Everyone's life is destined for somethingIntimacy。No matter what kind of family you are born in, what kind of person you meet, or even who you marry, it seems to be fate. Among the opposite sex, there is a peculiarIntimacy, that is, love each other but can't be together.
、.The bondage of fate, the pain of lovesickness
In ancient Chinese literature, there are many stories about falling in love but not being able to be together. For example:Li Qingzhaoof ".A cut plumThe words reveal the deep longing of the lyricist for his lover. This poem expresses the sadness and pain of the lyricist and his lover after separation. In this kind of relationship that loves each other but cannot be together, the pain of lovesickness is even more profound.
Again,Liang Shanbo and Zhu YingtaiThe story is also a classic that makes people sigh. The two were originally good friends with similar interests, but because of misunderstandings and fate, they couldn't be together. Although they love each other deeply, they are ultimately unable to fulfill theirs for various reasonsLove
、.The right time, the right person
In addition to the shackles of fate, there are many reasons why you can't be together when you love each other. The Supreme Treasure and Zixia Fairy in "Journey to the West" are a typical example. They originally longed to stay together for a long time, but because the Supreme Treasure was willing to give up everything in order to save Zixia, they could only silently guard her as Wukong. Love each other but can't be together, they choose to sacrifice and give up on their ownLove
Similar plots are played out in real life, and many people miss the opportunity with the people they love for various reasons. They may not have the courage to take that step, or they may choose to let go because of other considerations. Such a choice is regrettable, but it also makes people feel the helplessness and pain of the world.
、.Heartache that can't be loved
Not being able to love is a heartache that cannot be escaped. Whether it's in the shackles of fate or meeting the right person at the wrong time, the result of love and not being able to get is the same. Our hearts ache, but we are deeply grateful that fate has given us this special fate.
SuchIntimacy, although they can't be together, they also have their own beauty. People who love each other can appreciate and love each other and go through a special life journey together. Although they can't be partners, they also have their own special tacit understanding andEmotionCommunication. This kindIntimacyPerhaps more solid and precious than the relationship between lovers.
Between the opposite sex, there is oneIntimacyKnown as "** love", this kind of love can be both shown and hidden. This kindIntimacyThere are no words, only a tacit understanding of the heart.
、.Companionship and understanding
When two people love each other but can't be together, they gradually get used to each other's company. Although they can't have each other's bodies and love, the resonance of their hearts makes them feel extremely happy. They can sit down and chat and share their joys and sorrows;It is possible to spend quality time together and make precious memories. Such a relationship no longer requires romance and cumbersome commitments, just a tacit smile and a heartfelt miss.
、.The old man of the past
Over time, this kindIntimacyThey will also become a part of each other's lives. They became as familiar as old friends, as close as old friends. They get along with each other as if they had a former love, but they also have a faint regret. This kindIntimacyYou no longer need to keep a certain distance in front of each other, you can show your true self. They have ceased to be lovers, but become closest friends.
Not being able to get love is a painful choice. When unable to be with their beloved, some choose to let go, and they choose to sacrifice their love for the sake of the other's happiness. This letting go is also known as "great love".
、.Loyalty and regret
Some people choose to be loyalMarriage, giving up the opportunity to be with the people he loves dearly. They are for the sake of the family andMarriageof stability and chose to sacrifice their ownLove。This choice is full of regret and pain, and deep down they still have feelings about the unattainableLoveForever keep in mind.
、.Rationality and control
There are those who control themselves through the highest reasonEmotionJin Yuelinis a typical example, he has been infatuated with all his lifeLin Huiyin, butLin HuiyinAlready married to someone else. Jin YuelinFor maintenanceMarriageof dignity andLin Huiyinof loyalty, choosing to remain rational and self-controlled. He never married, but his love remained in his heart forever.
Letting go and loving love is not because there is no love, but because it is noblerEmotionand responsibility. This choice, while painful and difficult, also shows one's character and integrity.
Loving but not being able to get, and not being able to love, is an unavoidable pain in life. However, even if they can't be together, people still miss and love each other. This kindIntimacyIt may not be understood by the outside world, but it is a kind of unswervingEmotion
May a lover eventually become a family member, which is this specialIntimacyExpectations and best wishes. Although they can't be together, they are still looking forward to the day when they can find happiness that belongs to each other.
There are many kinds of feelings and feelings in lifeIntimacy, some are predestined by fate, some are chosen by themselves. Whether it's love and can't be together, or ** love, every relationship is precious. In this world, there is one of the most beautifulIntimacy, is a relationship that loves each other but cannot be together. Although they can't be together, there is something special about this relationship and it can be an unforgettable experience in life. In this kind of relationship, people can accompany and understand each other, share each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and establish a deep tacit understanding andEmotionCommunication. Although they can't have each other's bodies and love, they have a special intimacy and tacit understanding. This kindIntimacyThere is no longer a need for commitment and romance, just the companionship and understanding of each other. And for those who choose to let go, they choose loyalty and sacrifice. They give up their own for the sake of each other's happinessLove, choose to be loyal toMarriageand family. This kind of letting go, although painful and difficult, shows a person's character and integrity. Whether they love each other but can't be together, or choose to let go, people are tormented by love and pain. But they still cherish and miss each other's love. I hope that lovers can eventually become married and achieve each other's happiness. In any case, this kind of love can't be togetherIntimacyIt is an experience of pursuit and bearing, and it is also a kind of cherishing and perseverance of love. Let us cherish this special fate and believe that one day there will be good results.