In an offline class for public welfare, when I heard the teacher say the word lotus flower, I felt fresh at the time, and at the same time, I also understood that it was to teach people to say good words and positive words.
Today, I flipped through the morning class group of family education, and saw a mother's sharing, which made me have a deeper understanding of the lotus flower in my mouth!
How can I spit lotus flowers in my mouth?
The nine-step method of spitting lotus flowers.
1.Focus on the positive: There are two sides to everything, keep a positive mindset.
2.Timely feedback: Learn Xi the instant feedback mechanism of the game to affirm the child's progress.
3.Marking behaviors: Discover the progress of your child's behavior every day, such as writing homework neatly, helping the family with housework, ......
4.Planting quality: Mom found you to be a self-disciplined, spontaneous, and responsible ......Child.
5.Express your feelings: Mom is really happy for you, Mom is proud of you......
6.Beautify the past: Reinforce what the child has done well in the past.
7.Looking forward to the future: children don't compare with anyone, just compare with their past, it doesn't matter who you are in the past, mom believes that your future will be great.
8.Switching protagonists: As your mother, I really feel very happy, and having a child like you is really a blessing that I cultivated in my previous life.
9.3 Ws (what, worked, were) Find three areas of good performance for your child every day.
Your child is the product of your repetitive thinking, come on!