, more efficient and happier.

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