There are many reasons why a woman is unhappy in her marriage, but if a woman will marry someone else, and a woman has good conditions, but chooses a man whose conditions are not as good as herself, and deliberately chooses to do so, her marriage is often not very happy. Why is that?
Many women are highly educated, good-looking, and have an okay income, but they want to find a man who loves them very much. Such a woman often chooses a man who is worse than herself in all aspects, that is, to marry. They feel that when they find such a man, he will treat him better, take more care of her, and love her more.
But in fact, after getting married, many men are not as good as a woman thinks, do not take care of her as she expects, and even have some tempers, introverts, unmotivated or some bad habits. As a result, a lot of problems slowly appeared in the marriage.
In fact, this is a problem of the original family. This girl may be very lacking in love in the family of origin, such as parents who are partial, are good to other children in the family, and are not good enough for her. When she was fourteen or fifteen years old and knew that a girl would marry someone in the future and live with a man for the rest of her life, she was very eager to leave the family early, saying that in the future she would find a man who loved her very much, and did not need her parents or siblings.
Another situation is also very common when the physical and mental therapist is healing, that is, the marriage of the parents is not good enough, there are often conflicts, quarrels, and even the parents are divorced. So the girl is full of fear about marriage. So when she chose a partner later, she thought that she must find a man who is very good to her and will not quarrel with her, even if her conditions are worse, she doesn't care.
There are many such cases in our therapist training courses. Many students are unhappy in their marriages because of this. Of course, we have also healed many cases. As long as a woman is unhappy in marriage, a large proportion of them are due to this reason.
Therefore, if we want our marriage to be happy and want us to live a good life, in addition to learning methods and skills, learning to get along with husband and wife, we must also know what the root cause of the problem is. If we can understand the root of the problem, it is the best, if we can't understand it, we can deliberately learn some relevant knowledge Xi understand our lives.